It’s a season of change in the Southern Weddings office, as it is for many of you! Like many changes, these ones are bittersweet, but overall so good, and so exciting for everyone!
As many of you know, Lara, Marissa, and I were bursting with pride last week as Sierra, Nicole, and our two interns from this semester, Anna and Caitlin, all graduated from the University of North Carolina’s journalism school. We even held a little Tarheel blue graduation party in their honor :)
Graduation means they’re ready for new adventures, of course! We are super proud of Anna, who is heading South to Charleston to work at Charleston Weddings for the summer. We are OVERJOYED that Nicole will be in the Southern Weddings office full time from now on, continuing to bring you the best wedding goodness the South has to offer!
Finally, we are incredibly proud of Sierra, who is moving to one of her favorite Southern cities – Nashville! She’ll be starting a new job as a bonafide graphic designer, and we just can’t wait to see where it takes her! (We’re also placing bets on how soon her first Taylor Swift sighting will be.) We asked her to write up a little something about her time at Southern Weddings, and this is what she said:
My conclusion after writing this post was simply this — golly, I am SUCH a lucky gal!! In just two years, I gained more experience than I EVER thought possible in one job. I was able to travel – for photo shoots, to work at weddings, and to review a Honey List destination. I was able to be involved in a brand that is SO me and SO fun! (80% of my clothes are even SW colors!) I was able to learn about a smaller company, one who values their readers immensely. I designed hundreds of graphics and image boards, wrote posts, shipped hundreds (perhaps thousands) of magazines, and was so involved with the making of V4, a fabulous publication that I still pick up every few weeks and reread.
From our Paper, Cotton, and Flour photo shoot
Besides the professional experience I’ve gained, being a part of the SW family was something I’ll always take with me. I remember when I first started working at SW, I would be shaking at the weekly office meetings I was so nervous, but all along I was encouraged to be myself, contribute my opinions fully, and be a confident, strong woman. And boy, did we have fun over the last few years! From tying bow ties and steaming wedding gowns with Nicole, to chocolate tasting contests, throwing poms and paper airplanes and watching The Bachelor/Bachelorette with Emily, to running around DC and having Lara and Marissa do my makeup for our SW staff shoot, to memories of working with Katharine and Whitney, I have had SO many good times! I want to thank Lara, Emily, Nicole and Marissa for being the best coworkers imaginable, to Lara for making it a possibility to even work at SW and to Nicole for being literally my “twin” and good, good friend throughout college. While I am sad to be leaving such a fabulous magazine, and I will miss you all tremendously, I know this not a real goodbye, and I am excited to be living up more Southern goodness over yonder in Nashville! As we like to say around here, may your tea always be sweet!
We love that Sierra, yes indeed we do. We couldn’t resist the opportunity to write her a few notes ourselves, interspersed with photos from her goodbye party earlier this week.
Sierra,
Biggest congratulations on graduating!! It’s been amazing to know you over the past two years and to see you work tirelessly on countless projects. I look up to you so much! I’ll always remember the first time we met, the awkward conversations we had when were first getting to know each other, and the long drives to photo shoots and weddings when you schooled me on country music. I know that the future is going to be incredibly rewarding for you and I can’t wait to hear about it!
xoxo, Nic
Dear sweet Sierra,
You are so incredibly talented, and I am so excited for you! I wish you all the best on your adventure in Nashville, but I am going to miss not being able to hear you on our calls, and your fabulous style! I know that you have amazing things ahead of you, and I cannot wait to come visit you in Nashvegas!
So much love,
Marissa
Sierra! I am SO excited for you to take over Nashville! Everyone you meet will be so blessed by your humor and heart and dedication. Over the last years, you have truly blown us all away and helped us take things to the next level in a million ways. We wouldn’t be where we are without you! Personally, I will also miss your kindness and thoughtful conversation. You are a treasure, Sierra. Things won’t be the same around here without you. But, the great thing is that I know your sweet parents will expect lots of visits… and we will too! Don’t be a stranger. You will always be a part of the SW family! Love, Lara
Dear Sierra,
I will always be thankful to you for introducing me to country music! And I know that as long as the Bachelor/Bachelorette is on air, we will have a reason to get together and discuss :) I know you’re going to do amazing things in Nashville and beyond, and I can’t wait to watch!
Much love,
Emily
You can see more from our yummy goodbye party right here! We would love for you to leave well wishes for all of our ladies in the comment section, as well as Nashville tips for Sierra! :)
I’m not from the South, however, I’ve always wanted to visit – I’d still like to place a badge on my blog. Where do you girls want it linked back to? :)
Hi Damaris! We would love to have you, Southern or not! A link to http://www.iloveswmag.com or http://www.sweetteasociety.com would be wonderful!
Oh my gosh, I absolutely love this idea! Beautiful centerpieces and dresses are great, but I hope that everyone can look back on their wedding and think of the wonderful emotions they felt because of the people and history involved. Hurray for Sweet Tea!
This is such a beautiful idea! I am getting my badge now! Would love to be a guest blogger on any of the topics surrounding the wonderful society so please don’t hesitate to ask!
this is cute but..picking a wedding date around the SEC schedule is going against the idea that the marriage is more important than the wedding. get married whenever you feel it is right, not so your husband can watch football. if the MARRIAGE is meant to be, then your husband shouldn’t care if he can watch a game or not.
Hi Caroline! Agreed! We went a little Southern tongue-in-cheek there. I think in context, the overall point still comes across strongly! :)
Caroline: I would definitely say SEC (specifically, Kentucky Wildcat) basketball is more important to schedule around ;)
Emily: This is soooo true for us that bleed blue…..all the weddings I attended during the SEC and NCAA Championship games had lounges with the KY Wildcats playing on the big screen. I kept thinking that maybe their first dances should have been to the UK fight song! Thankfully there was some bourbon or sweet tea being served up!
So in love with this!! I’ve already printed this out for our inspiration board in the office. Keep up the great work, SW ladies :)
I ADORE this. I keep saying this to clients – the marriage, the promise and your relationship is SO much more important than the wedding – the chargers you choose, the lighting you pick, or the peonies you can’t have are INSIGNIFICANT in the light of a blessed marriage. I wan to be part of this NOW! :) xo
The reason why I so passionately love Southern Weddings, why I follow the blog, why I follow the editors, why I keep coming back for more…is because y’all are more! I’ve been married for almost 3 years now, I’m not planning my wedding anymore! Sure, I’m a wedding planner, but I have millions of resources to choose from. There are mountains of blogsites out there boasting the most beautiful details, the most gorgeous locations, etc. I think I can speak for a lot of your readers when I say, Southern Weddings is more than just a wedding blogsite. It’s about all the details in your manifesto. I’m just glad y’all figured out what we’ve known all along. ;) great job!
This perspective and mentality is my favorite thing about Southern Weddings! Thrilled to grab a badge and join in! :)
Oh, ladies…how bad would it be if I went out and snatched up a husband just so I could join the Sweet Tea Society?! Maybe I’ll stick to being an honorary single supporter for now :) But honestly, I agree with the other comments – this is why I LOVE SW! Thanks for keeping things real and in proper perspective. Your work is so appreciated!
THIS is why Southern Weddings is my favorite wedding magazine/wedding blog. OBSESSED with this!!! Thank you so much for for always going above and beyond the typical wedding blog, and reminding us what it’s really all about.
PS. Our wedding falls on the second weekend of the 2013 SEC football schedule. We will have a TV at the reception :)
I picked my wedding date around Florida football! :)
I am absolutely IN LOVE with this! So beautifully written! I am not a bride, nor am I interested in being one, but I am still a frequent reader of this blog. I love that you cater to weddings in the south but its so much more than that – you embrace the charming culture and your content is enjoyable even for those of us who aren’t planning a wedding! Thank you! :)
Stephanie, your comment just made my heart happy! Thank you so much for that!!
This couldn’t have been more perfectly timed for me! I’m single, but I have several friends who have invested lots of time and money into their weddings (and so have I), only to now be experiencing the rough patches that come with the first years of marriage. This is such an encouragement and a good reminder for when they confide in me. Thank you!
I’m not from the south but moved here and live in Savannah, GA. This is sooooo great!! I love sweet tea and everything that goes with southern hospitality! Newest member :)
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I LOVE this! I totally had to pick my wedding date (and unfortunately wait until next spring) due to UT football season! But I could never be that girl I curse who puts a wedding on a game day. Love love love it!
Glad to see you making a statement in the right direction. I think you are on the front edge of the next big trend. As a wedding photographer of 20+ years, I am a little sickened by the detail driven, fauxtography, styled shoot insanity created by wedding blogs and magazines. Enough already. Styled portraits and color palettes are NOT what weddings are all about. We have lost the people, their real emotions, and the meaning of it all under a pile of THINGS. I’m actually working on a book born out of this same frustration…..that we are all getting just a bit too carried away with the pretty pictures and forgetting the real meaning of marriage and connection.
So glad to see our sentiments resonated with you, Tanya!
Such wise words!! Weddings are such a big thing it can be easy to lose perspective, but the long haul is definintely the more precious part of the marriage…
I love it, every little bit! Until I met my husband I never ever would’ve thought I’d pick our wedding date based on what team Alabama was playing that weekend and where (being a Tarheel born and bred and not caring for football at all before then), but we sure did! That weekend Alabama was playing Kentucky at Kentucky. Haha.
I’m all about every bit of this, and I’d love to have a glass of sweet tea on a porch with all y’all! :)
This is a lovely idea! Great job ladies! lookin’ forward to it!
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I love this! Makes me want to move back to the south…just a little bit. Love the concept and the name. I miss my “sweet tea’!
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I love your wisdom nuggets! So true! My best friend got married in her mother’s dress (something old) . I totally agree with you that LOVE is the most important ingredient to a successful marriage! Beautiful, beautiful post!
I’m a little late but I joined today! I LOVE this sweet idea and I’m super excited to share it on my blog (I already added the badge.) I love the magazine, blog and I’m super excited about the Sweet Tea Society all the way from the Pacific Northwest! xoxo
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