Hey, howdy, and happy Tuesday, y’all! Since the time between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day (or something like that…) is officially “engagement season,” we know we have lots of new belles just joining the Southern Weddings ranks. We wanted to take a sec to do a quick rundown of the spots where you can find Southern goodness, on this blog and beyond.
First, of course, you’ve got the main blog. We post here two-four times a day on a variety of topics related to weddings and the South. There will always be gorgeous real weddings, but we also post fun features and series. Some of our favorites right now are Emily’s wedding planning posts, our Southern Brides of the Month, Marissa’s fashion and style posts, and our recent series on Southern wedding traditions.
New readers, be sure to check out our real weddings gallery to catch up on years’ worth of inspiring Southern weddings! You can search by color and state, too.
Don’t miss the editorial galleries, either! We’ve posted in-depth looks at almost all of our editorial features from V3 and V4. While you’re at it, why not flip through online editions of V1, V2, and V3? You can always purchase copies of our print editions at this link.
Engaged ladies, your new best friend is our Blue Ribbon Vendor Directory. We’ve stocked it with more than sixty of our favorite vendors across the South and beyond, and we’re adding more talents every day! Vendors do pay to be listed (full disclosure!), but they also must apply to be admitted, and we review each application as a team, and follow up with their references. Only the best for our belles! The Blue Ribbon Vendors you see listed as “Editors’ Picks” have been featured in one of our print editions, so they get an extra-special stamp of SW approval.
If you’re well on your way with wedding planning, it’s time to start thinking about the honeymoon! The Honey List is our collection of SW-approved vacation spots.
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That is so funny and neat – but I can’t very easily bury a bottle of bourbon in a church sanctuary!
Haha! I’d have to agree, Madelynne! I’m not sure that’s the best idea.
My future sister-in-law told me of this tradition and I have since insisted that we do it for our June 9th wedding! Our reception is being held outdoors, on my mom’s Tennessee farm, so I need all the help I can get, superstitious or not. We also plan on drinking a bourbon and coke cocktail after we’ve dug up the bottle in our monogrammed Mason jars! And our party favors for our guests will include mini Jack Daniel’s bottles in the Mason jars, it’s all about a theme, right?
Hello,
Did you have your wedding yet? Did the Bury the Bourbon work? Also, did you bury it 1 calendar month before or 4 weeks before?
Thanks!
One other thing: According to Wikipedia :) Although Jack Daniel’s whiskey generally meets the regulatory criteria for classification as a straight bourbon, the company disavows this classification and markets it simply as Tennessee whiskey rather than as Tennessee bourbon. So we are going with Wikipedia’s classification for our Tennessee wedding and burying the bourbon – Jack Daniel’s!
Wish I had known about this on my wedding day! It rained cats and dogs! Probably would have had to “bury” (read: under a bush and not in dirt) it at the country club reception, as the church did not allow any alcohol on site ;-)
Rest assured, plenty of bourbon was enjoyed that evening!
Oh, I’m sorry it rained on your wedding day! I’m sure it was still beautiful!
This is such a cute idea! I’m going to try the reception site option too since I don’t feel right burying bourbon on the church grounds. Hopefully it will still work for a South Carolina wedding! ;)
We did this for my sisters wedding though our understanding was that you should chose a day that you want the weather to be like and then we buried the bourbon. The hardest part was deciding which day was the best weather and thankfully it worked!
Being that the reception was in my parent’s backyard there weren’t any issues with being allowed to do it. However, we never dug it back up! In all the craziness it is still in the garden.
Love the idea of photographing the event as well as digging up the bottle and drinking it in celebration!
Glad to hear it worked, Julia! That’s all that counts, right?!
I love this website! My fiance and I are both southern, as well our whole families live below the Mason Dixon. We are going to do this for our September 1st wedding!
We are having an outdoor ceremony on June 9th and I am so nervous that it is going to rain. When I read about this tradition, I just knew we had to do it! Just last weekend my fiancee and I went to our ceremony site in Charleston, SC and buried a bottle of bourbon. Now let’s just keep our fingers crossed that it works!!
Oh how fun! You’ll have to let us know if it works! Fingers crossed for you!! xx
Our wedding was June 9th and thanks to the bottle of bourbon we had fantastic weather!! Bright and sunny skies with a little breeze and cooler than normal in Charleston for June. We were esctatic and had a wonderful wedding day!
And then the next day it was overcast and raining off and on So in my opionion, the tradition works :)
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We love your post and we have included it in a roundup of Southern traditions. We linked it back to your post. ;) Check it out here: http://belleandbeauantiquarian.blogspot.com/2012/11/10-southern-traditions-that-yall-should.html
[…] Southern folklore says that if you bury a bottle of bourbon at the site where the bride and groom are to be married, then it won’t rain on their wedding day. According to many believers, this must be done exactly one month before the wedding, the bottle must be completely full and it must be buried upside down in order for it to keep the rain away. […]
Please help. We are supposed to be burying the bottle today. Today is 31days before our wedding. But it’s raining :-( can we do it tomorrow since it technically will still be one month away?
Hi sweet Rebecca! My vote would be to do it tomorrow! :)
My daughter Chessie is burying a bottle of bourbon today for her April 12 wedding…its rainy and windy today will let you know how it worked in a month…
There is a poem that accompanies the tradition of burying the bottle. Have you heard of it? I’m searching for it.
It worked for us in Virginia this past August!
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I was the photographer at a wedding where they buried the bourbon and… it worked! The rain was horrible leading up to the wedding! That whole week seemed like it would lead up to a site that was water logged or we would be boating in! On Friday, the rain finally stopped around noon but it was calling for more the next day. When we showed up for the rehearsal, everyone was in rain boots and the bride had full confidence that the 3 inch deep puddles would be dry on Saturday. When we arrived on Saturday, it was dry! I will never doubt this southern tradition and plan to do this when my daughters marry!
Hello,
I am wondering how specific do you have to be regarding the ONE MONTH rule.
Example: Our wedding is Saturday Oct 4th. Does that mean we bury September 4th (Which is a Thursday) or 4 weeks before (would be September 6th a Saturday like our wedding)
-Christina
My wedding is October 4th as well and we will be burying ours tomorrow, September 4th. Our venue has had 26 weddings and it only rained once. That was because they didn’t bury their bourbon!
We do not have a wedding at Walnut Way without burying the Bourbon! We are at 100% sunshine since we began having weddings. Our couples have fun with the tradition by having a picnic. If the couple is from out of town I bury it for them and send photos. It is frequently the first photo in their wedding album and digging it up is the last. We have had weddings that couldn’t have their rehearsal due to rain and the next morning the sun came out. Other weddings have had the rain begin the following day. Walnut Way
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When I was a kid in west Texas, a family friend found a bottle of bourbon buried on their property. It was over 100 years old. Nobody had a clue why anyone would bury bourbon underground. As an adult when I moved to the Carolina’s I learned it was a tradition. Looking back, most of the settlers that came out west were from the Southern states. So as far as I can say, the tradition has been around for over 100 years.
We’re having a destination NYE wedding in Hilton Head and of course they’re predicting ‘storms to end the year’ down there. We still may bury the bottle on a nice sunny day where we live just for the heck of it and see what happens. Anyone else try this for their destination wedding?
Do you dig up the bourbon bottle and drink it after the wedding?
Yes Van! Drink and toast!
We did this a month before our wedding (9/19/15) we buried a new bottle of Jim Beam upside down at our wedding ceremony site. It looked like it was going to rain ALL day up until I walked down the aisle at 4:30. The skies opened up with the sun shining down on us. The reception was tented and we had perfect “fall”cool (low of 65) weather for the rest of the evening/night. We’re convinced it was due to our dirty bourbon that we dug up before we went to join our guests at the reception.
The only thing we did different and I forgot to mention is that we saved it for our anniversaries. We’re gonna have a drink with it for big anniversaries: 1,5,15,20,25,30,35, etc
My husband and I buried our bourbon exactly one month to the minute from the start of our ceremony and it worked like charm! For our summer wedding this month, we had unseasonably cool temperatures and clear, beautiful skies! This is definitely a tradition to hold tightly to!
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We are planning on doing this, but cannot gain access to the venue until a few days after the day that would be one mom. Hopefully, it still works! We have had issues with rain or our engagement photos and my bridal photos already, so keeping the rain away on wedding day is huge!
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We are planning to do this tradition, however we hit a road block! We knew we couldn’t bury the bottle at our ceremony site, as we are getting married at a church, but our reception venue has said that we can not bring outside alcohol onto the property. Does anyone have any suggestions on how we might be able to alter the tradition (read: get around this rule) and still participate?
So my kid wants to use Fireball instead of bourbon. Thoughts?
Haha! You can certainly bury whatever you want, but whiskey might not work as well as bourbon, at least according to tradition :)