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Why yes, I do adore this Gatsby-inspired wedding from The Parsons, thank you very much!  (If you’re a regular here, you probably already knew that, though.)  But, seriously, classic black – make that white – tuxedoes with sharp bowties, a chic and sophisticated Palazzo gown, a bouquet of all-white roses courtesy of Rose Sinclair at the Sea Island Florist?  Kristen + Grant’s upscale black tie affair, held at the Sea Island Chapel, makes my traditional heart go pitter-patter.  Add in the fact that this beautiful couple tied the knot in the Southland (Georgia, to be precise) and you pretty much have my recipe for a perfect Southern wedding.

How did the two of you meet?  Tell us your story.  A mutual friend, Thom, had been trying to set us up for months. He invited me to a happy hour and brought Grant, and we ended up flirting most of the night. Grant claims that he knew he wanted to marry me that night. (So sweet!)  Soon after we met, he asked me out for sushi. After dinner and a lot of sake, we literally shut down the restaurant. Grant was living in San Diego, but also had an office in Chicago where he worked a lot. After dating a couple of months, I somehow managed to convince him to move from the warm and sunny beaches of San Diego to Chicago in the middle of the winter.  Now that’s love!   He moved to Chicago, then we both moved to Denver, Colorado a year later and the rest is history!
Describe the proposal. 
It was Super Bowl Sunday and a powder day so we decided to forgo watching the game and head to nearby Breckenridge to ski. We both love to ski so I expected nothing out of the ordinary. Breckenridge boasts the highest lift in North America, which I’d been dying to tackle. Mid-day, Grant casually asked if I wanted to head up to the top. We jumped on the lift and, when we got to the top, I skied on, anxious to get down (I’m afraid of heights). When I turned around, Grant was on his knees on his snowboard about 20 feet away from me. He then started inching awkwardly toward me in the snow. I was cracking up! I had no idea what he was doing and was urging him to hurry up. When he finally got to me, he was exhausted but still able to say, “Will you marry me?” I was shocked, but absolutely thrilled!
Three adjectives that describe the day are: 
Can I say four? Vintage, elegant, unforgettable and FUN!!
What was the design inspiration for your wedding? 
The Cloister hotel in Sea Island, Georgia.  Grant’s family has a home in St. Simon’s, Georgia where we have been vacationing together since we started dating. It is one of our favorite places on Earth! We knew we wanted to get married there and the Cloister proved to be the perfect spot. We loved the glamour and rich history of the old hotel combined with the rustic marsh in its backyard. The Cloister was built in 1928 and has since become a legend in the South. We wanted to celebrate the Cloister’s history with a theme that romanticized old-Hollywood glamour the 30’s and 40’s. The Clubroom at The Cloister, where we had our reception, is absolutely stunning: a perfect backdrop with its breathtaking vintage chandeliers, old-school charm and antiqued mirrored panels.
What was your favorite design element of your big day?  
The unbelievable vintage chandeliers in The Clubroom. I am just in love with them! The room was filled with candlelight that just looked amazing bouncing of the chandeliers. We wanted to bring the glamour and drama of the chandeliers into the outdoor areas of our wedding so we hung more chandeliers from the old oak trees on the terrace and in the garden. They were so amazing!
Our favorite detail of the wedding was: 
Instead of doing the traditional sendoff in a fancy car, we used a good family friend’s vintage restored CJ7.  Over time, it became a tradition of ours in St. Simon’s to take the jeep to watch the sunset on the marsh. We knew the jeep had to be part of the wedding!  And even though it rained the night of our wedding, my two brothers-in-law drove the Jeep home for us in their tuxes. They were soaked and loved every minute of it!
Tell us about finding your wedding dress:
I was the girl that had to try on hundreds of dresses before I found “the one.” (I actually ended up buying two wedding dresses when it was all said and done.) I bought the first dress in Savannah, Georgia when I was on a wedding planning trip with my Mom and Aunt Nancy.  I was newly-engaged and overly excited, to say the least. I found a gorgeous Reem Acra dress and bought it on impulse. I think I got swept up in the idea of getting a dress that day even though I had not tried many dresses on. When I returned to Denver, I had the sinking feeling that I had made a mistake. After months of trying on dresses in multiple cities, I found the one! It was so sleek and glamorous, just like what I imagined a 40’s Hollywood starlet would wear.  I learned my lesson the hard way. Take your time ladies!! It’s the most important dress you will ever wear!

Written with love by Katharine
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  1. avatar Adair reply

    Where did she get her dress, I am looking for something similar and I love hers! Beautiful Wedding!!

  2. avatar Southern Weddings reply

    Hi Adair! Kristen’s stunning gown is from Palazzo. Hope that helps!

  3. avatar Adair reply

    I think I found it! No retailers in Florida, though. Thank you

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Well folks, this is about as Southern as it gets.  Georgia locale?  Check.  Deviled eggs, sweet tea, and oysters?  Check, check, and check.  A pickin’ bluegrass band?  Check, of course.  We couldn’t resist sharing these images of Kristen + Grant’s rehearsal dinner, especially with the contrast they provide to the pair’s (also very Southern but) very different wedding, coming up next.  A huge thank you to The Parsons for sending this feature our way!

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  1. avatar racheljo reply

    So excited to see more from this wedding! We were married on St. Simons Island in October!!

  2. avatar alec vanderboom reply

    great details. the dog eating of the spoon – awesome. wonderful toning and fun photography

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The SW office could easily be mistaken for a post office hub. Not only do we send out hundreds of packages a week, we also receive our fair share of letters and parcels. Nearly every single day, the UPS truck pulls up in front of the SW office with a new package for us. While we are used to receiving mail, nothing could have prepared us for the day that the package from Chocolate Butterbean arrived.

The day seemed just like any other. Lara, Katharine, Emily, and I were behaving as usual–spicing up our work day by listening to upbeat music and cracking jokes. We heard the rumble of the UPS truck’s engine and a knock on the door. I bounded down the stairs and opened the door, only to be faced with one of the largest packages I had ever seen.

I thanked the mailman and lugged the long, tall, skinny package inside. It wasn’t just enormous, it also weighed a ton. I tried to picture the contents of the package. Was it a flat screen tv? That would be heavy, large, and, of course, flat. Maybe someone had finally sent Katharine a tv to work in front of! She’s been hoping for one for months.

After completing my workout for the day (dragging the humongous package up the stairs), I finally got the opportunity to see what was inside. While it wasn’t a flat screened tv, it was just as marvelous. I pulled a very large, very beautiful handpainted wooden sign from within the box. It was stunning! I immediately fell in love with the sign. Joni of Chocolate Butterbean included a heartfelt note and I immediately knew that I wanted to share her one-of-a-kind designs with our readers.

Win: A beautiful handpainted wooden sign from Chocolate Butterbean.

To Enter: Tell us a story! Post a comment below describing how you and your significant other met for a chance to win a custom design from Chocolate Butterbean.

This contest ends Thursday, January 21st at Midnight. Best of luck!

Written with love by Southern Weddings
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  1. avatar Elizabeth reply

    My fiance, Joel, and I originally first met as preschoolers (age 3)! Of course it was not quite love at first site, and we don’t remember each other from preschool. We found out we met there when Joel’s mother pulled out one of Joel’s childhood photo albums when I met his family. We’re standing next to each other in the photo! Incidently, Joel’s mother identified his "girlfriend" from preschool in the picture too. It turns out I cut some of her hair off with scissors and was sent home from preschool. I’m not the jealous type though!We met for real as freshmen in high school and became fast friends. By the time we were juniors, romance started to bloom and we went to our senior prom as girlfriend and boyfriend. We stayed together all through college and graduate school and are FINALLY getting married in June 2010. I love that we’ve sort of grown up together and that a lot of my sweetest memories involve my future husband.-Liz

  2. avatar Katie reply

    those signs are BEAUTIFUL!!!

  3. avatar Lehua reply

    My fiance and I both went to college at the same time, but didn’t know each other until our last year there. We both ran for student government positions — him as president and myself as the vice president of finance and that’s how we became friends. We both were elected into office and became very involved on campus, joining lots of clubs together, taking classes together and eventually our friendship formed into something more. We’ve worked together on so many projects and been there for each other, that it just felt natural. We were known on campus as the "power couple" and it was just amazing to have someone there with me, who knew exactly what I was going through and experiencing it with me. We’re very lucky to have found one another. <3

  4. avatar Stephanie reply

    Vance and I met the good old fashion Southern way, in a bar! We had gone out that night with mutual friends and hit it off from the very start. Unfortunately I happened to be in a relationship at the time. Lucky for me, he thought I was worth the wait. A year and a half later I realized he was where I belonged, two years later he popped the question and three years later we’re saying I do. I’m just as giddy as the very first night we met. :)

  5. avatar Clare Richardson reply

    I was his "incoming student" mentor when he transferred to my college after freshman year. Truth be told, I asked to be assigned to him because I already liked him!

  6. avatar kjb reply

    oh my, there could not be a more beautiful piece of art on wood! i can already imagine the many ways i could use Chocolate Butterbean at our wedding. blake and my love story began at a piano recital as children. however, as far as we can recall, sixth grade was the beginning of our relationship. blake developed a huge crush on me when we met in sixth grade. after a year of pining, i gave in and agreed to "go out with him". although the relationship had monumental consequences – my first kiss was blake – our long middle school courtship ended after a few months. we remained best of friends throughout high school and college. it was on a road trip for blake’s final collegiate soccer game that i realized my feelings for him had never faded. finally with a bit of courage from our friends, i revealed my crush that had been hiding for years. and now we are getting married.

  7. avatar Ashley reply

    My fiance and I met in college. We were in an organization called SAA and he was so dreamy I use to stare at him from across the room. He didn’t know until a year and a half later when we started dating!

  8. avatar ShannonP reply

    My SO and I met just before our sophomore year of college as we were moving into neighboring apartments. We became fast friends, harboring mutual crushes. Two and a half years later, when we ran into each other on campus for the zillionth time, he actually followed up and asked me out on a date that night. We’ve never looked back. <3p.s. I totally want to win one of these, they’re beautiful!!

  9. avatar Rebecca reply

    I personally think the story of how my fiance and I met is adorable. I grew up in rural north Texas, while he is from the heart of Dallas–Oak Cliff. Country Mouse and City Mouse didn’t have much chance of crossing paths. However, we were each locally selected to represent our high schools at a leadership camp sponsored by Rotary. (Note: out of a couple thousand applicants, less than one hundred fifty are chosen. Odds were not in our favor!) So, in June of 2004, we were two among one hundred thirty-something campers–and never met. Oops. Thankfully, we each fell in love with the camp, its mission, and its people, and both applied to come back on staff. I specifically remember gooshing with a friend over the "fabulous guys" who attended this camp, and we both wished that we could marry "RYLA boys"…but knew we’d never be so lucky. At any rate, my fiance and I were both selected to come back to work at camp. So, we began attending training, where Jeff SAYS he tried to "holla" at me (these Oak Cliff boys, I never know what they’re saying :), but apparently it didn’t work. We truly began developing a friendship in June 2005 (at camp–that’s right, a "camp relationship" come true!!), and after each of our current relationships fell apart, we quickly fell for each other. Four and a half years and five camps later, City Mouse and City Mouse will live happily ever after, beginning this summer–AFTER camp :)

  10. avatar Meg reply

    Depending on who we’re telling, we met at a bar OR we met at a church function. It was Catholic Young Adult Night at the bar. I was there with my friend and her now husband, who always managed to get into heated arguments in public. He was there with his friends who had coupled off. He came over and asked if he could play darts with us to "get away from couple hell." I said "sure, but you’re joining couple hell over here."We went out the following week and have been together ever since. We’re getting married May 2010 and I could not be happier about spending the rest of my life with him.

  11. avatar Courtney reply

    We met in High School in Biology class. He had gotten in trouble and was sent to the back of the room (I had already been sent back there few weeks prior). He had a hot pink mohawk so I gave him a silly biology related nickname pertaining to the pink hair. That was it… we’ve been in love ever since! Thank you Ms. Biology class teacher, without you the most important things in my life would never be.

  12. avatar catherine reply

    I met my absolutely wonderful and charming significant other on a blind date in high school. We were set-up miraculously by a friend for my winter formal. It was honestly a weird coincident considering we knew each other prior through our friend but never even thought of the other at all. We instantly hit it off that evening and our relationship soon enough blossomed and grew to where we are today. Six years later we are still blessed and thankful for that one moment and possibly best decision and risk that I have made so far in my life.

  13. avatar Michelle reply

    Jason and I met during my second year of college at the Art Institute in Minneapolis. One of my best friends, Lisa, had just begun dating a guy in Denver and wanted to see him over Spring Break, and at the same time I wanted to visit my parents who had recently moved to western Kansas. With both of us being broke college students that couldn’t afford plane tickets, we decided to drive together to Denver. From there I would drop her off, drive three more hours to my parents house and when the week was over I would drive back, pick her up and we would drive back to Minneapolis. We drove through the night and made it into Denver in the wee hours of the morning, just in time to get into his apartment and crash for the day. I woke up in the early afternoon to Lisa freaking out because she had clogged the toilet(!) and she didn’t want her boyfriend, Jon to come home to that. So Jason, Jon’s roommate came home early from work and helped her out of the situation, then we chatted for 15 minutes and after that we went back to sleep.Later that night the four of us – Jon, Lisa, Jason and I went out to dinner and a party. Jason and I were chatting and flirting a bit, but I didn’t think too much of it – I thought he was charming and funny, but nothing too serious. I left the next morning and went to visit my parents for the week. Lisa then called me half way through the week to tell me that Jason was asking about me and thought I was a very cute girl!!So when I returned to pick her up we stayed one more night in Denver and Jason and I got to chat more and things became more serious. That friendship blossomed into a long distance relationship, and five years later the two of us are getting married! The funniest part is that Lisa and Jon’s relationship lasted only one month after they introduced the two of us!

  14. avatar Emily reply

    My fiance is a photographer, and when we met, he was finishing his degree. I was auditioning for a dance show at school, and he came to scout dancers for a photo series he was working on. We worked together a few times me usually jumping around in front of him and his camera, and about a month or two later, it clicked, and we saw each other in a different light.I ended up going to a school that wasn’t my first choice (so I could meet him), I went to an audition even though performing arts isn’t my major, and it was lucky that I even saw the flyer (so I could meet him), and I unknowingly sat in front of him at church one night after winter break (so I could meet him). Things DO happen for a reason. We are completely imperfect together, but even more so apart.These signs are adorable and would be perfect for our laid-back affair next summer! Please pick us!

  15. avatar Tamara Kenyon reply

    Our story is something that we don’t tell many people because I feel like it’s kinda strange. My husband and I met online. Though meeting online is totally acceptable now, I’m a little embarrassed to say that we met on Myspace (for the record it was when it first came out and was cool….). Anyway, I really wanted to go skydiving so I joined a Myspace group that was associated with my college. After looking through it I found a guy with a profile picture of a skydive run. Perfect! So I emailed him asking who he would recommend going to locally and he gave me the information. I wasn’t looking for a boyfriend or anything (had actually declared to my friends at that time that I wanted to stay single). Him and I would occasionally talk but nothing serious at all. One day we decided to hang out as friends and it was fun. Turns out we really clicked and soon enough started dating. Almost 4 years later we were married. Still newlyweds, we were married on September 12th, 2009. :)

  16. avatar Molly reply

    I was a freshman at Converse College and had just gone through a big breakup; so I was down in the dumps on Valentine’s Day. My good friend Meredith decided that we needed to get out and have fun instead of drowning in our single sorrows. We went to a Valentine’s party at Wofford College and were having such a great time! Meredith was off talking to someone, and a boy (looking very out of place) wearing a high school letterman’s jacket caught my eye. I made my way through the crowd to say hello. Turns out, he was a high school senior from up north and was on a recruiting visit to play football at Wofford. He was such a cutie; I was instantly smitten! We talked for a little while, but the night was coming to an end and we parted ways without exchanging information. (dumb!) I forgot his name before we even left. Over the next few months, I bugged Meredith constantly asking, “Remember that cute high school boy at the party? I wish I knew his name! Do you think he’ll come to Wofford??” I never thought I would see him again.One night, we were at the same fraternity house at Wofford that hosted the Valentine’s party the previous semester. I was sitting on the back porch talking to some friends, and “high school boy” walked in the back door. I have never been so surprised in my entire life. He instantly recognized me and came over to where I was. We talked the whole night and shared stories about how we had both been thinking about each other since his recruiting visit and wondering if we would see each other again. We hung out that night, and the rest is history!

  17. avatar Nicole Marie reply

    These are too adorable!Chris and I met completely on accident. We both went to a tri-state band convention (yes, we’re band nerds!) and because my flight got in late, I didn’t get the chance to audition for my chair and instead got placed last! Luckily, being last chair landed me right next to Chris who was first chair in his section. After a long week of rehersals, there was music in the air (pun intended)!

  18. avatar Jessica J. reply

    We met on the bus, when I was in 7th grade. He is 3 years older than me, and he lived right up the road. We met because the middle school and high school share a bus. Gregg and I didn’t really talk until I was in 9th grade, but he remembers having a crush on me & specifically remembers a fake tattoo I had on my leg when I was 12 and I would prop my legs up on the seat in front of me on the bus. When I started high school, he was a senior, and we started talking because he knew my ex-boyfriend. After the first day of talking, we bonded and became best friends. We always dated other people, and now he says he had a huge crush on me back then. I somehow knew we would end up together, because I have a diary entry where I wrote about how we would end up being old together. We both moved to different cities after high school, but ended back at our parent’s houses, which were very close. Things clicked when I was 20-21 and I realized he was the person I had been searching for all along. We’ve been together for 9 years now, and it is time to get married! I am marrying my best friend, and things couldn’t be better!

  19. avatar Whit reply

    Cory and I met in Mobile, Alabama. He was there for work and I was there visiting my dad who works for the same company. The first night I was there the company had a closed party at this tiny bar called Veets (anyone ever been there?). I was walking by the Golden Tee game when a girl I had met and who knew Cory stopped me. She introduced me to the other guys Cory was standing with and then said… "Cory, this is Whitney" "Whitney, this is Cory, he’s the cute one" I smiled and thought to myself ‘yes he is the cute one.’ The second we said hello we never stopped talking, I barely remember anyone being around us after that. It was like we had known each other for years. I knew from that moment on that I had met the one. Love at first sight at it’s best. :)

  20. avatar Christy reply

    As members of the same college band, it was inevitable that our paths would eventually cross. Lucky for us, it turned out to be sooner when I went out after a concert with some of David’s fraternity brothers. Sitting in a booth with four of his brothers at Applebees, I kept having to turn around so that someone else was included in the conversation at our table. Turns out it was David. In his words… "I had to stay involved in that table’s conversation, because I wanted to know everything I could about you."Needless to say, his brothers kept finding excuses to get us near each other, and 5 of them will be standing at the altar to witness our marriage!

  21. avatar Allie W reply

    Dave and I met at Florida State University in a Business class. On the first day of class, I sat in the front row. My Dad would be so proud! Dave sat behind me. The teacher decided to pair us up for a semester long group project. The teacher assigned Dave and I to the same group. For the next year and a half, Dave and I at least one class together. Before long we were in the back row of the classroom chatting away and sharing our daily bag of Skittles.

  22. avatar Lauren G reply

    My boyfriend and I have been together since high school. I was friends with a lot of his friends. His senior year in high school, he tore his ACL. I happened to work for a physical therapist. I called him to help set up his appointments for his therapy, he sent flowers to thank me, and it’s history from there. We dated long distance all through college and finally live in the same state again.

  23. avatar Caty reply

    My fiance and I met face to face in a pretty interesting place, the Peace Corps in the Kingdom of Tonga, but it wasn’t the first time we talked. Jim arrived in Tonga in October 2003, and in May 2004, I received my placement. Always the planner(kinda), I reached out to all the Tonga Volunteers with Blogs, and Jim’s was the best, so I e-mailed Jim to get the low down on what bug-repellant I should bring. Little did Jim know his future was knocking at his inbox.2 Months later, I stepped off the plane in a very strange land. Unbeknownst to me, Jim (without even realizing I was the same person who had emailed him months before) was already staking claim from afar. The other volunteers had come to welcome us with leis. Jim’s group was mainly guys, and they were slightly x-chromosome deprived. Steve, one of Jim’s Groomsman and best bud from the Peace Corps, claims that Jim pointed me out and said ‘That one’s mine!’. And that’s when it all started :)

  24. avatar Kelly reply

    I had been looking for a Church to attend for awhile and one of my coworker had been telling be about her Church, then she told me about the new cute guy going there! I told her I was going for a different guy ( ya know?! God ) but the Lord blessed me with both his love and of that cute guy!! Happily getting married in April :)

  25. avatar Jenna reply

    My freshman year of college my friends and I were on the hunt for ping pong balls to play a certain dorm game ;) My wonderful friend from home heard about this (as we had no cars to drive to the store to buy some) and sent a care package to me containing my favorite turkey burgers individually wrapped for me to microwave in the dorm, as well as about 30 ping pong balls. Word spread in my small dorm that I had tons ping pong balls. Months later around spring break, my now fiance was celebrating his birthday and wanted to play beer pong. He asked people around the dorm and everyone directed him to "Jenna on the 3rd floor." He came up and asked if he could borrow some ping pong balls and invited me to play, and the rest is history!!!

  26. avatar Amber reply

    I met my fiance, Corian, in August 2003 at the trashy club – Scandals, perfect name, right?! – near Winthrop University in Rock Hill, S.C. My best friend and I were dancing when she saw a group of guys she knew that had graduated a few years earlier. She grabbed her friend, Rod, and told me to "entertain" his friend, Corian. Being a good wingman, I danced with him. He said, and I quote, "You keep dancing like that, and I’m going to have to get your number." Cheesy line aside, we’ve been together ever since!We’d love to win the [email protected]

  27. avatar Whitney Hairston reply

    I dropped my jaw when I saw these signs!!! They are breathtaking. I am so glad I got on twitter tonight to find this I bookmarked this page for sureI can’t wait to be able to shop and order these signs from the site and let bride’s & groom’s know about thisIt is a decoration and a way to personalize your wedding and a wonderful keepsake that could warm up any home!Great idea

  28. avatar Rhonda reply

    Joel and I first met when introduced by my friend, Jen. Jen was leading a workshop for Joel and during their conversation she discovered that he was single. Jen had tried two unsuccessful matches for me in that past and was leery of going for a third. She finally asked me if I would be interested in meeting him. I was totally open to the idea, and evidently so was Joel. The three of us met for lunch at the Regent Ordinary the following week. I had arrived at the Ordinary early to meet with another student. I had no idea what Joel looked like, but knew that his office was in that building. As I left the Ordinary for quick trip to the restroom, I passed this tall handsome guy and thought to myself, "I wonder if that’s him." Honestly, he was the only fellow of whom I thought that. When I returned, my friend said, "Did you see him?" I replied by letting her know that I didn’t know what he looked like. I was surprised when she nodded at the man I had passed. Of course I took the opportunity over the next half hour to observe his interactions. :-)Finally at lunch, Jen introduced us and I was quickly became impressed with his conversation and presence. By the end of lunch, Joel had indicated that he would enjoy getting together again sometime soon. We went out again the following week.

  29. avatar Yori Aiyeola reply

    I had a crazy crush on my fiancé. I would see him walking around the neighborhood and at local restaurants. I remember being in the hair salon and coming out of the shampoo bowl, and there he was. Finally, I told my friends about my new crush, and we did some investigating. We found out where he worked, and I would get dressed up to go in and flirt with him. He was shy, so my friend told him I was interested. We exchanged phone numbers and hit it off instantly.

  30. avatar Joe Cowie reply

    We were in one of the wackest nightclubs in the world called "Fridays" on the sunshine coast in Queensland, that much we can agree on. From there on we both have our own stories of what happened next. I remember starting a conversation with Emily because I noticed the bone carving she was wearing, which resonated deeply with my kiwi roots. I then proceeded to dazzle her with my extremely competent dancefloor gyrations, probably to Blueboy’s "Remember Me". After she recovered from watching the devastation that are my dance moves, she then made sexy eyes at me. And the rest is history. Quite traditional really.Joe.

  31. avatar Megan reply

    It was nearing the end of my junior year of high school (his sophomore year) and I was leaving cheerleading practice, walking to my car. He was on his way to baseball practice when my friend and I passed him. They said hi to each other and we kept on walking. Once he was out of ear shot, I IMMEDIATELY said to her "Who is that?!" And she told me his name. Apparently after that, it got around that I was interested…It was a few weeks later and time for me to find a date to prom. It was the last day to buy tickets and I was still dateless when I heard he would go with me. Only problem was, sophomores couldn’t go to the prom unless invited by a junior or senior. So I would have to ask him. I didn’t mind but by that time it was too late to get tickets so I just went with a girlfriend. Nonetheless, we began talking after that and the rest is history :)

  32. avatar Chelsea Weeks reply

    I was with a guy for 5 years out of my life. While I was with him, his brother was room-mates with this guy named Daniel. We would go over there every now & then and visit his brother. Well, I would see Daniel around town sometimes. He, too, was in a relationship for 5 years at the time. We met again in college, & began to see each other in the cafeteria at breakfast time. We really enjoyed each others company & talked about how we were both unhappy in our relationships. I was in an abusive relationship & he was in a troubled one. We became best friends, eating breakfast every Tuesday & Thursday morning. One day he told me he had broken up with his ex because I had given him enough courage to do so, and he could’t be in the relationship any longer. After seeing that he was able to do it, I did the same. We then started to spend time together out of school & it progressed into a wonderful relationship & after a year of being together…he proposed!!! We’re getting married March 13 of this year, & ofcourse, it’s a Southern Wedding! With the horse & carriage, mason jars, horseshoes, the whole nine yards! I couldn’t be happier that this is the path I’ve chosen. Daniel has given me the strength to do things WAY beyond my expectations. And THAT is how we met :)

  33. avatar Christina S. reply

    *Crash! Screech! "UH OH" was how me and my SO met 2 and a half years ago. I was helping a friend move and standing in a driveway holding a dresser. He pulled up in his SUV backed over her mailbox. I like to think he was so stricken with my strength and beauty that he lost sight of everything else going on. :P We became friends throughout the day, had a fun time that night as a devil and a penguin (it was Halloween). We chatted over the next several weeks and new we were meant for each other! Christina S.

  34. avatar Meg reply

    My fiance and I met while swimming at a raft in the middle of a lake in Wisconsin — we’ve set our wedding to take place at a resort on that lake!

  35. avatar Caroline reply

    This is a little complicated…my fiancé, Tripp, and I were introduced by his brother, Matt. Matt and my best friend from home, Brittany, both went to the College of Charleston. They met, fell in love, and have been together ever since. I knew Matt and loved his charming personality and how happy he made Brittany. A few years later, I was moving to Nashville, Tennessee, Matt’s home town. He insisted that I met his brother, Tripp, as soon as I pulled into town. Matt described Tripp as, “just like me, but a lot cooler.” I knew that couldn’t be possible…until I met Tripp. The first night the four of us all went out together we ended up staying up all night playing cards and watching the sun rise. Tripp and I have been inseparable ever since and are getting married on May 15, 2010. If you can follow the story…I am marrying my best friend’s boyfriend’s brother. Hopefully someday I will also get to call my best friend my sister!

  36. avatar Erin reply

    My finance & I have know each other since we were little. We have framed picture of us standing beside each other in Nursery School, looking googlied eyed! ha Guess you could say it was love at first sight! We are 28 now and have been together 8 1/2 years. We will finally tie the knot April 24! :)

  37. avatar Brittany reply

    I think these signs are beautiful and I’d love to win one. My fiance and I have an *interesting* (and long) story. I was out for my friend’s birthday. It was a Good Friday and we’d gotten out of work early so we all went right out to get the party started. I had recently broken up with a guy and was finally in the "I am totally fine and want nothing to do with any guys I just want to have fun with my girls" stage. That evening at our favorite bar I noticed a really cute guy who was sitting with a couple other guys drinking beer. I could be considered a bit of a flirt so on my way to the ladies room I walked over to him, bent down, kissed him on the cheek, and kept walking. I returned to the party. Not long after he came looking for me and asked the Birthday girl to introduce us (which she did). I decided to invite him and his friends out with us to the next bar. The night was going well until I returned from getting another round of drinks. In the corner was this guy (Michael) and my friend full fledge making out. I was heated. I said goodbye to the group and walked out of the bar. The friend came out after me asking what was wrong and I gave her a piece of my mind. The guy came out looking confused. (I later found out that she’d told him I’d gone home and wasn’t interested). That was the end of our friendship for quite some time. About a week later I got a voicemail at work from Michael. He remembered my name and knew where I worked and called all around to find me, apologize, and ask if he could take me out. I figured his effort was worth at least meeting for drinks (after all, I’d just "broken up" with my bff and was lonely). We met for drinks and that turned into a wonderful, long term relationship. This April will be 5 years that we’ve been together and our wedding will be held Labor Day Weekend. Eventually, the Birthday girl and I made up and the kicker is that at a party that Michael and I had, she met a childhood friend of his. They hit it off, were married this past July, and are expecting their first child. Is that a soap opera or what?!

  38. avatar Allison Williams reply

    My fiance, Jamie, and I met about six years ago riding horses at an event in South Dakota. We had such a wonderful time with each other, but I am from Tennessee and he is from Georgia, so we never really expected to see each other again. But, as luck would have it, we kept running into each other a couple of times every year, and every time in South Dakota and South Georgia. Small world I guess. Finally, we ended up running into each other at the right time in our lives and now we are engaged to be married in June! We are so excited! Our wedding and reception is at a stable/bed and breakfast in Oxford, Mississippi and the Chocolate Butterbean sign would be perfect!

  39. avatar Kris reply

    Where do I begin??? My FH and I have known each other since we were 11! We went to the same middle school and high school but ran in different crowds (even though i’d always wished we hung out). Our junior year, Chris moved 2 hours away and I figured that I’d never see him again. After graduation, Chris joined the Air Force and I left for college. The summer after our high school graduation, I was back home and out at a party with some friends. All of a sudden I turn around and Chris is standing in the corner!!! He got stationed back in our hometown! Ever since that night we have been inseperable :) I am so looking forward to marrying the love of my life in June!!

  40. avatar Kourtney reply

    My fiance’ and I met at a clothes drive sponsored by a local community service organization. Most people involved in the clothes drive wanted to stand in front of a very popular restaurant in town and solicit donations from the patrons. No one was interested in staying in the back of the care facility to sort and fold the clothes we had collected throughout the day. However, my fiance’ and I decided to do just that and sat for 4 hours talking and folding clothes. No sparks flew…no magical feeling overwhelmed us…we just enjoyed each other’s company. He made me laugh A LOT. We parted ways without exchanging information only to come across each other’s paths a few months later at a Bible study group. And the rest, as they say, is history…

  41. avatar Chocolate Butterbean reply

    Thank y’all so much for the sweet post! I truly appreciate it, and love the constant inspiration you provide!

  42. avatar Mandy Langford reply

    Funny thing is my fiance (Stephan) and I don’t remember when we met!! We know it was 7-8 years ago and we were introduced by mutual friends, however we don’t remember the exact meeting. We flirted for a few years and one night ended up at the same get together (at the insistence of the same friends who introduced us). The get together was at a dude ranch in central Florida and this was where we shared our first kiss! Although we didn’t start dating until a few years later (I lived out of state) we both remember that first kiss. When I saw these custom signs from Chocolate Butterbeans it instantly took me back to the site of our first kiss, which was rustic and original, just like these signs! A custom made sign from Chocolate Butterbeans would make a PERFECT addition to our wedding day!!

  43. avatar Cristina reply

    My future hubby and I met many, many years ago… in a land far away. Our parents were great friends when we lived in Venezuela. He was 5 and I was 2 when his parents decided to move back to Texas. We lost contact throughout the years but little did we know what God had bigger plans for us. After 15 years, we re-met in Abilene, Texas through a chance encounter while visiting my brother – who was going to the same college as my future husband, Lucas (sigh, that’s another story in itself!). I still remember my parents dragging me along a 15 hour trip from Ga (where we now live) to TX and now I cant imagine what would have happened if they hadn’t. To make this long story a bit shorter, I fell smitten with a boy who would later become the love of my life on a cold January day in TX. 1 year and a bazillion long distant phone calls later, Lucas moved to Georgia where we lived happily ever after! We are getting married this upcoming May :)Thanks for the fabulous giveaway!

  44. avatar Megan reply

    My fiance and I met 4 years ago (4 years ago this week, actually!) at an Irish pub in Richmond, VA. I asked him to dance, and the rest is history!! We are getting married 4 months from TODAY :)

  45. avatar Ashley reply

    These signs are absolutely adorable! My fiance and I are actually high school sweethearts. We sat across the band room from each other all 4 years, and I have recently discovered that Matt knew me as "pony-tail girl" until we got to know each other :) We had a few other classes together and became part of a small, close-knit group of friends throughout the years. We finally began dating our senior year and here we are – getting married 5 years later! Our tuba & clarinet days are long gone, but we’ll never forget those high school memories….

  46. avatar Anna Clare Brewer reply

    "Hey, can you belay me while I climb?". Part of the first conversation my fiance and I had! I used to work at Alabama Outdoors. I didn’t like working upstairs with the clothes so one day I decided to post myself downstairs with all the backpacks, tents, climbing gear and rock wall. Casey and a friend of his came in that afternoon to work out on the climbing wall. They didn’t have to sign any paperwork since they had already been in so I was trying to find some way to talk with him. He had on a shirt that said BSC across his chest, which was where I was currently finishing out that year. So I used the classical guy pick up line on Casey and asked, "Hey have we met before?". For those who don’t know, Birmingham Southern College is a very small private school in Birmingham, so there was at least facial recognition but no dice on the name or ever really meeting before now. That classic line was all I needed though, we hit it off talking about everything under the sun and have been impossible to pull apart ever since. He is truly my best friend. He even brought me back to the first place we met when he proposed, two and a half years later! We are getting married June 19th, 2010 at his parents lake house on Lake Tuscaloosa. It is going to be a small backyard wedding with lots of vintage, rustic details to it (so we hope at least)!

  47. avatar Kenyatta reply

    My fiancee, AJ, and I first met in 6th grade in 1984. We were in the same homeroom. I feel in love with him without every talking to him. I used to walk past his classes just to look inside at him. We didn’t get to know each other until we were in our twenties, 1997 to now. He is my soul mate. I have been in love with him my whole life.

  48. avatar Q reply

    My fiance and I met in London, 2 months before I was to come back to the states. I did warily told him I was only going to be in London for a short amount of time left but he still wanted to keep dating me. After I came back, he came out for a visit during Thanksgiving. Fast forward, after 5 years of bi-continental dating, we are engaged! I can’t wait to get married to my best friend!

  49. avatar Natalie reply

    We met at a bar. I spent a good hour and a half trying to get his attention subtly. He later claims he couldn’t see me because I was out of his line of sight (I’m 5’1, he’s 6’3). I finally realized we were there with the same group of people, accosted him and we’ve been together ever since! We sometimes try to recreate that night; a 5’1 girl pinning a 6’3 guy against the wall, while all our friends watch and laugh!

  50. avatar nicole marie reply

    We met in Chicago in the fall of 2007. I was on a business trip and met up with Jared after our mutual friend, Jen Blum , said they should meet up for a drink. It wasn’t a set up just a random…"hey, I’ve got this friend who you can get some dinner with while you are on your trip."We first saw each other in the lobby of the Ambassador East Hotel in the Gold Coast section of Chicago. We now refer to this hotel as the ‘Great Gatsby Hotel’ since it had all that sort of art deco charm. I was just ending a long day of a meetings and taking a yoga class before running back to a business dinner party when I met up with Jared in the lobby.It was decided that we should go have a drink at the Signature Room at the top of the Hancock Building. I said that it was the place most people in her meeting recommended since you can see the entire city from the building. I also said that I heard the place was kind of pricey but not to worry because I would just flirt with someone to get some free drinks…which I did! It was just one of those nights — fun and simple. We met people at the bar whom we didn’t know and chatted and also got to know eachother.We had dinner the next night and I kept thinking, this guy is really great — but he lives in Chicago, and I live in New Jersey. We said our good byes and there was no kiss which I later found out was because he wanted to be a gentleman, not a creep — at first I thought the feelings were only on my side. But after I left, he texted me and called me. We started chatting and emailing all the time and even wrote letters (hand written old school letters!!). A month later, he came to visit family in New Jersey and we met up the next time. It was awkward but, I felt like I really knew him. After that we dated for about a year long distance. Then, he proposed and moved to be with me in NJ!! The rest is history.

  51. avatar Marlow reply

    My fiance Parrish and I met while working at a food co-op in Wilmington. We became fast friends, but were both in a relationship. He ended up moving to live with his girlfriend after a few months and while gone, I broke up with my boyfriend. When things fell apart with his girlfriend, he decided to move back to NC. He called me the minute he started his car. I knew at that moment that he loved me. I am thankful that we were friends first. Because of that, I know he will never break my heart!

  52. avatar Brittany reply

    My fiance and I met while I was completing my MA abroad in London, England, UK.A friend of mine sent me a link to join a group for people who support interracial dating. And I definitely do, so of course I joined. I hadn’t been active on the site really because of being busy with university. But one day when I had free time and was surfing the net, I decided to check out the site again. So I logged in and noticed I had 2 messages from this cute guy who’s profile I’d seen the last time I’d been on the site. Basically, the first message said, "You’ve got a great smile. You look really lovely in your pic. Don’t know what you’re here for, or what kind of guys you like, but would you be interested in chatting sometime?" The second one said something like, "I haven’t heard from you and its been about 2 weeks so you must not be interested. Good luck and God bless." So I replied that I had been really busy and hadn’t been on the site lately, and I wasn’t really looking for anything, but we could chat sometime anything. From there we started sending messages back and forth. After a while we exchanged numbers and were constantly calling and texting. After determining that he wasn’t dodgy I agreed to meet him in person finally. So we hung out, and from that first time we hung out I knew he was "the one," it was basically love at first sight. We’ve been together ever since.Strangely, the summer before I left for London, my mother kept telling me again and again that she had a hunch that I was going to meet my husband while there. I guess mother really does know best. :)

  53. avatar Sarah reply

    Never drive faster than your guardian angel can fly. ~Author UnknownI am not an excellent driver, but 5 years ago my poor driving skills proved to be lucky. While pulling into the parking lot of a friend’s condo building (late as usual), I nearly hit Justin as he was crossing the parking lot. It was love at first sight/tire squeal. Our wedding is set for May 15th, 2010!! Perhaps our Chocolate Butterbean sign should read "Pedestrian Crossing"…

  54. avatar Ashley Sue Allen reply

    Marc and I met in the fourth grade. He moved here (NC) with his family from Pennsylvania. His first day of school, he was introduced to the class, the teacher pulled up an empty desk beside mine as I wedged my desk over to widen the circle, and Marc sat down next to me. He was sooooo shy, and I was immediately smitten. That was 1990. Who’d have thought, we’d be getting married exactly 20 years later! :)

  55. avatar Lesley Carr reply

    It was Christmas Eve and nothing seemed to be out of the ordinary. He asked me to go to lunch with him and his parents. He picked me up at my house, and we headed to lunch (so I thought). Once we got in the car, he said to me, " I have to run by the church to make my year end pledge". I said, "okay sure, that is fine". He said to me, "why don’t you come in and talk to Dr. Besty" (our minister). He knew I was interested in joining, because together we had chosen this church to start our married lives. I remember him pulling into the parking lot, and he buzzed into the back door of the church. Once we entered he said to me, "Betsy, told me to meet her in the sanctuary". We walked from the basement to the sanctuary which seemed like a very long walk. Joe was leading the way the entire time. When we entered the sanctuary it was decorated so beautiful ,and all of the Christmas ligths were on. I did not see any minister, but I figured she was on her way up to collect the tithing. As we stood there my finace said, "you know Lesley, it was one year ago today that I first laid my eyes on you at last years Christmas Eve service. He said, " I knew from the moment I saw you, I had to meet you". " He said look how beautiful this place is". I want to hopefully get married here one day and start a family, and with that said, he said, I cannot think of a better time to ask you to marry me". He got down on one knee and opened the box. After crying and hugging for a good ten mintues with the open box in his hand, he said " would you like to see your ring?" It truly is the most gorgeous ring I have ever seen in my life. The sun was coming through the stain glass windows, and it could not have been more beautiful. After 15 minutes Joe and I went to show the minister. She knew about everything, he had been in contact with her for two weeks to arrange the proposal. She took us into the santuary and said a prayer with us. It was the most wonderful day of our lives. At the Chirstmas Eve service that night, the minister announced the engagement in church and all of our family and friends were there to here the good news. It was truly the most special day of my life, and it is a story we can always tell our children and grandchildren.

  56. avatar Lana reply

    Below is the story of how my fiance and I met. He wrote this for our website and I cried like a baby the first time I read it (who am I kidding – I tear up every time). I can’t tell it any better so I’ll just leave it to him. I’m a pretty lucky girl. A Girl Who Eats and Only Cries In Pain The first time I really met Lana was on an incredibly cool summer football day in the shadow of Kyle Field. It was also the beginning of one of the most disappointing football seasons I could recall in a long time. She was wearing a snug shirt and jeans and was eating. This was soon to become a common sight. One of the first stories my best friend Clay ever told me about the Rehak Girls (they were almost always referred to as “the Rehak Girls” until Clay decided to divide the two by dating one of them) directly involved their proficiency in eating. He had taken them to a hot dog party in his hometown of Wharton and, knowing no one there, the Girls had planted themselves together near a swing set. When Clay’s mother simply asked, “Are they going to eat?” Clay answered confidently, “Oh yeah, they’ll eat. Don’t you worry.” I remember thinking that a girl who eats is somebody I could easily like. However, by the time the Rehak Girls Can Eat story had been told to me, I’d already been exposed to Lana, albeit indirectly, through a series of pictures she had taken at a weekend long country music festival in College Station that I was unable to attend because I was burning myself with a welding torch out on an oil rig. She didn’t take the usual mundane pictures that accompany these kinds of events with shots of beer drinking and singers onstage; but rather, she had taken a montage of every single oddity at the event. There were quite a few. From extremely gross calf muscle man, to too-tight Wranglers dude, to somebody who couldn’t listen to music without biting his lower lip and closing his eyes (the “white guy lower lip bite” as she labeled it). Lana was never actually in any of the pictures of the event that I saw; merely a smorgasbord of redneck Americana that she had expertly documented and labeled. This, for me, plainly made this girl worth knowing; up until the day I actually met her, at least. The day I physically laid eyes on her, I was in a foul mood. I had just come off rig from a 3 day job, had driven the 3-1/2 hours into College Station, was upset about my career and my situation with my soon to be ex-girlfriend. Things had not been going my way lately and I was in no mood to meet new people. Therefore, when the Rehak Girls were finally introduced to me in the flesh I was more interested in finding alcohol. Rounds of shots bookended that evening. Strangely enough, I have a habit of being reintroduced to people that I’ve met before. I could say it’s an idiom of mine, but it’s actually probably closer to something more like idiocy. I remember seeing Lana and Elizabeth at the tailgate and not needing to be reintroduced. I also remember avoiding direct conversation with them, something I almost never do. I flopped down in a canvas chair and bitched about something that prompted Clay to hand me a beer. I told him I had decided to end my previous relationship, expounded on the reasons why, and summed up the entire situation with “I need a new girlfriend.” Lana promptly spoke up from next to the queso, “I’ll be your girlfriend” she said and smiled. I was speechless, which is rare. Rather than address the unique situation, I feigned confusion. Everyone laughed, Lana blushed, and I was intrigued. It wasn’t long thereafter that I had removed myself from my previous relationship and found myself talking to Lana quite frequently on gtalk. She would tell me about her day, her job, and whatever reality TV show she was currently watching and I would listen and ignore whatever was on my TV at the time. These were long conversations that easily filled entire nights. They weren’t particularly profound, but they were important. We frequently met up at football games and at Clay’s house in Austin. I had never visited Clay so many times with such common frequency (Clay, I saw that a Sumerian fertility figurine exhibit is in Austin. Maybe I can come down for the weekend and check it out?). Whether she was as interested in seeing me as I was her I couldn’t be certain, but I was always hopeful she would bite on the excuse as readily as I cast it out there. Finally, in January, the annual Steamboat Springs ski trip came up. Our time together, though spent mainly with the group, still seemed sequestered from them. We managed to have our own inside jokes, our own ski stories (mine skiing, hers falling), and typically found ourselves alone together even among the others. I was always next to her on the ski lift, at the bar, in the condo. It wasn’t an accident. It all came to a head the day after Lana had promised her cousin Ben that something bad would happen to him for launching a rock at a partridge next to the hot-tub one night. He missed. She, however, promptly broke her arm on her way down the mountain to show off her newfound snowboarding skills. She cried and posed for a picture next to the emergency crossed skis she was sitting next to, and then was snow-mobiled down the mountain and off to the ER. Elizabeth found the rest of us at the hot tub and informed us that Lana had broken her arm. “It seems kinda bad,” she said. Everyone was silent. She added softly, “She cried a little.” I thought nothing of the last sentence; however, it carried ominous overtones for Clay. After seeing his face I asked “Is that unusual?” Without looking at me, Clay said, “If she cried, she must be in serious pain.” Elizabeth nodded at this statement. A girl who eats and only cries in pain. Soon thereafter, I finally asked her out on our first date. In point of fact, I actually asked her out that very same night, in the main concert tent. She was wearing galoshes and a beanie cap and doing the robot with her arm in a sling telling us about the nurse who gave her a pain killer and instructed her “not to consume alcohol with it.” In telling the story, Lana demonstrated the dubious look she gave the alcohol hating little pill. After laughing I told her “You should date me.” She either didn’t hear me, or, hopefully, was speechless. As much a rarity for her as it is me. However, it was already too late. It dawned on me much earlier that evening how much there was to knowing Lana, how much I still didn’t know, and how much I wanted to know it. People talk often of love at first sight. I’m not a big believer in unqualified love. I’m a cat person; true love is earned. Shallowness in love seems acceptable to people provided its big enough; like a great lake, something beautiful to behold. But depth is something you don’t find looking from the shores. You only really get to the depth of someone by wading in. It takes more than a safe aesthetic appreciation of it, with your hands on your hips, admiring. It takes work; sometimes cold and sometimes dangerous, but therein lies the beauty of those depths. I won’t say I asked her out on our first date “properly”; mainly, because it was over gtalk, but it was sincere none-the-less. She also waited an uncomfortably long time to respond affirmatively. That’s okay though. She is a girl after all. A girl who eats and only cries in pain.

  57. avatar Maleah reply

    We’ve known each other for nearly 15 years. We met while I was in high school (he had just graduated) and I was dating one of his good friends. I married the friend and we moved away. 11 years later I was divorced and so was he. He was there to help me through the first year of my divorce as a friend. After that year we decided to try dating. We’ve been together ever since. I’m lucky to have him and will be honestly marrying my best friend.

  58. avatar Thelma reply

    How I met the love of my life…the man of my dreams Paul.I was chatting with a girl on myspace and she was always throwing house parties so April 08 a friend and I went to one of her parties…I was then introduced to my now fiance Paul.

  59. avatar Jennifer R. reply

    The first weekend of college my sophomore year my roommate and I were out at a party. She struck up a conversation with some dude who ended up coming back to our room. He quickly became aware that with me around his plans were going nowhere, and he left, without getting her number, so nothing ever amounted to anything between them. Fast forward 4 years, and I go to a happy hour at work to welcome some new hires. One of them approached me and asked about where I went to school, and then asked about my roommate and described my sophomore year roommate. Apparently, he had seen me around campus several times over the years and always remembered me as the girl who "ruined" one of his first nights out in college. We became friends, and over the next several months that friendship developed into more. 4 years later we’re engaged to be married in August!

  60. avatar Brook reply

    Hey Y’all,I truly believe in the power of prayer. I prayed to God every day to help me find my soul mate. Graciously enough, God answered my prayers and helped me meet the love of my life, Aaron. I was a college student finishing up my undergraduate degree and like most colleges students I was broke and living off Roman Noodles. I desperately needed a part time job. My uncle was a local business man and he found me a job at First State Bank. My uncle got me the job to secretly set Aaron and me up (Sneaky! Sneaky!) Aaron was a teller and he trained me to be a teller too. After working at the bank a few months, Aaron and I became best friends. We told each other everything. I began to develop a crush on Aaron. I just knew we were perfect for other. We shared the same values and beliefs. He was someone I wanted to take home to meet my parents. It was Christmas and our work hosted an annual Christmas party. I knew this was my perfect opportunity to ask Aaron out. Hesitant, I asked Aaron to the Christmas party (Yes! I did the asking!) To make a long story short, we did not go to the Christmas party together. A few weeks later, we decided to go to a movie together and the rest is history. Aaron later confessed that he also used to pray for God to help him find his soul mate. By the grace of God, we are truly destined to be together. My uncle’s plan worked!Unfortunately, my uncle died last March from Lung Cancer. While, he was sick he made Aaron and I promise that we would take care of each other for the rest of our life. Since he was such a big part in getting us together, Aaron and I are really sad my uncle can not be at our wedding in May. We believe that my uncle was the angel God picked to make a perfect match! Please pick us to win a Chocolate Butterbean sign. The signs are absolutely gorgeous and would look great at our wedding!!! -Brook

  61. avatar chandra reply

    My husband and I were high school sweethearts. We went to different schools but had mutual friends who introduced us. We dated our Junior and Senior years of high school, on and off through colleges (at different colleges), and off then on for good while I was in law school and he lived across the country. We were married 14 years , almost to the day, after our first date! Some things are just meant to be…

  62. avatar Candice reply

    Cupid pointed us in each other’s direction and the rest is history. I’d gone to a local lounge after an amazing concert with a girl friend. She insisted we stop by our favorite lounge on the way home. Even though I had a huge migraine (probably from standing right next to the speakers) I agreed. We stood around for a while and then this random guy walked up to us and said he wanted to introduce us to his friends. We weren’t sure what to say but he had already waved his two friends over. We all politely introduced ourselves and casually paired off and started talking. We wound up talking all night! At some point, we both realized that the random guy was not a friend to either of us. He was our cupid, our angel. That was 3 years ago and I’m sooo glad I stopped by the lounge that night.

  63. avatar Jessica Jan reply

    My tall, handsome fiance and I met at a mutual friend’s block party on New Years Eve (2007). Oddly enough, we met in the small town where we had both grown up. I’m told that he noticed me and my festively sequined shirt as soon as I arrived and he began asking our mutual friends about me. They decided we needed to meet. And so, we did! It was nearly midnight and somehow I mustered up enough courage to ask him for a kiss. It may sound a bit forward, but a southern girl always follows her heart! Of course, he obliged. ;]That fateful night, we went walking down the beautifully aged brick streets of the same neighborhood he had grown up in. We stayed up into the wee hours of the morning talking about everything from our common faith and values to food, culture, and life experiences. It was the most romantic night of my life and one that I will cherish forever. He is my best friend and future husband! As they say, “and the rest is history…”

  64. avatar Jessica reply

    Our tale is one of broken technology, screaming Christian rock music and our love of Christ.The day before I had surgery , which was a Tuesday, my lovely Sony Vaio decided to die so I took it into Geek Squad at Best Buy to get it fixed. While there a nice "Geek" waited on me, however another more handsome Geek was standing behind him. Handsome Geek exclaimed "Hey! Nice Geek! Mind if I turn my Pandora station on?" Handsome Geek bounded over to the satelite radio and what did I hear? A bunch of racket that I recognized.I looked at Handsome Geek and asked him if he had ever heard of a band named Zao, he said yes. Chrome Donuts? Again, he said yes. Our conversation continued, talking about screaming Christian bands that I used to listen to when I was a freshman in high school. Sadly, Nice Geek had taken all of my information and I had paid the fee. The only thing left to do was leave.Three days later (and the day after my surgery), I received a call from the Geek Squad letting me know my computer was ready. I wasn’t feeling well so I decided not to immediately return to Best Buy so I decided to go the following Tuesday. Much to my delight I saw Handsome Geek behind the counter. He was up next to take a customer but there was one customer in front of me. Luckily, Handsome Geek asked Long Haired Geek to take the customer that was in front of me.Handsome Geek said "next customer please". I walked up to the counter and he gave me the rundown on my computer. Then we talked about God, music and more computer business. When it was time to go, he gave me his name to look up on facebook just in case I had any computer trouble in the future. The minute I got home I messaged him to let him know my computer was working and the rest is history.Oh and P.S. He is a Mac and I am a PC. We get along just fine :)

  65. avatar Steph reply

    My finance and I met on a popular dating site; match.com. My sister met her now husband on match.com and convinced me to give it a try. Tired of the bar scene I thought I would give it a go. It took about three days for my profile to be published and the day after it was, my finance had emailed me. We emailed back and forth for only about a week before I felt comfortable enough to meet him for dinner. By our third date I knew he was the one for me. He proposed ten months after that on a Memorial Weekend trip to the mountains.

  66. avatar Erika reply

    I grew up living in the Canadian Prairies. But my long time best friend lived out on Vancouver Island. I spent every other summer holiday growing up from about the age of 10 at her ranch. As we grew up a few years went by where we didnt see each other. Out of the blue she calls me up and tells me she had graduated from college and was having a celebration at the ranch. On a last minute split decision I decided to go. In an effort to make a holiday out of it I went a few days early. The day we were setting up the barn for the dance party, her friend Malcolm (my now fiance) showed up early to catch up with Sara. The first time I met him he walked into the barn backlight by the bright sun. I couldnt see his face, but I could hear him and was instantly attracted to his voice and upbeat attitude. Turns out he was a cutie too! He offered me a home brew and we were inseperable the rest of the weekend!! We danced the night away, spent the next day quadding in the rain forest on the ranch, and swimming in the local prestine river. This summer we will be getting married on that same ranch where we met almost 6 yrs ago!!! These signs would make a perfect edition : )

  67. avatar Meg reply

    My fiance, Aaron, and I met at an event for Auburn and The University of TN young alumni in our area. I had gone the event with a couple of friends from work. While looking for a table, one of the friends I was with spotted Aaron and one of his friends sitting at a table with plenty of chairs. She knew Aaron from college and asked if we could sit down with them – little did we know that him and I had mutual friends! As Aaron and I were chatting he mentioned that he was from Marietta, GA. I told him one of my good friends was from Marietta and I was in her wedding just that past spring. Turns out Aaron’s father officiated the ceremony of the wedding I was in! He had gone to high school and church with her and I had met her at college and got to know some others from his high school. Although Aaron was not actually at the wedding, I had already met his parents and our parents had already met as well! We talked the entire night and starting dating the very next week! His father likes to joke that he met me long before his son and knew I was "the one" for Aaron even before Aaron and I ever met :)

  68. avatar Trisha Tellez reply

    So I was always told by my boss…"never go fishing off the company pier"…. Ok, here we go….My fiance and I both worked for the same company (he was actually hired as my replacement at an office I was transferred from!) I left a little bit of a legacy at the old office because I was the new girl from Texas with the big southern accent! And from what I heard, some of the guys had little crushes on me. (completely innocent) :) Well, one day I had to visit the old office and that is when I met my fiance for the first time! I was just rushing in and rushing out, said the usual hellos and I was out the door! Well talk about first impressions! My fiance was not impressed- he said I seemed "snooty" and he didnt see what all my old employees saw in me! Can you believe that? My fiance said "he didnt think I was all that" lol (believe me, my fiance is the sweetest!) BUt my old office just thought the world of me! Anyways, we had a mutual friend from my fiance’s office and I was invited to a birthday party at a casino club (which was about a week later after the first impression meeting). Talk about sparks! My fiance and I talked and danced the night away! We went our seperate ways after a fun night. Then a week later I get a call from our mutual friend from the old office and he says "COME TO VEGAS!" It was my fiance’s birthday and a group of people took a spontaneous trip to Las Vegas. I called my boss and asked him for the day off… and I got it! I booked a flight and flew to Vegas for the weekend! My fiance and I have been together ever since! I never knew what "It was meant to be" meant, but with the chance meetings with my fiance and my tough boss giving me the day off…. it was all MEANT TO BE!

  69. avatar Alicia B reply

    My fiance and I met on a school trip to Belize. It was the most magical week of my life, not to mention the most rustic! I try to remember the good memories of watching the sunset alone with him on the private island and forget about the lack of plumbing and cat-sized rats! That was three years ago and I still can’t believe he fell in love with me on a remote island with no hair dryer, straightener, or hot showers!

  70. avatar Monique reply

    My fiance and I met at work three years ago … we feel as though we looked for eachother for 40 years and knew the moment we met that we would be together for the rest of our lives! I am from New England (a yankee, the horror!) but am now happily living down south with my born and raised Southern boy. We are getting hitched in May on a gorgeous organic farm in Palmetto, GA, where your (seriously) gorgeous handmade sign would look so beautiful, and would then follow us back home as a wonderful reminder of our perfect day. Please pick us! xo, Monique

  71. avatar Sarah Huggins reply

    While I was in college, one of my best friends, who as it were used to get hit on by some cuckoo myspace stalkers, texted me early in the morning in early October. These texts were usually verbatim messages she had received from wannabe suitors and often very interesting to say the least…. Anyway the message in question read "I know I don’t know you and I know it may be a little early but will you be my valentine?" To which I replied, Elle you get all the stalkers. Much to my surprise this charade carried on with a disappointed text that read "Well I guess it’s a good thing I haven’t bought the roses or chocolates yet…" James had stolen Elle’s phone and texted me after seeing me on her myspace page. We spoke on the phone for nearly a month before we met and he turned out to be the love of my life. While distance separated us while I finished my degree, we couldn’t be happier now and I owe it all to Myspace!

  72. avatar Kemble reply

    So, I’m not engaged or married; nor have I ever been…but, I STILL want that free sign! Just beautiful designs by Chocolate Butterbean. Joni seems SO talented. I wonder if she’s got a sister who’s available…

  73. avatar Jenn S reply

    We met in college, at a meeting for New Student Orientation leaders. He was wearing a 3 foot tall green Mad Hatter Had he’d won at a theme park. I knew then he had something special– and a great sense of humor!

  74. avatar Ashley P reply

    I la la la LOVE Chocolate Butter Bean! In a frantic search for the perfect invitations for my wedding, I went to SWM and lone and behold you fabby girls came through yet AGAIN. My original plan fell through of having a friend design them for me, but she got too busy with work (not to mention invitations need to go out next month!). Anyways, my fiance and I met almost 6 years ago at work and we definitely knew that we couldn’t leave each other alone. We didn’t even try…emails, lunch dates, late night text messages all led to, "I can’t get enough of you!" A short time after working there (about 4 months) a couple of us that were working part time got let go for a full time replacement who could work longer hours. I thought it was great because now we could go public! (there’s always a positive twist on everything :)) We dated on and off for the next 4 years. I knew all along that I wanted to marry Steve, but like a lot of guys out there, it took him a little while to realize that and he almost lost me. In his effort to get me back, he got a fortune cookie at lunch one day that said "Don’t give up" and on the back of it it said "May" which is the month we both made a commitment to never let go of each other again and take the next step, getting engaged! I showed him what style of rings I liked and the requirements (wink, wink) and he took it from there. I wanted to be surpised, and boy did I get that! He flew my parents into town and planned a night to take just me to dinner and then we were going to meet up with his parents and mine after for drinks. I started feeling something fishy going on and he caught wind that I knew, so he through me for a twist and set the alarm for 5am the day we were supposed to go to dinner. The ring box was sitting on the alarm clock and our song (Never Say Never by The Fray) was playing and the sun from the window was shining in…needless to say all I could see was sparkles and I was quickly breath taken by him taking a knee at the side of my bed and asking me for my hand in marriage. Instead of going to dinner (at PF Changs where we used to have lunch dates when we worked together) just the two of us, we went to dinner at the resort we wanted to have our wedding, along with both of our parents to celebrate the engagement. It was perfect. Our besties met up after dinner at the bar in the lobby for drinks and more celebration. Later on he showed me the fortune cookies he had customized (for the PF Changs dinner date) and his said "Today will be the best day of your life" and mine said "Will you marry me?" Can you say too CAYUTE?! I am 87 days away and counting and couldn’t be any happier right now. I found my prince and I’m ready to live our fairy tale…..XO

  75. avatar Hilary reply

    In true Hollywood fashion, Jeff and I met while shooting a movie back in 2007. Oddly enough (though not at the time), we were cast as brother and sister. After filming ended, Jeff went back to Los Angeles (where he was living), but we stayed in touch via email, text messages and a silly little website called Myspace. The opportunity to be closer to his family and friends eventually brought Jeff back to the Dallas area. Within a year, thanks to a little luck and a lot of persistence, Jeff reunited with his leading lady, and the cast of this romantic comedy was complete.

  76. avatar Bonnie reply

    March of 2006 I packed up my car and drove to Sunny South Florida from New Jersey in hopes of just escaping from my everyday routine and having some fun for a little while. I found plenty of fun and also got enrolled back into college. On mother’s day I really didn’t feel much like celebrating (since my mom was in NJ) so I went to meet my friend at a local bar for a drink. When I got there, I saw the most handsome man sitting with my friend. His name was Tony and he was out having a drink because his mom had passed few years earlier and didn’t feel much like being at home. We had a few drinks and laughed. All I wanted since I moved to FL was a pina colada on the beach, so Tony made a date with me to get me that pina colada. He made me laugh so hard and we had so much in common, the moment we became exclusive was over dinner a month or so later when his 5 year old son looked at me and said. "are you my daddy’s girlfriend?" I responded with a smile and said "i’m pretty sure".On the following Mother’s Day, tony took me to the most beautiful restraunt on the beach in Ft. Lauderdale, for brunch, ordered me a pina colada and got down on his knee in front of everyone. who would have thought a move 1200 miles away and a craving for a pina colada would lead me to meet the man of my dreams!

  77. avatar Tusssk reply

    It was the second semester of my junior year and I had seen him before in a photo up in our department office – wearing a black and white striped shirt with his brown curly locks. I was smitten right away. The class down in the library computer lab brought much excitement – not only was it intriguing class material, but better yet, he would be there, and I could finally meet him face to face. The two semesters following that first meeting was filled with awkward moments – neither of us could read each other. However, a little more then a year after that first glimpse, he told me with tears in his eyes that he liked me… alot. This was two years ago, and after many sleepless nights, late talks, a career change, and many more moments, he proposed – and Professor Mark was mine ;)

  78. avatar Adria reply

    My fiance and I met while working at an outdoor education school in Maine. I worked there for one session, and then second session, Tyler moved into the apartment right below my cabin and started teaching there. The majority of the staff working there were in their twenties or early thirties, and the vibe was really kind of like an extended college experience. We all worked together, hung out together, made meals together, etc. Tyler and I became great friends, spending tons of time together with all of our mutual friends. I had a HUGE crush on him, but really couldn’t figure out whether or not he felt the same way, or even if it would be a good idea since we worked together, lived in the same building, shared the same friends… Eventually after six months of wondering, we finally kissed, and now it’s 3 years later and we’re getting married in June! The greatest thing is, I already knew he was one of my best friends before we kissed, AND our wedding party is filled with people we both consider our best friends! I actually force Tyler to sit down and look at your website with me all the time, and I can honestly say that these signs might be the first thing he’s shown genuine interest in! It would fit perfectly with our wedding reception, we hope you choose us!

  79. avatar Katie reply

    My fiance and I met during spring break 2002 in Florida. We both happened to be vacationing in the same area with friends from our college in Maryland. My girlfriend said she knew that there was a group of guys who we would possibly hang our with. She was friends with one of my fiance’s guy pals. They were planning to go to Disney World for the day and we tagged along. Since we spent our first day together on vacation at the happiest place on earth, we actually have pictures of us from that day, which I think is pretty cool. After we both got back to school, we started dating and discovered we grew up about 15 minutes away from each other. Fast forward seven years and I can’t wait to can’t married to such a wonderful guy.

  80. avatar Audrey P reply

    This is a story of love that took 11 years to grow. Ben and I met in college, when I was a freshman and he was a fifth year senior (and he hates that I always have to point that out). We dated for six months, and then I went home for the summer and he broke up with me over the phone on memorial day…he also hates it that I point that out as well. :) I pushed for us to remain friends, as I always felt in my soul that we would be together one day. Of course my friends always told me I was crazy. :) Over the course of the next 7 years we both moved on with our lives and dated other people, but we would always stay in touch, usually when we weren’t dating anyone we would talk or hang out a little. He moved away to work for his father and began dating a girl. Two years later he called and said he was moving back to town, and that he had broken up with his girlfriend. This was right before Christmas, and shortly before my boyfriend broke up with me. He moved back in February of that next year, and we became inseparable. We walked through a lot of tough things together that year; having our hearts broken by other people, his parents divorcing, my grandfather dying. In August of that year we both decided to begin dating with the goal of being married one day. Two years later he proposed and we have been married for two years now. So after 11 years of knowing him, I married my best friend and he thanks me all the time for pushing for us to remain friends. These signs are beautiful and would be an amazing gift to hang in our living room as a reminder of our long journey and love for one another.

  81. avatar Julie reply

    We met one fateful Wednesday night in Clemson, SC when we were both in college. It was trivia night. Tom seems to have a sponge for a brain, never forgetting anything. I cannot say the same about either my brain or my memory. I was impressed with him immediately. Knowing he was smart, I tested his fun level by suggesting an outing for the newest Harry Potter movie. He was game, as were others. Two days later we decided to go see Walk the Line (he remembers)… neither of us was entirely sure that it was really a date until we realized that we were the only ones going to the movie. After the movie, and both of us now understanding what was really going on, we decided to get some ice cream. Alas, it was very late on a Sunday in Clemson, and most of the ice cream shops were closed. Always looking for opportunities to play the hero, Tom decided on calling an audible and headed down to Wendy’s for… Frosties! Being close enough to ice cream, the Frosties satisfied my craving, and was, in fact, a hero.The rest, as they say, is history.

  82. avatar April reply

    It was the first day of college. Campbell was a small, private, baptist-based university where all students were required to take a worship service class. For freshmen, it was CUW 100. For this one hour, one-a-day class, we were to worship the Lord. All students were assigned seats, and as fate would have it, Zack and I were assigned next to each other. We hit it off instantaneously, and as you can imagine, it was hard for us to pay attention to our speaker! There were checkers, who made sure that students were in the correct seats, but ours had to keep coming up to us to tell us to quiet down! It’s hard to believe that such a random seating chart could place us together, so we believe it to be God who placed us together. ;) And you know what’s also neat? The next semester, we were placed beside each other again!! Definitely fate….

  83. avatar Marissa reply

    Jeff and I met through a mutual friend. We’d both recently ended long-term relationships and were completely reluctant to meet anyone. Thank goodness for the pushiness of our friend Danielle… she brought him to meet me at the restaurant where I work part-time, and I couldn’t believe how cute he was. I wasn’t sold until he mentioned the rollerskating birthday party Dani had been suggesting we meet up at. I told him I hadn’t really planned on going, having shattered my arm rollerskating in eighth grade. He took my hand in both of his and said, "I’m not that great of a skater either. Maybe we could just hold eachother up." That sealed the deal, and ever since he’s been the most amazing, supportive partner anyone could ask for. I can’t wait to marry him. :)

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