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Like so many weddings these days, Katharine’s will be a destination affair, with only about 5% of her guests local to the Boston area.  To keep her guests informed, she and her groom put together a wedding website chock-full of helpful and hilarious information.  Read on for more details and a few sneak peeks!

From Katharine: Last week, I revealed Kyle’s and my pick for a wedding photographer.  For those of you who missed the post, any guesses as to who we chose?   Take a peek here!

This week, we want to show off one of the very first things we checked off our to-do list.  While most couples dive right into photography portfolios, catering menus and dress shopping, my tech-savvy fiancé and I headed straight to the web to create our very own wedding website.

I’d seen and heard of virtually all the wedding websites out there, but my very favorite sites were those hosted by Wedding Window.  After stumbling upon our first Wedding Window site, and Kyle + I fell hard and fast for their highly-customizable, fully-loaded sites.

But let’s back up a minute.  Why bother with a wedding website in the first place?  Besides the fact that it’s fun as all get out to watch a couple’s love story unfold on the world wide web and to see their upcoming wedding take shape, there’s an infinitely more useful and practical side that makes wedding websites a must-have for today’s modern bride.

1. The 4 W’s: With a wedding website, a couple can easily – and interactively – share all the who, whats, whens and wheres of their big day with family and friends.  Think of it as a one-stop shop for your guests to plan for your wedding and share in your celebration – from both near and afar.   Want to make sure dear Aunt Sally knows when and where the reception is and how she’ll be getting home after a long night of dancing?  Have a list of hotels where your out-of-town guests can book rooms near the festivities?  Need to let everyone know your wedding is a western-themed event?  A wedding website is the way to go, folks.

2. Introductions: It’s a guarantee your family and friends will feel more involved in and get more excited for your big day if they’ve been introduced to all the major players beforehand.  A wedding website is a fun and easy way to introduce your fiancé, bridal party and family to your guests.  Sure, they likely won’t remember every member of your twenty-person bridal party or memorize the names of each of your fiance’s six siblings, but it’s a good start.

3. Celebrate!  For most of you brides-to-be out there, you’ll likely enjoy a 9 – 18 month engagement.  A fun and interactive wedding website can help fill the down time between the excitement of your engagement and the anticipation of your big day.  One catch?  To keep the buzz up and questions down, make sure to update your site regularly.  Add new details about your weekend as you plan them, post those tear-worthy engagement pictures of you and your betrothed, start an online countdown.

From Emily: Though it was pretty much over once Wedding Window caught Katharine’s eye, there are several other great options out there for those who haven’t yet made a decision.  My sister chose Project Wedding for hers (we love that PW collaborated with stationery greats like Elum, KenzieKate, and Hello!Lucky to ensure beautiful interfaces!).  Wedding Wire has also collaborated with design-savvy businesses including Martha Stewart Weddings, Wedding Paper Divas, and the Green Kangaroo.  Lastly, we think Wedding JoJo has fabulous, clean, modern options.



Help a girl out: Did you create a wedding website for your big day?  Which site did you use, and what did you think?

Previously:

Intros + Inspiration Boards

The Bridesmaid Dress

The Photographer

Project Wedding and Wedding Window are SW sponsors.  For more info about advertising with us, email Katharine!

Written with love by Katharine
8 Comments
  1. avatar Marie Charity reply

    What a great looking website! How fun! You guys look so cute together!

  2. avatar ShannonP reply

    I used wedding window as well and I loved them! It was really easy to use and allowed us to convey a lot more information to our guests than there was room for in the invitations. We were able to introduce all of the wedding party and write up how we know them and why we love them as well as tell the story of how we met, how he proposed, what we’re doing now and what we’re doing next. Also, we kept the website live for a while after the wedding and were able to link all the professional photos through there as well so that guests could get a glimpse of them as well.

  3. avatar Leigh reply

    We used wedsite.com and have been very happy with our "wedsite" (leighandryan.com). :) It allows us to upload a ton of photos and has a unique "photo album-esque" layout. We’ve been able to convey all of the important info and introduce all of the key players who will be so important on our big day! I also love the above suggestion of uploading professional photos after the wedding (we went with SW featured Altmix Photography and couldn’t be more excited). Loving all of the Big Day updates by the way :)

  4. avatar Amy Ruocco reply

    Thanks Katharine! We’re so honored that you chose WeddingWindow.com to host your wedding website. You did a lovely job with it. Best wishes to you both.Amy

  5. avatar Dennis @ Wholesale Fresh Flowers reply

    I have not thought of the idea to create a wedding website but it totally makes sense. After reading Katharine’s reasoning for creating a wedding website I don’t know how any modern day couple inviting guests who live outside the ceremony destination can organize a wedding without one.

  6. avatar Catherine reply

    I honed my ActionScript 3 skills and slaved over a custom Flash website. It was a long process but I’m so happy I did it! We’ve gotten great responses and so many questions via the "Send a Message" page and it’s been a good resource for our guests. Fun stuff: http://www.catherineplusandrew.com

  7. avatar Nicole-Lynn reply

    We used http://www.mywedding.com! Free and will always be available to look at, doesn’t expire. After the wedding I plan to load the pages onto a cd so we can keep it forever :)

  8. avatar Alex reply

    We used Weddingjojo.com and loved it! The customer service was great and they made one of the themes into a custom colorway for our wedding.

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For wedding geeks, choosing a photographer is often the biggest decision of the entire wedding planning process (besides the groom, of course, but we figured you had him picked out a while ago!).  How did Katharine choose?  Read on to find out…

From Katharine: Twist my arm, I’ll admit it: despite working for a wedding magazine alongside two ladies who really love and really get photography, I can’t tell the shutter from the lens.  (And that, folks, is why I manage the business end of Southern Weddings and the image-selection for our fabulous issues is left to Lara + Emily!)  But just because I’m not a photo guru doesn’t mean I didn’t have very (very) specific requirements when it came to selecting a wedding photographer.

Luckily, I work with E + L, and these two ladies know a thing or two about photographers.  My requests were (fairly) straightforward.

*Cue dramatic music*

My first and primary concern when shopping wedding photographers was that I not look back on my wedding photos in ten, twenty or fifty years (fingers crossed!) and feel my photos were dated.  I wanted classic, timeless, elegant images that focused on the emotion and simple beauty of our wedding day.  No forced or stiff poses, no processing, and definitely no funny editing tricks.  Something I did like?  Black and white photos.  Blame it on the B&W baby pictures my father insisted on, but I really love the crisp, classic look of black and white images.  (Are we noticing a trend here?  Besides the fact that I’m a little… picky?  I tell ya, Emily + Lara are saints for putting up with me!)

Knowing exactly what I wanted but not who could deliver the dreamy images I was envisioning, I turned to the experts.

From Emily: With Katharine’s criteria in mind, there was really only one choice that stood out to Lara and me… can you tell who it was?

If you guessed A Bryan Photo, you would be correct!  Southern sensibility for our Virgina girl?  Check!  Classic, timeless, elegant black and whites?  Check to the check!  Ability to put a photography-phobic bride at ease?  Fingers crossed!  Plus, Bryan is responsible for one of Lara’s all-time favorite images:

As Katharine and I talked ad nauseum about photography possibilities (the girl likes to cover every option, okay?  Just wait until we get to invitations…), it became clear that a consumate pro was the only solution here.  As someone who does not like having her picture taken, Katharine wanted someone who would seamlessly and naturally direct her shots, ensuring that she got the best possible images for the minimum amount of pain.  If you’ve ever had the pleasure of working with a really fabulous photographer, you know exactly what I’m talking about.  They just get it.  They strike the perfect balance of letting the action unfold and helping it unfold in the prettiest way possible.  That’s what we knew we would get from Bryan, and that’s why he was the perfect choice for Katharine.

Plus, he’s just a big ball of cool and we can’t wait to have him around come September!  In the meantime, you should definitely stalk his blog and website galleries.  Not saying we have, or anything… but we have.  Each wedding is seriously more stunning than the last.  More, you say?  Oh, okay…

Gorgeous!  Thanks for being so awesome, Bryan!  Readers, we’d love to know — how did you choose your photographer?  What do you love about him or her?

A Bryan Photo is not an SW advertiser and no free services are being received. Katharine’s planning posts are written to share her experiences and personal recommendations, not as advertisement for vendors.  We don’t even tell the vendor that the post is being written.  We just love em : )

Written with love by Southern Weddings
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  1. avatar Ulmer Studios reply

    Yes!!! Score!!!! We were correct!!! Super stoked for you Katharine!!!! We think you made a wonderful choice!-J+A

  2. avatar Mary Marantz reply

    Yay!! Congrats Katharine!!! xoxo

  3. avatar jen@greenweddingshoes reply

    Great Choice!! Can’t wait to see how he captures your day :)

  4. avatar Kyle Barnes reply

    A Bryan is absolutely the right choice Katharine. The combination of his classic style, consistancy and his personality align wonderfully with your wedding day setting and style. I couldn’t be more excited to see the results from Your beautiful day!

  5. avatar Dennis @ Wholesale Fresh Flowers reply

    These photo’s are indeed timeless. I love the large vases of flowers used on the dinning table.

  6. avatar Amanda reply

    On a wedding day a bride spends at least 6-9 hours with their photographer – it’s the most emotional day of your life – you laugh, cry, giggle, feel fear and anxiety, are overjoyed, act silly, be sexy, and cling to every sentimental moment – it’s like a whole friendship in fast forward. I made it a point not to hire a photographer that I wouldn’t feel comfortable going out to lunch with and hanging out. It made all the dfference in the world. I wasn’t self concious for my photos and I actually had more fun because I worried less!

  7. avatar B.Wright reply

    A Bryan is among the best! And such a great guy, with an amazing crew. I wish I could talk every bride into working with them, if we weren’t the right fit of course ;-). You have good friends pointing you in the right direction. Congrats!

  8. avatar dash pinch smidgen reply

    Awesome! The A Bryan guys are great, even if they were awful at photography (which obviously they aren’t), they’d be fun to have at any wedding. And, I most definitely approve of Lara’s favorite image of all time, gorgeous!I can’t wait to see Katharine’s images!!

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Hey y’all!  We’re back with another question from a reader.  Said reader — let’s call her Ella –wrote in with an invitation wording conundrum.  Between you and me, I think invitation wording can be one of the trickiest parts of wedding planning, particularly if you don’t have a… traditional family.  Here’s Ella’s story:

“My fiance and I are planning a small, at-home wedding (like my mom and grandma had) and we’re working on invitation wording.  My parents are divorced.  My dad and step-mom are Mr. and Mrs. C.  My mom uses her maiden name now, Ms. A, though she is married to my step-dad, Mr. B.  Yup, I’m a lucky bride with four parents!  The wedding will be at my mom and step-dad’s home — the home of Ms. A and Mr. B.  How should the invitation reflect this?  It’s just a regular old home, no fancy name (it’s not Tara!).  Would the “Bride’s Mother’s home” be awkward?  I’m concerned that my future-in-laws won’t recognize my mom’s maiden name and get very confused.  I know this is a very specific question, but I’m sure there are lots of other ‘modern’ families out there with similar issues.”

Image credits: Elum Designs, Bella Figura, and Wiley Valentine

First, I have to commend Miss Ella for her excellent attitude about the whole situation.  Kudos to you, lady, for appreciating your family in whatever form it takes! Here’s my two cents:

If Ms. A (with or without Mr. B) is listed as the host or as a co-host with Mr. (with or without Mrs.) C, then I think it’s fine to say something along the lines of “Reception to follow at the home of Ms. A” or “Reception to follow at the home of the bride’s mother.”  The guests will be able to reference the host lines, and there should be no confusion at to who Ms. A or the bride’s mother is.

If Ms. A will not be listed as a co-host, then I think it would be fine to say “Reception to follow at the home of Ms. A, mother of the bride.”

A third option would be to cut out some of the confusion and simply put “Reception to follow at a private home” (followed by the street address).

And lastly, if you like your original suggestion (“Reception to follow at the Bride’s Mother’s home”), I think that’s a fine option, too.  Doesn’t sound particularly awkward to me!

Whew!  I hope that makes sense, and gives you a few more options than you might have previously thought up. I’m sure Ella would still appreciate any advice y’all could give, dear readers.  Do you have a solution I haven’t thought of?  Please leave it in the comments!

And, as always, if you’d like an outside opinion on an etiquette dilemma you’re currently struggling with, send me an email!  Until next time!

Images in header c/o Millie Holloman

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  1. avatar F and S @sanebrideadvice reply

    Totally could have used these types of posts when I was getting married…Never easy finding the wording because every situation is totally different. Great one!

  2. avatar Shawn reply

    Just tweaked the wording on our invitation. Thanks very much!

  3. avatar Leslie Vega reply

    Perfect solution suggestions, Emily! I think "Reception to follow at the Bride’s Mother’s home" works beautifully, while "Reception to follow at a private home" works just as well if the invite design calls for something shorter and simple.

  4. avatar invitation consultant reply

    wonderful suggestions. great post!

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