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Peaches are a serious favorite here in the Southern Weddings office, so it’s no surprise that we fell in love with Augusta and Jordan’s wedding! This adorable Alabama couple was married by Jordan’s former college mentor in a traditional ceremony, and enjoyed a “breakfast for dinner” dinner and reception afterwards. I love the way they celebrated the wonderful bounty of the South by asking a local farmer to bring in a few crates of peaches, which they proceeded to scatter around their venue. Combined with an abundance of peachy pink blooms and some of the prettiest desserts, the result was beautiful and oh-so-Southern–the perfect backdrop for Augusta and Jordan to begin their marriage!

Many thanks to W+E Photographie for sharing Augusta and Jordan’s special day with us!

We both attended Samford University in Birmingham, Alabama, and had many mutual friends. We became closer friends during my sophomore year/his junior year, and during that summer, I traveled to Paris for the summer with Campus Crusade. When I returned, I had no intentions to date, but Jordan asked me to come over to have dinner. We got to know each other as friends, and a couple of months later, he asked me out on an “official” date.

Did you decide to do a “first look”? Why or why not? We decided not to do a “first look” because we wanted to have that moment in the chapel (and because we wanted to keep that tradition alive!). Instead, we met in the chapel, held hands around a corner and prayed together. It was nice to have a moment to ourselves, and catch up before walking down the aisle. It also worked well for pictures, because we were able to take our pictures right before sunset, and the lighting was beautiful.

My close friend, and wedding planner, who I interned under, Catherine Wayman, created the most amazing floral displays I’ve ever seen. For our bouquets/boutonnieres, she used a pale pink/peach-colored garden rose, accompanied with other peach, pink and fuchsia shades of garden roses, and lamb’s ear. The main arrangements were combinations of garden roses and peonies (both are my favorites). She mainly used coral charm peonies, and we also had various hydrangeas and succulents. The color scheme was based off of a set of stationery from Rifle Paper Co.

Did you write your own vows? If so, what was your favorite phrase, verse or line? We did not write our own vows, but our vows were both personal and traditional. Jordan’s mentor from college officiated, and because he knew both of us so well, he made it very personal.
What readings, if any, did you have at your ceremony? Our officiant read from 1 Corinthians.

Tell us about some of the songs you used throughout your wedding and why you chose them. We chose my favorite hymn, “Come Thou Fount,” for the bridal processional. We both took communion, and during this time, we chose Jordan’s favorite hymn, “Abide with Me,” to be played, which my “big sister” in my sorority sang. It gave everyone chills. The recessional was “Praise to the Lord, the Almighty,” which my mother walked down the aisle to on her wedding day. Our first dance was to “Be My Baby” from the movie Dirty Dancing. We both loved the song, and had never heard it at any other wedding before, so we went with it!

Isn’t Augusta’s lace gown stunning? It’s perfect for a sweet Southern bride!

Our favorite detail of the wedding was: We loved the peach detail of our wedding. We had a local farmer bring in some crates full of peaches, and we decided to just put them everywhere! It’s one of my favorite fruits and colors, so it worked out perfectly. Our colors were peach, coral, and a light seafoam blue/mint. When we picked up the peaches, some of them were in blue colored crates, so it seemed perfect with our theme.

Describe your wedding cake or dessert. I didn’t want a very traditional wedding cake at our wedding, so we went with a smaller two-tiered wedding cake and two one-layer cakes, from the best cake shop in town, Olexa’s. Jordan’s cake was a red velvet sheet cake, decorated with a rugby player and bride on top of a rugby field. The only thing I knew I really wanted for the wedding was donuts, to go along with our “Breakfast for Dinner” theme. We got donuts from a local shop, Heavenly Donut Co., in various flavors, including my favorite, maple bacon.

What was your most memorable moment about your wedding day? It’s a tie between seeing Jordan at the end of the aisle, and driving away at the end of the night. I was so happy to finally have an alone moment with Jordan and thrilled about the events of the day, yet so sad that the day was over. It was a tender moment.

Tell us all about the proposal! Jordan moved to Indianapolis to begin working with a new company, and we had been dating long distance for a couple of months. He asked me to come visit for Labor Day weekend to celebrate our one-year anniversary. He had originally planned to propose a month later, over our university’s homecoming weekend, when both of our families would be in town, but he changed his mind. He took me to the “Canal Walk” and then to dinner to celebrate. We walked around the canals and came to a beautiful vine-covered bridge with the city in the background, and he proposed. I was completely surprised, and he even had one of our good friends (who lives in Indy) photograph the whole thing. The two of us went to dinner afterwards, and although we wanted our friends and family there, it was so nice taking the moment in, just us. I surprised my sorority with an “out-of-the-blue” white candle.
When did y’all get married? June 23, 2013
How many friends, family members, and loved ones attended your wedding? Around 250
Tell us about finding your wedding dress. We went to a boutique in Mt. Laurel, AL, where one of our family friends is a manager. I made a day of it with my mom and three of my bridesmaids/best friends. I knew the look I wanted, and it was the second dress I tried on. I was sold!
Did you have something borrowed, blue, old, and new? If so, do tell! Something borrowed was the lipstick I wore, something blue was my garter, something new was the wedding dress, something old was my grandmother’s wedding shoes, which happened to fit me perfectly.
What Southern details or traditions did you include in your celebration? What was Southern about your wedding? The food was definitely Southern. We had a biscuit station, ham with grilled peaches, and bacon with brown sugar. Our friends played a game of cornhole outside, with a custom-painted corn hole set, and sipped sweet tea at picnic tables. The peaches tied everything together with a very Southern feel.
What was the biggest challenge you had to overcome while planning your wedding? The guest list and invitations were definitely the hardest challenge to overcome. We wanted to invite so many people, but just couldn’t because of the size of our venue.
If you are comfortable responding, what range did your wedding budget fall into? $25,000-$50,000
What is the one detail or vendor that you were so happy to have as a part of your wedding? Last summer, I interned for a wedding venue in Birmingham that specialized in in-house floral design and in-house catering. I felt so blessed that Catherine, their wedding planner (and my close friend), created my bouquets and flower arrangements. Also, Corretti Catering created the most delicious buffet I’ve ever seen. Their staff is incredible, and it was a blessing seeing them all on our wedding day. Our photographers were equally amazing, and so much fun to work with. They made everything flow effortlessly, and I felt so calm working with them.
What advice do you have for folks currently planning a wedding? Don’t sweat the small stuff. After interning for a wedding planner and working so diligently on our own wedding, I realized that at the end of the day, you’re getting married to your best friend, and that’s all that should matter. Also, make the day and the details look like you. You want your guests to think that every detail reflects your personality and style.
What’s next for you as a couple? What are you most looking forward to about married life? We are looking forward to settling down in Birmingham, a city we both love. We are anxious to travel and can’t wait to begin planning our next adventure together.

Photographer: W&E Photographie | Videographer: Matt Wambles | Planner and Florist: C. Wayman Floral & Events | Ceremony and Reception Venue: American Village | Wedding Cake Baker: Olexa’s | Donut Baker: Heavenly Donut Co. | Caterer: Corretti Catering | Lighting: Don Orr | Band: 3rd Generation | Bride’s Gown: Allure | Paper Products: Shannon Kirsten Illustration | Bride’s Hair Accessories/Veil/Jewelry: Anthropologie | Hair Stylist: Joanna Ballentine | Makeup Artist: Molly Stilley | Bride’s Shoes: Grandmother’s | Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Bridesmaids’ choice | Groom’s Attire: Jos A. Bank | Groomsmen Attire: Jos A. Bank | Groomsmen Ties: Billy Reid

lisa Written with love by Lisa
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  1. avatar Emily reply

    Their chapel is gorgeous! And I love all of the bridesmaids’ dresses together!

  2. avatar Amanda {Amanda Jayne Events} reply

    I love the use of peaches – real peaches! – in this wedding!

  3. avatar Dana reply

    definitely got some wedding inspiration for this perfect southern wedding!

  4. avatar Eliza reply

    Love this wedding! The colors are similar to what I’m thinking and the breakfast for dinner is great!

    Can you share where the cake topper is from? I met my fiancé while we both played rugby in college and this is a must for our wedding!

    Thank you!

  5. avatar Sarah reply

    Adorable! Love every detail! Where are those cute getting ready robes from?!?!

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    Love those robes! Did the bride make them herself or were they purchased?

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Friends, I don’t think I have ever seen a bride happier to be getting married than Ms Kaylie. Doesn’t her joy just LEAP off the screen? I’m sure her bliss was just as apparent to the guests at her and John’s wedding — in fact, I’m sure it ripples throughout her life, which is probably why these two had one of the largest bridal parties I’ve ever seen! Enjoy these photos by Anna Pociask, and just try to keep from smiling while you do :)

P.S. Kaylie had one of the best answers to our question, “What’s next for you as a couple?” “We can’t wait to build a life together that shows the world that love is real.” AMEN!

John and I were set up on a blind date by a mutual friend, and from the moment we met, it felt like we had known each other all of our lives. Instantly, I knew that John was the man I’d always wanted to marry. While dating was an ever-refining experience, we always knew that we’d rather do life together than with anyone else. He asked me on a February evening if I would do life with him forever; I instantly replied, “Of course I will!” and the rest is history. On June 22, 2013 (exactly one year from the day we met), we were wed in my parents’ backyard, surrounded by close friends and family. Our ceremony was everything we dreamed it would be: intimate, personal, God-honoring, and full of love. We’ve been married for a month now, and we have never been more in love. Never been gladder that we took a leap of faith on a blind date set-up. Never been more grateful to do life with each other.

My sister and I had planned on taking a trip home to go shopping with my mom and grandmother. On the way, we decided to just “stop and see” what we could find in a nearby store. So we made an appointment, dropped in to try some dresses on, and fell in love with every one of them! No one tells you that the hardest part about wedding dress shopping might be that you love all of them! Right before I changed back into my clothes I realized that there was one dress I had not tried on, so for fun, I slipped into it. And immediately, I knew. “Amber…” I calmly stated from inside the dressing room. And when I emerged, she cried. I was beaming! It was everything I had ever wanted. AND in my size. Off the rack. Under budget. Needless to say, we only ended up having to shop for flower girl dresses when I finally made it home to Muscle Shoals!

I love that you can see Kaylie’s beaming smile in the photo on the left, even though she’s not in focus!

Did you decide to do a “first look”? Why or why not? We did. We knew that we would be nervous and that the day would get away from us quickly. And ultimately, our wedding day was about John and I. We both wanted that time together before the actual ceremony began to take it all in. Time to hold one another. Time to take one collective deep breath before the biggest day of both of our lives.

This photo is so rich with little details — what a sweet reminder of the emotion these two felt during their ceremony.

Did you write your own vows? If so, what was your favorite phrase, verse or line? We didn’t, but John’s uncle (our minister) wrote them, and they were beautiful. He has been using the same vows in his ceremonies for years, and we loved them so much that we couldn’t change one thing about them. My favorite line: “I will protect you against every enemy.”
What readings, if any, did you have at your ceremony? Song of Solomon 3:4 was proudly displayed on our programs: “I have found the one whom my soul loves.”
Tell us about some of the songs you used throughout your wedding and why you chose them. We chose hymns for our wedding. John and I both grew up in church and have always loved the richness of them. People just don’t write songs like that anymore! We began the ceremony with the “Doxology.” Our wedding party walked to “Be Thou My Vision.” I walked down the aisle to Canon in D, simply because it is classic. Our recessional was “He Leadeth Me.” Our wedding, our love story, and our lives are all about Jesus Christ. We wanted God to get the glory on our wedding day. This was just one of the ways we chose to do that.

What Southern details or traditions did you include in your celebration? What was Southern about your wedding? Location — we were on the Tennessee River! 2. Our food was Southern brunch style (complete with shrimp n’ grits!) 3. Our favors were red velvet cupcakes in mason jars! 4. Mason jars were actually the container of choice for all flower arrangements. 5. Our reception musicians were a guitar player and a violin player! A little bluegrass here, a little folk and country there.

Tell us all about the proposal! We went to visit John’s parents one weekend in February. After a sweet baby shower for our cousin that afternoon, I remember that I was standing at the sink doing dishes when John asked me to change clothes. He said we were going to check on some land for his dad and some trees that he and his brother had planted years ago. I quickly changed and we headed out! We drove to a secluded spot right off the beaten path and got out of the truck to “check on a deer stand.” After admiring the stillness of the bright green meadow before us for about a minute, John turned to me and said, “You know I love you, right?” At that moment, I knew what was happening. My heart started to race as I saw him drop to his knee and I heard him declare his love for me. Then he asked for my hand in marriage. I didn’t even see the ring! I just started jumping up and down and squealing, exclaiming, “Of course I will!” I did, eventually, see the stunning ring and wore it proudly back to the house to tell his parents, who already knew, of course! He had asked my parents weeks prior and even planned a surprise engagement party with all of our closest friends when we got home. He’s just the best. :)
When did y’all get married? June 22, 2013
How many friends, family members, and loved ones attended your wedding? About 130
Describe your wedding flowers. I wanted simple, light, and happy so I chose baby’s breath as our main flower. Occasionally, we used hydrangeas and daisies to give it a Southern-happy feel too!
Describe your wedding cake or dessert. Classic. My wedding cake was white, three-tiered, and simple. His groom’s cake was the same, only chocolate with chocolate covered strawberries! John really wanted the inside of his to be butter cake and he got it! It was delicious!
Our favorite detail of the wedding was: Our friends. We love them so much and couldn’t have imagined making that covenant without them standing right beside us.
Did you have something borrowed, blue, old, and new? If so, do tell! Yes! My dress was my new! And my old, borrowed and blue were one in the same. I borrowed a couple of old broaches from my grandmother and attached them to my bouquet. One was actually my great-grandmother’s (the blue one). It was so special and added the perfect touch to my ensemble.
What was the biggest challenge you had to overcome while planning your wedding? Trying not to get overwhelmed by the details!
If you are comfortable responding, what range did your wedding budget fall into? $10,000-$25,000
What is the one detail or vendor that you were so happy to have as a part of your wedding? Anna Pociask. She was our wedding photographer and she captured the day perfectly. Her presence was calming, kind and joyful, so she fit right in! Also, our caterer Margaret Baggett (The Chef Next Door) was outstanding! Her food is out-of-this-world good!
What advice do you have for folks currently planning a wedding? Make sure that your wedding is personal! You’ll regret listening to all of those voices that tell you what it should be like if you completely drown out your own! John and I look back on our wedding day with such sweet memories because it was EXACTLY what we wanted it to be!
What’s next for you as a couple? What are you most looking forward to about married life? We are still learning so much about each other! Obviously, we know each other better than anyone else, but we are looking forward to just doing life together. Day in and day out. Good days and bad days. We can’t wait to make more memories, have a ton more laughs, and build a life together that shows the world that love is real.

Photographer: Anna Pociask Photography | Wedding Cake: The Corner Bakery | Caterer: The Chef Next Door | Rentals: Party Pros USA

emily Written with love by Emily
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  1. avatar Katie reply

    I love every little detail but mostly the couple! You are right. She is the prettiest and happiest bride yet. My goodness :)

  2. avatar Lisa reply

    Oh my gosh, Kaylie is just the sweetest!! I love everything about her interview and her joy is so contagious!

  3. avatar Lotus Eyes Photography reply

    Stunning, simply beautiful wedding!

  4. avatar Meredith Teasley reply

    Kaylie is a sweet friend, and I am thrilled that her wedding was featured on the SW blog! You picked a winner to feature, Em! :) I love the personalities that shine through all the images, and of course that ring bearer is the cutest! So excited for you, Kaylie and John, and your new life together! Marriage is the best adventure!

  5. avatar Denisse (Lotus Eyes Photography) reply

    Words to describe this wedding- Bright, Happy, Sunny, Gorgeous.

    Love the back of her dress!

  6. avatar Carmen McAnalley reply

    This was one of the sweetest weddings i have ever attended and the article was correct in saying you have never seen a bride smile so much!!! Love this couple and her family and so thankful that I was able to share in this day with them.

  7. avatar Belinda Brown reply

    Beautiful pictures! The picture of them bowing their heads and praying and his finger gently touching her arm took my breath away!

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Love Southern wedding traditions and want to include them in your wedding? We wrote our e-book just for you!

Along with our hair, our bridal parties tend to be a bit bigger here in the South. I can’t put my finger on exactly why (maybe the abundance of sororities?), but it’s definitely a fact of life.

But what to do when the bridal party grows and grows? Thanks to fellow Southern girl Jenna Bush Hager, the world was introduced to an old Southern solution when she opted for a “house party” of fourteen in addition to her one maid of honor — her sister, Barbara. As in Jenna’s situation, a house party is a great way to include your friends and family without having a ginormous bridal party.

Sketch of Jenna’s house party dresses, designed by Lela Rose in seven styles and colors inspired by Texas native wildflowers! (via Cliff Notes)

Similar to the standard ‘attendant’ title, members of a house party are often assigned wedding day tasks like manning the guest book, handing out programs, serving cake, reading during the ceremony, or just assisting the bride on her big day. They can also be involved in helping with the bachelorette party and bridal shower, or just attending.

Katy Hall Photography

Some house party members aren’t assigned any duties at all, but simply included because the bride wants to honor her relationships. The only thing a house party traditionally does not do is stand at the altar with the bride — that spot is reserved for bridesmaids. HP gals can be seated in the first or second row, just behind family, and can be included in the wedding program.

So who should be included in a house party? Maybe you have a large group of sorority sisters you want to include, like we mentioned above. Or maybe, like Jenna and our own Emily, you’ve chosen to include only family in your bridal party, but want to honor friends, as well. No matter who you choose or how you choose them, you’ll eventually have to figure out how to clothe them. We have some tips for that, too.

You could ask your house party gals to wear the same dress in the same color — one that corresponds with the bridesmaid dresses.

Our Labor of Love from Caroline + Tyler’s wedding

Or, we like the idea of asking your house party to wear a different shade of the color your bridesmaids are wearing, as Izzy did so beautifully with gray here.

The Schultzes from Izzy + Lane’s wedding

Mix and match dresses in a single color always look beautiful! Many brides ask their house parties to wear little black dresses, as that’s typically an item everyone will already have in their closets.

Green dresses photo by Tim Will from Kara + Tyler’s wedding, aqua dresses photo by Shea Christine from Grace + Daniel’s wedding, pink dresses photo by Morgan Trinker from Erin + Brian’s wedding

Finally, we like the idea of giving your house party the whole color scheme of your wedding, and asking them to wear something that coordinates. These ladies below prove it can look darling! If your gals are wearing LBDs or something else less-unified, we’d recommend giving them something to acknowledge their role, like a corsage, a matching necklace, or a gardenia or magnolia for their hair.

Pink and purple dresses photo by Melissa Schollaert from Valerie + Kevin’s wedding, spring dresses photo by Ali Harper from Mary + Austin’s wedding, purple and cream dresses photo by Stephen DeVries from Meredith + John’s wedding

To close, one more personal anecdote from our sweet summer intern, Sara. She had the honor of being in the house party for her boyfriend’s sister’s wedding, and piped right up when we started talking about this post! From Sara: “I had small duties like handing out programs, moving the guestbook from location to location, and handing out the bubbles to guests before her and her groom left the reception. Her bridesmaids all wore the same pink dress and shoes, and the other house party members and I got to choose our dress, as long as it was black and cocktail length. I felt like it was the perfect place for me, as I had been dating her brother long enough to be included in the wedding, but her brother and I were not married (and still have a ways to go before there’s a possibility of that!), so it would have been strange for her to designate a bridesmaid position for me at the time.”

Have you been in a house party, or are you planning on having one? We’d love to hear what you think about this tradition!

Melissa Schollaert and Ali Harper are delightful members of our Blue Ribbon Vendor Directory!

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  1. avatar Joanne Duong – Bravo Bride reply

    Aww LOVE that photo idea – chalk boards with how bride and bridesmaid met.

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  5. avatar Fiona Hogwood reply

    What a fabulous idea!
    We don’t do anything like this in Scotland – it’s Bridesmaid or nothing.
    I shall certainly be suggesting it to any future bride we work with :)

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  7. avatar Caroline reply

    I’m having a house party. But I’m looking for creative ways to ask the girls. Any idea?

    • avatar Claire reply

      @Caroline – did you ever find a fun way to ask them? I’m wondering the same thing.

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  11. avatar Jean reply

    My daughter in Houston has been asked to be in a “house party”. She has been asked to bake cupcakes to bring to the wedding (bride evidently can’t afford a cake), to set up tables/chairs, replace food on the trays during the reception, and to take down tables/chairs. She feels like a laborer!!!! My advice to anyone who is asked to be in a house party – find out your duties BEFORE accepting.

  12. avatar Corissa reply

    I love the idea of a house party, and want to incorporate it in my upcoming wedding. Is there a special or classic SW way to ask your house party? I’ve seen bridesmaids asked via gift boxes or hankies, and I’d like to honor my ladies in a similar way!

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  17. avatar Emily reply

    Hello! I am from northern Missouri, so I had never heard of this house party tradition until recently. I am getting married this summer and have six bridesmaids. There are so many other girls I wanted to ask to stand up with me, so I heard about this tradition and thought it was the perfect idea. BUT, now I need help asking my girls to join my house party. I want a cute idea that explains the tradition, since it’s not common up here. Any ideas?!?

    • avatar Kaylee Hobbs reply

      Hi Emily!!

      Hooray! We would suggest printing out our explanation of what a house party is on a card and pairing it with a small gift!

    • avatar Elyse reply

      Hi there! I found some really cute cards on Etsy and wrote them all a personal note. The cards had printed “Will you be in my house party? ” on them. I also had personalized makeup mirrors (found on etsy) made with thier name. Wasn’t terribly expensive and they loved it!

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