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Growing up in the South, one thing I learned early was the importance of big Southern hair. My mama loves to use the Steel Magnolias quote “just tease it and make it look like a brown football helmet” anytime she has her hair professionally done, and I’m with her — there’s just something fabulous about voluminous hair that gives me a little pep in my step! Today, I’m delighted to share the teasing tips and tricks I’ve learned over many years of practice, so if you’re curious about how to tease your hair, this one’s for you! :)

Big thanks to my friend Brooke of Colorbox Photographers for these fun photos!

The right products can make or break your hairdo, and these three are my go-to for big hair! After washing my hair, I apply a bit of this mousse to my roots only before blowing dry my hair. Then I spray a liberal amount of this amazing anti-humidly spray ALL over my hair. It’s pricy, but worth it with our Southern humidity!

After applying the spray, I like to start with velcro rollers. I love these and have two sets, so I can add extra volume since my hair is currently pretty long. I use the larger ones in the front and on the side I part my hair on since the hair is heavier there. I always roll backwards on the top and down on the sides to give it some shape.

I secure the rollers with large bobby pins and then blast my whole head with warm air from the blowdryer to help ‘set’ the volume. Then, of course, I spray it with hairspray. I’m currently loving this one because it holds but is still pretty flexible!

I like to leave the rollers in while I do my makeup or go about my business of getting ready to be sure I give them an ample amount of time to work. After removing the rollers, it’s time to start teasing! I like to go back and forth between a teasing brush and a comb, so this combo pack is perfect for me, but you can use any standard fine-toothed comb.

Starting on the crown of my head, I scoop up my hair (about a temple’s width) and start teasing from the back. Placing the comb about three or four inches from my head, I gently pull down toward my head. I like to do this a few times to really build in the tease.

Then, I re-section the same piece, remove what I’ve already teased, and tease again. I do this until I reach the last piece, right in front of my face. I only tease that a little, as that will be the last layer that covers the rather fuzzy looking part. Flop the hair back over the pile of teased hair, and slowly and carefully smooth out the top layer. The key is finding the right balance between combing out all the teasing you’ve done, and creating a smooth top layer. Once I have done this down the center of my hair, I go back and do the same steps on the sides, just a bit less aggressively.

After I’m happy with the volume I’ve created, I fluff it with my fingers and cover any parts where the teasing is showing. This is where the brush comes in handy, too — it’s great for carefully smoothing over any rugged areas. Then the last step: a heap of hair spray!

And that’s it, friends! I’d love to hear if there are any tutorials you’d like to see in the future!

Photos by Brooke Glassford of Colorbox Photographers. Shot at Kim Box Studios.

marissa Written with love by Marissa
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  1. avatar Natalie reply

    I love this! Thanks for sharing, I can’t wait to try! You are the cutest! :)

  2. avatar Janna reply

    Oh my stars! This is the best! Perfect for some New Years Eve hair!

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Yes, I am a traditional gal through and through. But, even more than that, I absolutely adore when couples make their wedding day their own through sweet details that tell their personal story. If you don’t identify with all the traditions, that’s great! Your wedding should be a celebration of what means the most to you and your future husband. Sammi and Branden did exactly that, and this traditional girl is loving it! After meeting on Twitter, they spent five months getting to know each other virtually before meeting in person. Then, after 140 airplane rides to be together over three years, they said “I do: in front of 30 of their closest friends and family in the co-working space where they both work. Together, they prioritized the traditions that were important to them, and celebrated the uniqueness of their relationship. Of course, this had to include a post-ceremony dance party to the song that always makes Sammi laugh: “I Wanna Dance With Somebody” by Whitney Houston.

Big hugs to Maria Lamb for sharing this super fun day with us!

How did y’all meet? Tell us your love story. We met on Twitter… A mutual friend retweeted Sammi. Branden followed her. Sammi followed back. Fast forward a year, Sammi reached out to Branden via Facebook message asking him to grab coffee, if he ever made it to Nashville. After hundreds of hours talking over Facebook, iMessage, and FaceTime while Sammi was studying in Europe and Branden in Portland, they finally met in person five months later on January 17th, 2012 in the Nashville airport. Over the course of the next three years, they would ride over 140 airplanes to be together.
Tell us all about the proposal! He proposed… On the weekend of our third anniversary, Branden showed up a day earlier than expected for a normal weekend trip. Sammi was on her way to dinner with friends when their GPS got them “lost” at Percy Warner Park, the place where Branden and Sammi had their first date. Then suddenly, Branden walked up to the car and surprised her with flowers. They grabbed hands and walked on the trails out by the lake, where Branden got down on one knee and Sammi said “yes.”
When did y’all get married? November 15, 2015
How many friends, family members, and loved ones attended your wedding? 30
Did you decide to do a first look? Why or why not? Yes, and we were so glad we did. It helped us calm our nerves by being able to have some alone and quiet time before the ceremony. It was the most memorable part of our day. And we loved having extra time to shoot some portraits.
What made you choose your ceremony and reception venues? Did they have any special significance to you? We got married in our co-working office, WELD Nashville. We are both creative freelancers. The space and the community there has played a huge role in our story.
Did you write your own vows? If so, what was your favorite phrase, verse or line? We did! Our best friend made the books for us and we wrote out our one thousand-ish word vows to each other. Our favorite section is about our commitment to being faithful to each other: “I PROMISE TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU. I’ll face your flaws, your temporary traits and habits, head on. I won’t shrink. I won’t flee. I won’t seek someone better. I will work to be humble enough to repent when I fall short. And when you fall short, I will work to forgive you quickly and fully; through Grace, I won’t keep score. I will allow you to change, celebrate your growth, and love you all the same. We are in this for life and there’s beauty in knowing nothing can shake that.”
What readings, if any, did you have at your ceremony? We had readings from Donald Miller’s “Scary Close,” Brene Brown’s “Rising Strong,” and John Mark Comer’s “Loveology.”
Tell us about some of the songs you used throughout your wedding and why you chose them. We chose to play “I Wanna Dance With Somebody” by Whitney Houston right after our first kiss and pronouncement. This is Sammi’s favorite song and the song Branden would always play as they drove to the airport together while dating long-distance to keep Sammi smiling. Immediately after the pronouncement, the entire wedding party of 30 began to dance too.
Describe your wedding flowers. Because we wanted all of our guests to feel a part of the ceremony, every gal got a bouquet and every guy got a boutonniere. Our florist and planner teamed up and made a gorgeous wreath that hung up above the circle of the 30 of us gathered around. There were lots of pink roses and greenery.
Describe your wedding cake or dessert. We’re huge doughnut fans so we had doughnuts from Five Daughters Bakery.
Our favorite detail of the wedding was: How intimate the ceremony and reception was. We loved having our closest people with us for our special day; the people we know will be there to support us through all of the highs and lows of our life together.
Did you have something borrowed, blue, old, and new? Nope. Though we dated for 3.5 years, we were engaged for three months which left little time for wedding planning. Our goal with our wedding was to choose which traditions were meaningful to us and to make those a priority. Sammi writes more about this idea here: http://www.sammiharvey.co/blog/2016/8/22/why-you-dont-need-a-flower-girl-in-your-wedding
What Southern details or traditions did you include in your celebration? What was Southern about your wedding? Sammi is a Tennessee native. We got married in the city where we both now live, Nashville. We had our favorite BBQ (Edley’s) during our reception.
How did you plan for your marriage while planning your wedding? Marriage counseling.
What was the biggest challenge you had to overcome while planning your wedding? Not letting other people persuade us to follow conventional wedding traditions. We wanted to personalize the wedding to celebrate the uniqueness of our relationship, and I’m so glad we followed our gut. We wouldn’t have changed a thing.
If you are comfortable responding, what range did your wedding budget fall into? Less than $10,000
What was one way you saved money or cut costs at your wedding? Small guest list. Discounted venue because we were members of the co-working space. Ceremony and reception in the same room. No DJ, alcohol, or required outfits for wedding party. Low-key honeymoon to Charleston, SC.
What is the one detail or vendor that you were so happy to have as a part of your wedding? We loved having Maria Lamb as our wedding photographer. She has been a longtime friend and someone who just has a special talent for making her clients feel comfortable and confident. I think it’s so important to choose a photographer who makes you feel beautiful and at peace on your special day. The photographs come out SO much better this way and you have a memorable and fun experience while shooting.
What advice do you have for folks currently planning a wedding? Don’t sweat the little things. Prioritize what traditions are important to you as a couple and don’t be afraid to go against the grain with something new. Personalize your wedding to celebrate the uniqueness of your relationship and you will have zero regrets about your wedding.
What’s next for you as a couple? What memories are you looking forward to making together? In less than one year of marriage, we have visited four of six continents together! Not sure if we’ll make it to Antarctica, but we’re planning a trip to Africa before our anniversary in November.
Is there anything else you’d like to share about your wedding? Link out and tag us with: Branden: brandenharvey.com, @brandenharvey on IG + Twitter | Sammi: sammiharvey.co, @sammiharveyco on IG + Twitter

Photographer: Maria Lamb | Videographer: Chad Barela | Planner: Alexandrea Cantrell Weddings | Venue: WELD Nashville | Florist: Rosemary & Finch Floral Design | Dessert Baker: Five Daughters Bakery | Caterer: Edley’s Bar-B-Que | Hair Stylist: Bree Barela | Makeup Artist: Savanna Dykstra

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Hi belles! Our friend Stephanie Scholl is the newest gal to take you through her wedding process here on the blog! Stephanie will be blogging for us every two weeks or so until her wedding in April. In case you missed her first post, be sure to check it out here! — Emily

Photo by Jose Villa via Once Wed

Hello, hello! I’m excited to share another installment from our wedding planning journey, especially since we’re right at 100 days til we say “I do”! Our engagement has flown by in the best of ways, and it’s exhilarating (and only a little anxiety-inducing) to think we are three months away from our wedding day.

I’m so pleased to report that I finally made a decision and pulled the trigger on bridesmaid dresses! Choosing the perfect bridesmaid dresses has felt like one of the biggest tasks on my priority list, so I’m especially excited to have come to a decision after much browsing and searching.

Photo by Justine Milton via Style Me Pretty

I feel so unbelievably blessed to have eleven of my closest friends standing by my side on our wedding day. My amazing sister and best friend, Bridgette, is my matron of honor, and then ten of my best friends from college and my time in D.C. round out the group. These incredible, beautiful friends mean so very much to me, and I am honored and grateful that they are in my bridal party! (Rob has eleven groomsmen, and yes, we know we have a very large wedding party – but this is the South, after all!)

Given that I have a large number of bridesmaids, you can imagine that they live all over. Only one of my bridesmaids lives near me in the Triangle, and the rest are spread all over the East Coast and South. I knew that going bridesmaid dress shopping in person wasn’t really an option, and I also knew that I needed to make a decision fairly quickly, given our six month engagement. I wanted to be especially mindful of budgets (especially since I knew I’d be going with a long gown) and body shapes/fit. (I have bridesmaids ranging from 5’2 to 5’11 and one who will be seven months pregnant!)

Photo by Julie Cate via Style Me Pretty

Today, I’m sharing several gorgeous inspiration images I’ve collected that reflect the look I’m envisioning for our wedding. I knew I wanted long gowns for my ladies, and I knew the general color palette. The hunt was on for the perfect shade(s) of dresses in the most flattering, beautiful styles… all at a reasonable price.

As you can tell from the photos I’ve collected, I love long gowns (perfect for a spring garden wedding); mismatched but complementary styles; soft, flowing, romantic gowns; a particular color palette (any guesses on the final color(s)?); and, of course, bouquets with contrasting flowing ribbons!

Photo by Nancy Ray via Southern Weddings

It took a long time and much searching, but I am so thrilled that I finally found exactly what I was looking for! Styles and color have been decided, dresses have been ordered, and now I cannot wait to see my lovely, wonderful bridesmaids looking oh-so-gorgeous on our wedding day! It’ll be the first time I see it all together — eek!

I’d love to hear how the bridesmaid dress journey/decision was for you! Did you run into any obstacles or shift ideas completely? I didn’t expect it to be so hard to find dresses in the exact style and color I was envisioning, but I’m glad we persevered. By the way, when I was younger, I always thought my bridesmaids would wear yellow! :)

P.S. In case you missed a post…
The proposal
Venue and photography
The dress

Nancy Ray is a delightful member of our Blue Ribbon Vendor Directory!

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