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Tented weddings are extremely popular, and for good reason! Like many brides, I chose to hold our reception under a tent to embrace the beauty of our location, to ensure a lovely backdrop for our design ideas, and to create a certain “feel” for our event. Because Southern Weddings is dedicated to bringing you the practical as well as the pretty, we wanted to take a few minutes today to offer some tips before you settle on this route for your own event. We’re doing it with the help of Sperry Tents, a total stand-out in the world of rentals!

Now, I used Sperry Tents for my own wedding, so I may be a little biased — but I was a fan of their graceful, classic sailcloth tents, hand-milled tent poles, and cheerful pennant flags long before I was engaged! Sperry Tents are handcrafted by sailmakers in coastal Massachusetts. They have a classic aesthetic that celebrates casual elegance, and as such, they pair effortlessly with any landscape, from a field to a beach to a sculptured backyard. They are simply gorgeous!

Gayle Brooker

Working with the folks at Sperry, we came up with a list of suggestions for those interested in holding a tented wedding:

1. Assess your bad weather tolerance. Before you sign on the dotted line, honestly ask yourself how you would feel if it rained on your big day. No one wants to imagine a gloomy wedding, but are you the type to roll with the punches and embrace a muddy hem? Or would you rather not add the stress of weather-watching to your final wedding to-do list? There’s no right answer, but it is important to be honest with yourself.

2. Make a bad weather plan. If you’ve decided you’re hardy enough for a tented wedding, come up with a back-up plan. If you’re marrying at a vineyard, your back-up plan might be an indoor event space on site. If you’re marrying in a field, however, your back-up plan might be rain flaps. My rain plan was one reason I was so happy to go with Sperry – most rental companies’ rain flaps are REALLY ugly, but Sperry’s are made from the same materials as the rest of their tent and are, if not ideal, still lovely. They’re also included in the standard rental package, so you don’t have to worry about an add-on expense!

The Sperry tent from my own wedding!

3. Be realistic about the rental needs that come with a tent. Some folks assume a tented wedding will be less expensive than renting a ballroom or other venue, but that’s generally not the case. If you’re pitching your tent near an existing structure, you might only need to rent tables and chairs. If, however, you’re not near a fully-equipped venue, your rental list might run considerably longer, from a generator to portable restrooms to flatware, glassware, china, and a complete bar set up!

4. Communicate with your vendors about their needs. As you draw up your rental list, be sure to work closely with your caterer and other vendors to make sure their needs are met. For instance, your caterer might require a separate cook tent for food preparation. Likewise, the space needs of a band or a DJ might influence the size tent you need to reserve.

Gayle Brooker

5. Plan your space carefully. I don’t know about y’all, but spatial issues are not my forte, and when faced with trying to figure out how many ___ foot tables could fit in our ___ foot tent, I was baffled. Enter: Sperry’s AMAZING space planning tool. After selecting your tent size and shape on their website, you can add and play around with a ton of different decor options to come up with the perfect arrangement. I can’t emphasize enough how helpful this was to me!! Here’s the layout we finally settled on:

6. Reserve add-ons for the weather. Have your heart set on a tented wedding in July in the South? Bless your heart! Consider renting fans to cool guests off at dinner and on the dance floor. Getting married in the cooler months? Portable heaters can make a world of difference.

7. Make a pick-up plan. If you’re organizing things without a wedding planner, remember that you’ll be responsible for organizing pick-up of your rentals post-event. Most tent and rental companies will want to disassemble and pick up their items the next morning, so coordinate with your venue to make sure this is okay.

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Sperry Tents are available for rent through their network of licensed providers throughout the South. For much more information and to reserve yours, head to their website!

emily Written with love by Emily
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  1. avatar Lisa reply

    I failed on number one and knew I therefore needed an indoor venue, but I would LOVE to attend a wedding under a Sperry tent!

  2. avatar Sarah reply

    I totally fell hard for Sperry tents long before I got even got engaged, but with all the additional rental costs described above (plus the stage and dance floor, oy!), a regular Sperry at the size we needed was out of reach. The gal we’re working with at the tent company offered us a great compromise- we’re having the wooden Sperry poles but with a plain vinyl top. This ends up being only a little bit more than a regular tent with the metal poles! Totally worth it! Plus we’re getting all the benefits you mentioned (layout planning, pretty sidewalls, etc) since we’re going with a company that carries Sperry tents! I’m still a little sad we won’t be able to stare up at those hand stitched lines though…

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Happy Valentine’s Day week, belles! We’ve been saving some of our most fabulous pink weddings for this week, and we hope y’all love them as much as we do!

When it comes to meaningful venues, Catherine and Kyle hit the jackpot. They were married at the incredibly beautiful Swan House, which was built in 1926 by Catherine’s great great grandparents, and has since been the venue for many special family memories. The Swan House is an iconic landmark in Atlanta, and it was the perfect place for Catherine and Kyle to combine their New York City sensibilities and Catherine’s Southern roots at their stylish wedding.

Thanks so much for Pink Shoe Photography for sharing Catherine and Kyle’s wedding with us!

Tell us about finding your wedding dress. This was my favorite part–I wish I could do it all over again! I found my dress in New York at Mark Ingram. The designer was having a trunk show and I decided to try on my dress. It was perfect and so unique. I’ve never seen anything like it.

We decided to do a first look because we knew we were both going to be really nervous. We felt it would help us relax and enjoy the ceremony.

Did you write your own vows? If so, what was your favorite phrase, verse or line? No we did not. It would have been too nerve wracking!
What readings, if any, did you have at your ceremony? My good friend read the E.E. Cummings poem “I carry your heart with me (I carry it in).”

Our favorite detail of the wedding was: The location. It was very special to me because my great great grandparents built the house in 1926. My father spent time there, and since he is no longer with us, I wanted to honor him and have his presence with us that day.

How amazing are these linens? The stripes are such a unique touch, but the neutral colors keep the overall look classic and elegant.

Our wedding cake was amazing! My friend had the same lady make it for her wedding three years ago, and the moment I tasted it, I knew that it had to be my cake. The lady is the head baker at Ingles grocery store in northern Georgia and she makes a mean buttercream!

What was your most memorable moment about your wedding day? Being with all of our friends and family for the whole weekend. Our guests traveled from all over the USA and we were so thankful for that. We loved celebrating with everyone and getting down on the dance floor.

How did y’all meet? Tell us your love story. We met on a cold, snowy January night at a bar in New York City, where we were both attending separate birthday parties. I approached him because I thought he was good looking, and we ended up hanging out all night! At the end of the night, I realized I left my credit card at the first bar I went to that evening, and since it was too late to go get it, Kyle asked me if I wanted to meet with him this week so we could get it together. Since then, we have been inseparable.
Tell us all about the proposal! I went to happy hour with my girlfriends after work and told Kyle I would be home at 9 p.m. He was nervously waiting in our apartment for me to come home, and I ended up staying out until 10:30. When I finally walked in the door, he had balloons, fake cocktail rings and Full House’s Jessie and the Rippers song “Forever” playing in the background. It was an amazing moment that I will never forget.
When did y’all get married? April 6, 2013
How many friends, family members, and loved ones attended your wedding? 200
Tell us about some of the songs you used throughout your wedding and why you chose them. I walked down the aisle to a string quartet playing Elvis’ “Can’t Help Falling in Love” and we left to The Beatles’ “All You Need is Love.” Our first dance was to Nikki Bluhm’s cover of “Danny’s Song.” We had a very difficult time agreeing on what our first dance song should be, and the week before our wedding, we went to see Nikki Bluhm in concert. She and her husband sang “Danny’s Song” and we fell in love with it!
What Southern details or traditions did you include in your celebration? What was Southern about your wedding? All of the food was traditional Southern food. Not living in the South has me constantly craving Southern food, so I thought it would be the perfect way to honor my heritage. Plus, I wanted the out-of-towners to experience the best food in the world!
What was the biggest challenge you had to overcome while planning your wedding? Two of Kyle’s sisters became pregnant and were due around the day of our wedding. They were unable to attend, and it was really heartbreaking not to have them there. The older sister ended up scheduling an emergency c-section and gave birth during our rehearsal dinner. So thankfully, they were at home in Brooklyn and not at the dinner!
What advice do you have for folks currently planning a wedding? Elope! Just kidding! Surround yourself with good people, don’t get caught up in other people’s drama, and don’t stress too much. Everything will end up perfectly.
What’s next for you as a couple? What are you most looking forward to about married life? We are still living in New York City and hope to eventually move back down South. We are excited to see where life takes us!

Photographer: Pink Shoe Photography / Planner: Debbie Felker, by Special Arrangement, LLC / Venue: The Swan House / Florist, Catering, and Rentals: Keith Robinson, Gloriosa / Cake Baker: Tammy Aldridge / Bride’s Gown: Junko Yoshioka-Rio / Paper Products: Peggy Peel and Paces Paper / Bride’s Veil: Saks / Hair Stylist: Debbe Myers / Makeup Artist: Page Luther / Bride’s Shoes: Jimmy Choo / Bridesmaids’ Dresses: BCBG / Groom’s Attire: Red by Hugo Boss / Groomsmen Attire: Men’s Wearhouse / Band: Anita

lisa Written with love by Lisa
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  1. avatar Wedding Rental Supplies @ Apex Tent and Party reply

    Absolutely gorgeous and touching wedding! Loved this beautiful place and also the beautiful details.

  2. avatar Emily reply

    I adore Catherine’s gown, and of course the romantic Swan House is a jaw-dropping backdrop for their wedding! So fun to hear more of its history. Also, I just found out that scenes from Catching Fire were filmed here, which makes this an even more exciting venue! :)

  3. avatar Amanda {Planning It All} reply

    Gorgeous venue!

  4. avatar Dana reply

    the flower in the cup is an adorable detail!

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  7. avatar Sarah G reply

    So lovely! I’m thinking about having my wedding here as well. Do you know where the reception was held? Thanks!

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When we started brainstorming people to reach out to for marriage advice in V6, Sarah Tucker was one of the first names that popped into my head. Sarah is the stylish gal behind Sarah Tucker Events and Sarah Tucker Styles, and I am constantly inspired by the way she talks about her husband and their marriage. They are best friends, and even after four years of marriage, they are still completely smitten with one another. We are so happy to share her sweet advice with y’all!

Jessica Lorren

I always tell people, “I got the best one! How did I do that?” And it is no joke–I really did. One of the best pieces of advice I can give someone about marriage is to tell anyone who will listen to you just how great your spouse is. It’s great when they are in earshot, but it’s really special when they overhear you raving about them. I could write novels about the kindness my husband has shown me, but since I don’t, I make sure everyone knows just how great he is all the time. Including him! If you meet me in person, I can guarantee you’ll hear “I hit the jackpot!” or”I’ve got a big crush on that husband of mine.” I have no fear of mush, and you will never hear me speak ill of my husband.

I was five when I first met my husband, and he was seven. We watched each other grow up; he watched my chicken legs get longer and I watched him become so handsome, my knees would get wobbly. We were “just friends” for twenty years, even though our dates and friends always suspected we had feelings for each other. He became one of my closest confidants and the person I’d always run to for advice. My point is, we were friends before we were anything else, and that has been huge for us. It was an incredible foundation to build our relationship on. He’s still my best friend. I don’t just love him–I really like him too.

Be ready and willing to sacrifice. Don’t keep score in marriage. Never hold a grudge–seriously, never. Get over it.

If you have an argument, make sure you are not just hungry or tired–or worse, both!

Take daily walks together.

For heaven’s sake, talk about your finances! Set financial goals as a couple. Lay it all out there. It may be uncomfortable to talk about at first, but it will give you so much peace!

To simplify most of what I’ve learned about marriage in the last three years, make decisions together. Even the small ones. The two of you must make decisions together, as it affects the whole. You are one now.

Jessica Lorren

Keep up with Sarah:
Website: Sarah Tucker Events
Blog: Sarah Tucker Styles
Facebook: Sarah Tucker Events
Twitter: @sgmtucker
Instagram: @sgmtucker

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