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Today’s Southern Newlywed post felt a lot like getting together with a friend to catch up over coffee…and for good reason! Y’all may remember Meredith from the wedding planning series she guest posted for us while she was working as Lara’s nanny a few years ago, or from her and Beau’s gorgeous Florida wedding. Well, shortly after said wedding, these two moved a short drive away from their venue and settled into newlywed life in beautiful Rosemary Beach. It was so much fun to hear from them now that they’re two years into marriage, and to get a peek at their cozy, beachy home!

Thank you so much to Dear Wesleyann for capturing these photos!

The couple Meredith (25) and Beau (25)
Years married: Two years as of 7/11–yay!
Where you live We live in between Destin and Panama City Beach, Florida on a little 18-mile strip along the Gulf called Highway 30A.
Tell us a little bit about yourselves. Beau and I are originally from Norman, Oklahoma. We grew up there, but after we got married, we moved to Florida two years ago this past 4th of July. When people ask us how or why we came this way, it’s hard for me to explain. It just all sort of happened, and that’s kind of how our life goes! We take big leaps of faith prior to having a place to land, and the Lord is always faithful. We currently own and run three growing businesses: Beau has his hands in real estate, and I have my hands full-time in our vacation rental company, Benchmark30A, and work part-time growing a business with Rodan + Fields. These things definitely keep our plate full, but it is exciting to see the fruits of our labor come to fruition over time. We have been blessed with an amazing community of friends down here on 30A, which has been such a sweet gift, since both of our families still live in Oklahoma. We have lived in our new home on 30A for almost eight months, and it has been such a joy to make it feel like a home. We hope you enjoy a peek inside!
Tell us your love story in one sentence. High school sweethearts fall deeply in love senior year, choose long distance for three years, separate for one year, come back together spring of senior year of college, get engaged six months later, married six months after that, and move to the beach! (Find the unabridged version here.)

Do you rent or own? What are your hopes and plans for the future in this area? Tell us a little bit about where you live. We own a sweet little triplex (like a duplex, but three) unit in north “Prominence” on 30A. It’s about four miles west of where we said “I do!” in a town called Rosemary Beach, and is walking distance from “The Hub,” a new development that has some fun restaurants, shops, and live music almost every night. It also has a mega-screen, so in the fall, it’s the best place to watch football with our friends! Trying to pinpoint our plans and dreams is slightly comical to think about, because I don’t think either of us could have ever guessed we would be where we are today: running three businesses of our own (none of which relate to our education), and living at the beach almost 1000 miles from where we had always called home. But God knew, and that’s all that matters! But, if I were to take a moment to dream, I would hope to start a family here, build a home on some sort of water, and continue to grow in community. Our area is filled with some of the most peaceful waterfront areas (Gulf, Dune Lakes, Bay), so it seems silly to not take advantage of the beauty!
Tell us about the process of moving in together. Do you have any tips for blending your two styles? Moving in together was a lot of fun. When we first got married, we were knee-deep in the process of flipping a condo. When we moved in, we didn’t have any countertops, a sink, or finished tiling, and definitely were without furnishings. But, it was a fun process, and we did it together. During that process, we quickly learned three things: I tend to lean towards a lighter style, Beau tends to lean towards a darker style, and we both wanted something nice and home-y. When combining our styles, we picked darker wood floors and wood accents to contrast with my lighter choices of furniture, but ultimately, Beau knew that making a house a home was something that brought me a lot of joy, and he wanted me to have fun with the process–it was sweet.

What is your favorite part of being married? Morning coffee time, hands down. It was the thing I looked forward to most before we got married, and it is the thing we still cherish most each day. We were long distance for the majority of our relationship, so we never got to experience the simple joys of dating in person. Getting to wake up with Beau, grab some coffee, and set aside some time to pray and talk together each morning is the best.
What has been the most surprising thing about marriage? There are so many surprises–ha! You think you know your spouse after dating for five years, but then you live together, and it opens up a whole new can of worms! For instance, I had no idea that Beau was slightly obsessive about his teeth…brushing, whitening, mouth wash, etc.?! But, in all seriousness, I think I had this slight fear of the unknown with marriage. I knew what I hoped for, but the world often tells you of all the hardships, breaks, and struggles, and that you need to prepare, or else! But marriage has been such a blessing. It refines you, restores you, and brings so much joy. Beau is my best friend. Every day is different and just plain fun :)

Where do you splurge and where do you save when decorating? What are some of your favorite sources for home things? Since we live in a vacation area, a lot of people sell homes fully furnished. So, when we left our first condo, we left everything and had to start over from scratch–yikes! Because of that, the furnishing process was a little harder than usual. We wanted to fill all the rooms, but we also wanted to stay within budget. To help with this, we waited for big holiday sales, had two items that were gifted from both of our parents (such a huge help and very generous), and would search furniture sites that made items that looked like the fancy stuff, but at a much better price tag. Some of my favorites are Birch Lane, Wayfair, Overstock, Joss & Main, and Home Decorators!

Which items from your wedding registry do you use the most often? We registered for some great Juliska dishes from a local boutique back home that we use daily. I love all my dishes, but specifically, the “pasta bowls” are something that I definitely want more of…they’re a great depth and width (like a plate with sides) so you can use them for more than just pasta! I also love our Le Cadeaux plastic glasses and our Cuisinart blender–they’re all used daily!
What is your go-to weeknight meal? Weekend meal? We rotate through some easy ones pretty frequently. The crockpot is my best friend, so we do taco bowls with crockpot chicken fajita meat often! We also love an easy meat and veggie combo: steaks, pork chops, and bun-less burgers with brussels sprouts or green beans are other go-tos!
What’s your favorite place to find recipes? I don’t really have a particular blog or cookbook that I go to regularly. We try (keyword, try!) to eat a paleo diet as much as possible, so when I search, it will often be “paleo (fill-in-the-blank).” I follow PaleOMG and Lexi’s Clean Kitchen on Instagram, does that count?!

What’s your best tip for balancing your relationship and other life priorities? Oh, dear. This is something we are still working on, and something that has taken some definite trial and error. Our businesses are so intertwined, so it has taken intentional effort to try and separate marriage from work, and even life from work. In the process, we have come to realize which (work-related) conversations will work best with me stepping out of them, and which are best discussed between just the two of us as a husband listening to a wife, or vice versa. Although this is something we are still working on (tips welcomed!), it is really sweet to work with your best friend who understands your job through and through, can celebrate the progress with you, and pray with you in the times of uncertainty. But at the end of the day, he is my husband first, and I am his wife, and that is our main priority–the rest pales in comparison.
How does your family handle finances? Do you use a set budget? When it comes to budgeting, neither of us is naturally skilled with finances, and we recognize that. I am the more detail-oriented person between the two of us, so it was quickly decided that I would manage the finances. To help with this, we have taken a financial class as a couple through our church, sought counsel from people who have similar professions, looked into some books that could help us, and often have to reach out to our amazing accountant with any questions we may have. The thing we struggled with most in the beginning is that neither of our incomes is a set amount. They are constantly changing, and in a town run on tourism, our spring/summer far outweighs the rest of the year. So, we make sure to save accordingly, never suppress a generous thought, and always, without question, give 10 percent of our increase back to God.

What most makes your house feel like home? Definitely pictures of family and friends and wall decor. When we first moved in and all the walls were blank, it just felt empty and a little bit cold, lacking life. But, once we hung items, it really made a difference!
What is your favorite memory from your wedding? To be honest, that day was slightly a blur! All the pretty details and things were displayed, and when I look back at pictures, I can picture seeing some of those things around…but honestly, the best part was the experience of both of our worlds colliding for a night. We were long distance, so my friends had never met his friends, and vice versa, and it was a sweet experience to spend a weekend celebrating with all of our favorite people!
How do you remember your wedding in your home? (Pictures, mementos, etc.) I’m sure it’s a combination of the fact that we are newlyweds and that our wedding day was such a sweet day for us, but I have items everywhere! Pictures, paintings, guest signings, and even our wedding invitation framed on display (I loved it so much)!

Before getting married, I wish someone had told me… Beau: Marriage will refine you and bring forth any and all selfish tendencies you may have had as a single person prior to marriage. Before, every decision you made was based on your own thoughts or opinions. When you get married, it’s no longer about me or the decisions I will make, but us and the decisions we will make. Seek God to help you to be selfless in all your actions and words. Meredith: It’s okay to not be prepared or perfect prior to marriage. I was so concerned with the fact that we were long distance, and that maybe we weren’t getting adequate education or preparation for what was ahead. Is preparation great–yes! But will you ever be perfectly prepared for what lies ahead–no. And that’s completely okay. Seek God, give grace, and choose love.
This year, our family is most excited about… Beau: Seeing the fruit of our hard work over the past years come to fruition in our businesses has been really exciting–we look forward to what’s to come! Meredith: A vacation :) Somewhere all-inclusive with lots of chips and guac!

Thank you so much for sharing your hearts and home with us, Meredith and Beau! We miss y’all!

A little reminder: we’d love to hear from you! Our hope is to feature REAL couples in the South – not just folks who write blogs (though we love them, too!), but also your inspiring friend, super talented cousin, or neighbor with the cutest house – the kind of person everyone would love to “e-meet.” If that sounds like you or someone you know, take a peek at our Southern Newlywed submission page and shoot us an email!

lisa Written with love by Lisa
  1. avatar Vicky reply

    This is seriously the cutest place! We have a similar color scheme and style in our home. It just gave me some great ideas and some inspiration. :) Thanks for sharing!

  2. avatar Elizabeth reply

    LOVE Meredith and Beau’s decorating style! Their home is gorgeous. <3

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We get little peeks into Kristin and Kyle’s house every week during our Google hangout staff meetings, and I know I’m not the only one who has been anxious for a full tour! Ever the picture of Southern hospitality, they graciously agreed to share with us and y’all on Southern Newlywed today. Anyone who knows the Winchesters knows how much they value their marriage and are willing to do the hard work to make their life together truly wonderful, so I loved reading their interview answers and soaking up their wisdom…even more than I loved admiring the colorful patterns they’ve sprinkled throughout their Orlando home. Y’all enjoy!

Thanks so much to our Blue Ribbon Vendor Kt Crabb for snapping these photos!

The couple: Kristin (32) and Kyle (33) Winchester
Years married: Almost four
Where they live: Orlando, Florida
Tell us a little bit about yourselves I am “pearls, monograms, and pops of color” and Kyle is “Jordans, hoops, and hip hop.” While seemingly different on the surface, what makes us work is that at our core, we are united by a shared belief in Jesus, a love for family, and an unconditional love and willingness to move mountains for one another. Our splash of differences makes for many adventures and a whole lot of fun.
Tell us your love story in one sentence. We meet in college, dated across three states for the better part of our 20s, and have been blissfully married for almost four years.
Do you rent or own? What are your hopes and plans for the future in this area? Tell us a little bit about where you live. We managed to find and buy the most darling Virginia craftsman in the heart of stucco and tile country. Our neighborhood is like a little piece of heaven–we are within walking distance of a grocery store, a few restaurants, and downtown merchants (think dry cleaner, nail salon, barber, etc.). We decided early on in our marriage that for the foreseeable future, we would rather live in more modest housing with better proximity to the goings on of wherever we were living. So, while we have sacrificed square footage and any semblance of a yard (umm, we share an alley way instead of having a backyard), we live right in the middle of many things that we love to see and do around the Orlando area.

What is your favorite memory from your wedding? The moment the church doors opened and we saw each other for the first time. I asked KPW and he agreed. My heart starts to beat faster every time I think of that moment.
How do you remember your wedding in your home? We have framed pictures in more than one room and the family bible that was a wedding gift from my grandmother is open in our living room. On a little less serious but super sentimental note, we have a stack of personalized stadium cups (we used them for our wedding toast at the reception) that we use on an almost daily basis.
What has been the most surprising thing about marriage? While I had a sneaky feeling marriage with KPW was going to be one big adventure, I discounted how much I would love the simple act of spending time with him doing mundane tasks, and how, after 12+ years together, I would still get butterflies when getting dressed up to go out to dinner or see him after being gone on a business trip. Kyle is still surprised by how seamless our transition to married life has been. As an only child, he was apprehensive, to say the least, about giving up his “independence.” We both credit our transition to our intentionality in preparing for our marriage and an ongoing effort to give love patterned after our love languages.

What is your favorite part of being married? Kyle’s favorite thing about being married is having someone cook dinner for him 5+ nights a week (lucky for him, I love to cook). My favorite part of being married is how much I laugh. KPW can make me laugh so hard, I cry, and and our “silly” moments are some of my favorites (think: videos of KPW rapping while driving).
Who cooks dinner? I handle 98% of the cooking, but since getting married, KPW has become quite the handy sous chef. He is also really good at picking up takeout from our favorite sushi restaurant when we’ve both had really long days and are too tired to cook.
What is your go-to weeknight meal? Weekend meal? The crockpot is my BFF on weekdays (like for this salsa chicken) and we love making breakfast on the weekends (like these banana nut muffins).
What’s your favorite place to find recipes? My recipe repertoire is made up from a combination of blogs (Skinny Taste, Gimme Some Oven, Iowa Girl Eats, Sally’s Baking Addiction) and tried-and-true family recipes (chicken pastry, sloppy joes, chicken vegetable soup).

Which items from your wedding registry do you use the most often? Besides our favorite Pottery Barn towels and sheets (do yourself a favor and register for nice linens), the “fancy” kitchen tools get the most use. If you plan to cook any meals at home, I highly recommend registering for a grill pan, a mixer (it is the best for shredding chicken), and a pizza stone. And if you have a sweet tooth, you won’t be upset about registering for an ice cream maker. We have loved mixing up batch after bath of ice cream in the summer, and it’s a great way to meet the neighbors.
What different decisions, if any, would you make for your registry if you knew then what you knew now? I would have followed Emily’s lead and picked out mix-and-match china. I love our good china but think we would use it even more if it had a bit more flexibility, and a perhaps a pop of color. I also wish we had registered for a second set of sheets for our bed. I can’t stress enough how much I have appreciated having nice linens. There is something so comforting about climbing into a warm and cozy bed after a long day.

Tell us about the process of moving in together. Do you have any tips for blending your two styles? Two words for you: brown sofas. I have worked hard to decorate around and graciously accept some “in very good shape” pieces of furniture that were a package deal with KPW. The blending of styles has been more of a phasing in, instead of a flipping of the switch, process. My advice is to take things slow and not just buy and replace because everything doesn’t look “Pinterest-worthy.” Our sofas (while not my favorite) are great anchor pieces, and since I didn’t replace them, I had a little extra money to pick up a new entertainment piece off Craigslist and splurge on some fun fabric for our ottoman. I also think that having conversations and making sure both parties feel represented during the decorating process is important. I will admit that I lucked out with KPW, as he lets me do crazy things like hang pink curtains and paint our upstairs stark white. But, I also know this is because he trusts me to make decorating decisions that reflect well on our family. In turn, I love him enough to balance the pink pillows with some manly wooden tables and two televisions in our family room.
What most makes your house feel like home? On the surface, hanging drapes and organizing my kitchen. It is amazing how much more put together a house feels once the curtains are hung and fresh towels are in the bathrooms. And being able to walk around the kitchen and pull things out of the cabinets to throw together a quick meal is a huge step in feeling at home.

Where do you splurge and where do you save when decorating? What are some of your favorite sources for home things? It is a well-known fact that if you lined up 10 lovely and similar tables in a row, I would inevitably pick the most expensive table in the bunch. With that in mind, I have had to manage my expectations and realize that decorating is going to be a lifetime process. KPW’s job is going to have us moving a few more times before we settle down for the long haul, so when we do splurge on something, we try to make sure it is a piece of furniture or décor that can move with us and fit wherever we live next (see: our beloved headboard and Craigslist entertainment center). Much of our supplemental décor (lamps, storage, etc.) comes from a variety of low budget sources: Target, HomeGoods, Ikea, thrifting, and Craiglist.
What is one small way you love or serve your spouse? I go grocery shopping and give Kyle space (he is an only child). Kyle graciously lets me hang pink curtains and hog the covers.

What’s your best tip for balancing your relationship and other life priorities (work, personal time, extended family, etc.)? This is an ongoing challenge, but something that we’re willing to fight through because we value our relationship above all other life priorities. We have to constantly communicate, re-evaluate, and set new boundaries when things change. With our current careers, we both work long hours and live far from extended family, so we have to work hard to intentionally plan down time and trips back home to visit friends and family. We value our weekends and quickly learned that with busy weeks, we benefit from regularly unscheduled and unplanned weekends to recharge our batteries.
Do you have a favorite date night idea to share? One? How about five?

Is there anything else about your home or family life that you think our readers would be interested in? KPW’s job is moving us just down the road to Tampa, Florida. While we are excited about this opportunity, we’re heartbroken to have to sell our beloved first “together” home after only being here a year! But it taught me an important life lesson: there’s no telling how long you might be somewhere, so wherever possible, hang curtains and pictures (command strips are my BFF) and dig into the community around you: try new restaurants, find a church, make a new friend who will meet you for lunch, etc. Try to make your dwelling pace (no matter how temporary) a home. I know, without a doubt, we will look back on our time in Orlando with great joy, because we made the best of the time we were here. PS: If you are looking for a house in the greater-Orlando area, let me know ;)

lisa Written with love by Lisa
  1. avatar Justin DeMutiis reply

    I would be sad to leave this beautiful home as well! But I would love to welcome you to Tampa! Please feel free to reach out if you and your husband would like any advice on neighborhoods, realtors, restaurants, etc! I would be happy to help and would love to meet you!

  2. avatar Rhiannon reply

    My fave couple EVER. Love the Winnys!

  3. avatar Amy reply

    Oh, love the colors of your new home. Light, airy, with a nice flow. Seems to fit the couple. We at wish them a world of love and laughter forever!

  4. avatar Sara reply

    I love, love, love Kristin’s floral bedding – can she share where it’s from? Such a gorgeous home, I love how light and airy it is!

    • avatar Kristin reply

      Sara!! Thanks for your sweet words. Our floral/butterfly duvet bedding is from Pottery Barn. Happy hunting!! xo.

  5. avatar Christine reply

    This is such a sweet article and such a cute house! I love hearing about the early years of marriage as a bride to be myself. <3

  6. avatar Erin, Attention to Darling reply

    Love this home tour! Such a cute style home and those Lilly pillows in the office make my heart sing. Also a big fan of nice linens, couldn’t agree with you more on having those on your registry.

  7. avatar Lauren reply

    Kristin, would you be willing to share where you found your curtains?! Thanks a mil! xo

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