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Southern food is a huge passion of ours at Southern Weddings–we love learning about it, cooking it, eating it, and even designing photo shoots inspired by it (remember the biscuit shoots in V4 and V6 and the pie shoot in V5?). The thing we love most about it, though? The community it creates–around a dining room table, or any time Southerners anywhere in the world bond over a shared love for shrimp and grits or hummingbird cake. Most recently, our love for Southern food led us to Elena, who started her blog, Biscuits and Such, when she was hunting for her grandmother’s country-style steak recipe, and couldn’t find an online source for Southern food that resonated with her. Hundreds of recipes and three cookbooks later, we’re thrilled that she has filled that void herself, and gave us a peek into the kitchen she shares with her husband, Dan. Just like any good Southern kitchen, Elena’s blog makes me want to sit a spell and stay awhile…especially if I can get a taste of one of those fried chicken biscuits!

By day: Dan is a web developer for a company based in San Francisco, and he works from our home in Wilmington. I teach Montessori preschool, which means that I spend my days with the most insightful, hilarious, crazy people you can imagine. In 2008, I started a Southern food blog, Biscuits and Such, which has taken me on an amazing journey that has included three cookbooks and some of the most incredible experiences and opportunities.

How they met: We met at the Maryland Institute College of Art. We were in a two-year curatorial studies course together and became great friends. After a few years, we took the leap and started dating, and we haven’t looked back since.

Their wedding: We were married in Beaufort, North Carolina in late September 2009. It rained like crazy, I wore a seersucker dress, and it was totally perfect. We were young and fresh out of art school, so we did everything ourselves, from letterpressing the invitations to DJ-ing the reception on our laptop. The biggest compliment we received was that it felt like us. It was a great day.

The meal planning: Meal planning is collaborative. We try to follow the seasons with our meals, which means that we have different go-to recipes during different times of the year. Each week, we’ll both suggest a few things that we’re hankering for, and we’ll build the menu from there, drawing inspiration from what is available at the farmer’s market and grocery store.

The cooking: I do most of the cooking, though Dan is no slouch in the kitchen. We work together when we host people, and he is an amazing sous chef. Lately, he’s also been experimenting with charcuterie, which is something I completely support!

Their favorite meal-related memory: We’ve eaten a lot of great meals together! Usually, we eat pretty simply when it’s just the two of us and pull out all the stops for guests. Recently, we decided to treat ourselves and made a really extravagant dinner in: sous vide steak, buttery smashed potatoes, wilted arugula, and creme brûlée. It was so nice to refocus our culinary energy on each other–it’s a good reminder of what is important!

Elena and Dan’s ten favorite recipes:

1. Chicken Biscuits: This is one of my favorite foods, and lately, I’ve been making them with jalapeño honey and dill pickle slices. They hit the spot!
2. Fresh Pasta: We made fresh pasta with friends recently and were so blown away by how easy and delicious it was. I don’t think we can go back!
3. Shrimp and Grits: Everyone has their own take on this classic Southern Lowcountry recipe. I like mine with slow-roasted tomatoes, bacon, and just a little bit of brown sugar.
4. Pulled Pork Tacos: My students will tell you in a heartbeat that my favorite food is tacos, and pulled pork tacos are up there on my list of all-time favorite meals.
5. Pimento Cheese Squash Blossoms: I am itching for spring to come for so many reasons, not least of which, I am ready to fry up another big batch of pimento cheese squash blossoms!
6. Ginger Syrup: I cannot get enough ginger lately, and ginger syrup is a great way to add a splash of flavor to sparkling water or a cocktail.
7. Eastern North Carolina Barbecue: One of the things that North Carolina is known for is our tangy, vinegar-based barbecue. I myself am partial to the Eastern NC treatment: apple cider vinegar, red pepper, and salt.
8. Burnt Orange Salty Caramel Sauce: I want to pour this burnt orange caramel sauce all over everything.
9. Cherry Mountain Pie: Every year growing up, my grandma would make me a mountain pie, which is pretty much a dump cobbler, for my birthday. It was one thing that made my birthday special, and every year I still celebrate with a mountain pie on my birthday.
10. Recipes from Not Without Salt: Not Without Salt and her series “Dating My Husband” has been one of my favorites over the past few years. Her book is gorgeous, and I’m excited to keep cooking from it!

Thank you so much for sharing, Elena! Follow along with her and Dan on Biscuits and Such, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and check out her cookbooks here!

lisa Written with love by Lisa
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  1. avatar amy reply

    Nothing better than cooking with each other, lots of fun Loved your photos and your smiles

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  3. avatar pam (Sidewalk Shoes) reply

    Thanks for liking my ginger syrup!

  4. avatar Lauren reply

    Love the chicken biscuits. Thanks for sharing a little bit about yourselves!

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For these high school sweethearts (who actually first met in elementary school!), planning for their wedding also meant preparing for marriage and the journey of the new life together they were about to embark on. While the details were important too, planning for their marriage was undoubtedly the most important thing to Brittany and Michael, and we love that! When it came to the beautiful details, this sweet couple turned the reigns over to their planner, Some Kind of Wonderful, and their florals to none other than our Blue Ribbon Vendor, Holly Chapple. I’m pretty sure I’m Team Brittany when it comes to choosing a favorite detail of their wedding–her choice (and mine!), that stunning bridal bouquet! Hello, dahlias!

Big SW hugs to another Blue Ribbon Vendor, Katelyn James for capturing this fun day!

My favorite detail was my bridal bouquet. I think it completed our pictures and my bridal look so perfectly, with the pops of color and the beautiful dahlias. It was so much more than I expected! I never knew I could love a bouquet so much–I wish it could have lasted forever!

What was your most memorable moment about your wedding day? The most memorable moment of our day was seeing Michael for the first time during our first look. We had such an amazing day and there are so many moments that stick out in my mind, but walking down the steps at the front of the house and seeing the look on his face when we first saw each other is something I will never forget. I have never felt more beautiful. It was so special to just have those few minutes together to take it all in.

We said traditional vows during the ceremony, but we also wanted to make our ceremony personal. Before the wedding, we wrote lists of “10 Things I Love About You,” which we kept secret from each other until we read them aloud during the ceremony. This was such a fun way to make the ceremony personal to the two of us. One my favorite things he wrote was “I love that we can spend nonstop time together and I still feel like it’s not enough.”

What Southern details or traditions did you include in your celebration? What was Southern about your wedding? I think having our wedding on an estate in the horse country of Virginia definitely added some Southern elements to our day. Some of the horses even photo bombed our pictures! We also had our reception in a barn. Our venue, The Maples, is a historic home that was used (and was nearly burned to the ground) during the Civil War.

We really wanted a rustic barn venue, and after doing some research, we found a few, but then Michael found The Maples through a coworker. When we pulled up the gravel driveway, surrounded by the orange and yellow fall trees, we looked at each other and knew that this was the place! It is such an amazing home and the family was kind enough to let us have our wedding there. I can’t imagine having our day anywhere else.

We wanted a cake that would represent our day, so we were looking for something that was simple, beautiful, and rustic. We had a three-tiered cake with white icing that had pink flowers on it. Placing the cake on a tree stump gave it a rustic look that went perfectly with the feel of our day.

How did you plan for your marriage while planning your wedding? I feel like so much of being engaged is about preparing for the wedding day, and when you think about it, the wedding only lasts for a few hours. What you are really preparing for is the marriage, which is a lifetime together! There is so much focus on the details, the dress, and the flowers–which are all important and I obsessed over, don’t get me wrong! But preparing for marriage and the journey of life you’re about to be on together is the most important thing. We spent about four months meeting with a mentor couple at our church once a week, going through a marriage preparation book. I cannot tell you how helpful and important this was! We talked about so many important things, which really helped us realize the commitment we were making to each other and how to communicate.

How did y’all meet? Tell us your love story. Michael and I met when we were in elementary school. We were neighbors and he came to vacation Bible school at my house. We lost touch over the next few years and then reconnected during physics class in high school. He started flirting with me over a game of spoons. We started dating at the end of my junior year, so we are high school sweethearts! We both went to Virginia Tech and got engaged a few months after graduating. After six years of dating, we could not have been more excited to be engaged and to start planning our wedding!
Tell us all about the proposal! Michael and I were driving out in the plains of Virginia in the fall. It was SO beautiful and such a perfect day! I found out later that he had picked up the ring that morning, so it was definitely burning a hole in his pocket. As we were driving home, he decided to pull over into a field as the sun was setting. I thought we were just stopping to take some pictures, because he knows that’s something I love to do! But then, he asked me to follow him into the middle of the field, and as we were standing there, he got down on one knee. I honestly don’t remember what he said as he was asking me to marry him because I started crying as soon as I realized what was happening!
When did y’all get married? September 13, 2014
How many friends, family members, and loved ones attended your wedding? 120
Tell us about finding your wedding dress. I bought a dress a month after we got engaged, and a few days later, I felt like I hadn’t made the right decision. I waited until it came in, took it home, and tried it on again, and I knew it wasn’t the perfect dress for my day. I felt so upset because of the money that we had already spent, but Michael was so supportive and told me we had waited for this day for so long and he wanted me to feel like the most beautiful bride on our wedding day. I went out and found the most perfect dress a few days later, and I could not have been happier with that decision!
Did you decide to do a first look? Why or why not? We did decide to do a first look. My biggest reason was because we had the world’s most amazing photographer–Katelyn James! I have followed her blog for years and have seen all the amazing moments she captures during a first look. It was so special for the two of us to have a few quiet moments together. You really don’t get too many of those on the wedding day. It was so nice to be able to see each other, pray together and take in the day before the everything got started.
What readings, if any, did you have at your ceremony? My grandpa, who married us, read 1 Corinthians 13: 4-13 at the ceremony.
Tell us about some of the songs you used throughout your wedding and why you chose them. A song we really wanted to have played as we walked back up the aisle was “Best Day of My Life” by American Authors. We blasted this song in the car together all summer as we drove to and from wedding appointments, so we knew we wanted this song to play right after we got married. This reminded us what an amazing and fun day it was going to be! My dad and I danced to “It Won’t Be Like This for Long” by Darius Rucker. When I was listening to songs in the car, thinking about our father/daughter dance, this one made me cry, so I knew it was the one we had to dance to.
If you are comfortable responding, what range did your wedding budget fall into? $25,000-$50,000
What advice do you have for folks currently planning a wedding? When the planning gets stressful and you start to take that stress out on each other (trust me, it happens!), take a deep breath and refocus on the end goal. You’re planning your life together and you’ve found your best friend. When you think about that, it takes all the stress out of the seating chart, the napkin colors, or the guest list. At the end of the day, it will all work out and you will be married to your favorite person in the world! Sometimes, you just need to take a weekend or a night off from wedding planning and go on a date together. :)
What’s next for you as a couple? What are you most looking forward to about married life? These past five months of being married have been the best of our relationship. Getting to spend life together, coming home to each other every day and just doing boring things together, like grocery shopping, is so much more fun with your best friend! We are in the process of buying a townhouse that we are going to do some reno work on, and we are so excited!

Photographer: Katelyn James / Planner: Some Kind of Wonderful / Venue: The Maples / Florist: Holly Chapple Flowers / Cake Baker: Market Salmander / Caterer: Magnolia at the Mill / Rentals: Capital Party Rentals / Lighting: Evan Chapple / Paper Products: Paper & Lace Collections / Bride’s Gown: “April” by Maggie Sottero / Bride’s Veil: Maggie Sottero / Bride’s Jewelry: Nadri / Hair Stylist: Tracie Sekol / Bride’s Shoes: Betsey Johnson / Bridesmaids’ Dresses: “Morgan” in Beach Glass by Donna Morgan / Groom’s Attire: Ted Baker / Groomsmen Attire: Men’s Wearhouse

Katelyn James and Holly Chapple Flowers are delightful members of our Blue Ribbon Vendor Directory!

marissa Written with love by Marissa
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  1. avatar Allister Freeman reply

    Wow, the colours are absolutely stunning, beautiful photography

  2. avatar Jenni reply

    So much inspiration in this post! I can’t stop being googly-eyed over the flowers!

  3. avatar Lisa Hays reply

    Gorgeous bride. I have to agree with her on her bouquet – I’m not sure I’ve ever seen a prettier bouquet.

  4. avatar katelyn james reply

    Thank you girls!!! Such an honor!!!

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    This wedding is SO GORGEOUS! I’m swooning over that bouquet!

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  11. avatar Rachel Parbs reply

    Love the bouquet! Can you tell me what types of flowers were used? Thank you!

  12. avatar Samantha reply

    All photo are unique style. Both are nice place and capture quality is awesome.

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Y’all, it is crunch time! My wedding is just a month and a half away, and I feel like I am making decisions left and right. With many things in my life, I’m the type of person who says “I’ll know it when I see it,” and I’m happy (and a little bit relieved) that that was the case for my shoes and my veil. My jewelry, on the other hand, has been another story entirely. I have been waiting for the “perfect wedding day jewelry” to show up in my path for over a year now, and I’m running out of time, so I need to make some decisions!

Some of my jewelry inspiration! Clockwise from top left: Julie + Will by Pasha Belman, Raya Photography via 100 Layer Cake, Lauren + Casey by Whitebox Photo, Lynze + Josh by Trent Bailey, Emily + John by Abby Grace, Rosa + Vincent by Gracie Blue

I think what makes this decision a little overwhelming to me is that jewelry is one of the most special things a girl can pass down. I really love the idea of being able to show my future daughters what I wore on my wedding day, which means I need to choose pieces that will last for a long time and still look beautiful. There isn’t much heirloom jewelry in my family and I would love to start the tradition!

While I don’t have a super clear picture in my head of what I’m looking for, I know I want to keep my jewelry simple and elegant, but special. So far, I’ve sifted through the options at BHLDN, J. Crew, BaubleBar, Nordstrom, Kendra Scott, Kate Spade, Tiffany & Co., Stella & Dot, and Loren Hope (phew!), and I’ve saved a few pieces that have caught my eye. I love classic Southern pearls, but I also think a hint of sparkle would be a pretty addition to my wedding day look, and I’m a little obsessed with that pale blue bracelet (something blue, anyone?).

Earrings, top to bottom: Nordstrom, BHLDN, Kate Spade; bracelets, clockwise from top left: J. Crew, Kendra Scott, Tiffany & Co., Kendra Scott, J. Crew

Do you have a favorite combination from these options? And do you have any other favorite jewelry sources I should check out? I’m all ears!

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I’m Engaged! / The Main Characters / Our Venues / Our Photographer / Our Videographer / Planning Our Engagement Pictures / Our Flowers / Bridesmaid Style / Our Save the Dates / The Gents’ Attire / Our Ceremony / The Details / Hair and Makeup

lisa Written with love by Lisa
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  1. avatar Laura reply

    I love that blue bracelet too! That would be perfect as your something blue. With the earrings, I don’t think you can go wrong with any of your options. But the good thing about classic pearl earrings is that you can wear them for years to come and maybe it will be a sweet reminder of your wedding day whenever you wear them :)

  2. avatar Jane Tippins reply

    I would like to suggest The Pearl Girls in Athens, GA. The website is thepearlgirls.com. I’m sure they would love to talk with you about a special bridal design!

  3. avatar Mattye reply

    Love the idea of having an heirloom piece to pass down! I kept my jewelry simple for the wedding day, but one thing I’m so glad I did was select a ceremony earring and a reception earring. I didn’t want my earrings dangling all around as I said my vows, but I was fine with it for dancing. The ceremony look was simple and classic while the reception earring was more fun and glamorous. I think it would be beautiful if you wore the sweet pearl studs for the ceremony and put on the sparkly, dangly ones for the reception. Oh, and both of my earrings were Stella & Dot-love S&D! Can’t wait to see what you select!

  4. avatar Emily reply

    I say go for the “something blue” bracelet! It’s subtle enough that I don’t think it will make a huge statement, but it’s sweet and fun. For earrings, I think Mattye’s idea is quite fabulous, but I don’t think you could go wrong with either!

  5. avatar Lisa Hays reply

    I’m pretty sure I’m older than your mother – but younger than your grandmother (LOL) and I don’t know your dress of course. A young woman I work with wore a gorgeous, simple necklace that I think is referred to as back jewelry. It was stunning from the front or the back. I am a “pearls” girl but love those sparkly drop earrings! You will be gorgeous;maybe go with a “gut reaction”.

    Best Wishes!

  6. avatar Dana reply

    can’t wait to see the final results! just a few short weeks!!!!

  7. avatar Ashlee reply

    Check out Gemma Jewels (www.gemmajewelsshop.com). She is an MTH alum and has worked with a few of my brides on jewels for their wedding day! And since she’s local to Chapel Hill you can see the pieces in person too. Can’t wait to see what you decide on!!

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