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I don’t know about y’all, but the weather in North Carolina this week has been gray and dreary. Since there’s no hope of getting outside, the next best option is to do something sweet and crafty indoors, which is where this project comes in!

Handmade anything adds such a personal touch to celebrations big and small, which makes me love this easy DIY from Gray Harper even more.

So sweet, and so simple! Andrea and co fashioned these as guest favors filled with grits, but they could also be darling as embellished drink holders for bridal party members at the reception. They could also be fun for a bridal shower, bridesmaids’ brunch, or girls’ weekend!

Your Instructions:

1. Cut an 8 x 8 inch piece of fabric and fold it as shown, first in half, and then in half again. Sew along the unfinished edge.
2. Rotate the seam to the middle. Fold the fabric in half lengthwise and sew again along the short unfinished edge. Move the seam to the middle again.
3. Cut a small piece of fabric (mine was 2 x 4). This will become the middle of your bow tie. Fold it in half lengthwise and sew along the open edge, then move that seam to the middle as well.
4. Wrap your “middle” around the middle of the tie to see how tight you think it needs to be. Slip it off and sew it closed in that spot, making a small loop.
5. After sewing the middle piece closed, squeeze it back into place in the middle of the tie. It should be fairly tight. You now have your bow tie!
6. Adhere the burlap ribbon and bow tie to the Mason jar using your glue gun, and enjoy!

All photos by the lovely Jade + Matthew Take Pictures!

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emily Written with love by Emily
12 Comments
  1. avatar Carly Totten reply

    These are adorable!! I can totally see these at a sweet bridal shower. With that said, bows are perfect for any occasion.

  2. avatar Kris reply

    These are adorable! Love them!

  3. avatar Kelly Taylor reply

    It’s a rainy day here in Athens, GA too! Thanks for the inspiration! A trip to Hobby Lobby later and now I’m crafting them for a Valentine’s Dinner with my sweet friends! xxoo

  4. avatar Lindsay {Everistta} reply

    Amazing! I love that!

  5. avatar victoria reply

    SO cute and easy! These would have been fabulous with those seersucker bowtie escort cards we did back in the day! xo

  6. avatar Ashleigh reply

    THIS.IS.ADORABLE.

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  10. avatar Judith Sargent reply

    This is a very cute idea, but I am thinking the bow is too bulky and the jar would look very country with just the burlap wrapped around it. just my thought.

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Inspiration is all well and good (and oh my, we love it!), but sometimes you just need the nitty-gritty details when you’re planning a wedding, you know? If you’re like me, and always have your copy of Etiquette and Crane’s Blue Book at the ready, then today’s topic is old hat. But, if you’re like most gals out there who have never sent a formal invitation, then I hope our concise guide to host lines will come in handy!

The host line was traditionally used to show who was (monetarily) hosting the wedding. Nowadays, the lines are much blurrier, and even if one set of parents or the other (or the couple!) is paying, a range of hosts might be included on the invitation.

We’ve outlined some of the more common scenarios above, but if you have any additional questions, feel free to leave them in the comments below and I’ll take a stab at them!

emily Written with love by Emily
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  1. avatar Lauren reply

    Wow – this is SO helpful! I was wondering how I was going to do this since I have divorced parents. Now I know. Awesome!

  2. avatar Kat reply

    so helpful! thanks Emily :)

  3. avatar Anna reply

    This is a great post! It was my understanding that if one parent is remarried but it hasn’t been for long, it is fine to not include them, since you are not their “child”.

    • avatar Emily reply

      Hi Anna! Yes, that’s definitely true! We included that option for those that want to include their step parent, but even if your mom or dad is remarried it’s okay to leave their spouse off!

  4. avatar Anne reply

    Also remember that ‘honour of your presence’ is for a church, but ‘pleasure of your company’ is correct if you are not having the ceremony in a church.

    • avatar Emily reply

      Hi Anne! You are absolutely correct! I didn’t want to write out every example with two levels of formality, so we just went with “honour of your presence” for simplicity’s sake :)

  5. avatar Elizabeth reply

    Don’t forget that, traditionally, “the honour of your presence” is used for weddings in a house of worship. Otherwise, “the pleasure of your company” is used. Love all these helpful examples you have used!

  6. avatar Giant invitations reply

    Thank you for sharing. Helpful tips :)

  7. avatar Amanda reply

    If only the couple is paying for the wedding, is it acceptable to leave parent’s names off the invitations completely?

    • avatar Emily reply

      Hi Amanda! Yes, it is always an acceptable option to leave parents off the invite completely, and issue the invitation from the bride and groom! Just in case others are wondering, it’s also acceptable to leave parents ON even if the couple is paying the entirety of the cost.

    • avatar Katherine reply

      Emily, If the bride and groom are paying for the wedding entirely, and do not want to include the parents on the invitation. How could the invitation be worded? I’ve been struggling with this! Thanks!!

  8. avatar Ashley reply

    These host lines are so fabulously helpful!

    I am curious, though, are the bride and groom’s last names included on the invitation IF bride’s divorced parents are hosting and groom’s parent’s names follow his as “son of Mr. and Mrs. so and so” ?

    Thanks!

    • avatar Emily reply

      Hi Ashley! In that scenario, if you’re including both sets of the bride’s parents, then yes, I would include last names. If you’re just including one side, and that parent and/or his/her spouse shares a last name with the bride, then I’d say you could leave them off. Hope that helps!

  9. avatar Michelle Luebbe reply

    Hi, I have a question about how to address our Wedding invitation. This is a second marriage for me and my fiancé first wedding. We are only putting our names because his parents are divorced and remarried and my mom is single, just thought it would be too much and we are paying for the wedding. My question is, can I just put my first and middle name or should I include my full name which is my first married last name?

    Please help.

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  11. avatar Mary reply

    This was so helpful! What should the host line be if bride’s family is paying for the majority of the wedding expenses (75%), and groom’s family is paying for 25%? Bride’s family is also hosting the rehearsal dinner, so the groom’s family’s contribution just covers the groom’s family’s wedding guests.

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Southern fashionistas, this wedding film is looking at you! Melissa donned not one but two gorgeous gowns for her and Jason’s celebration, but the sartorial eye candy is only one reason why we love this highlights film from Life Stage. The rest, of course, is the heartfelt love between these two and their families. Enjoy, and have a wonderful weekend!

From the bride:

There were butterflies everywhere the day of our wedding — it was just fascinating to see them fluttering around the grounds. Jason’s mother had died when he was very young, and I knew he was missing her very much that day. We had placed her favorite flowers (daisies) on her chair for the ceremony, and right after Jason and I said I do, a butterfly flew between us. Jason had trouble catching his breath for a moment, because he knew it was his mother watching down on us and sending her love and blessings through the gorgeous butterflies. Makes me cry every time I think of that special and unforgettable moment.

If you love this wedding, be sure to check out Jennifer Bearden’s photos from the day here! Big thanks to Life Stage Films for sending this beauty our way!

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emily Written with love by Emily
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  1. avatar Taylar reply

    EM!!! I googled “southern graphics wedding invitations” and somehow got to your article! So cool! See you soon!!

  2. avatar Melissa reply

    This was absoultely beautiful and made me cry!!!

  3. avatar {The NotWedding} reply

    This film is beautiful and her dresses are just gorgeous! Thank you for sharing.

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