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This weeks Southern Wedding of the Week comes to us from Georgia.  Our friends Whitney and Jesse from {Our Labor of Love} captured this fun wedding.  This couple is adorable!  We love how JR proposed.  He surprised her on Christmas day!  Christmas Morning at 6 am, JR arrived at Jennifer’s home in a Santa hat, firefighter pants and with a special gift.  I love this ring shot with the whole pecans in the Mason jar… just perfect!

How did the two of you meet? Tell us your story… After church a large group of friends were heading downtown for lunch. As we all headed out to the cars people started separating in groups to carpool. I ended up hopping in the back seat of my friend Wayne’s truck and you know who was in the front seat. I asked Wayne, “Who’s this guy?” and he said “This is my friend JR”. We started chatting about jobs and realized we both worked in emergency medicine and started exchanging horror stories. Then the hobbies, we found that we both loved the outdoors – backpacking, kayaking, mountain biking, the basics. From that point on we struck up a friendship with texting! After two months, all his friends were telling me “he is so into you” and all it took was one day of white water rafting and I was in love (hook, line and sinker).
Describe the proposal: I was on a travel nursing assignment back home in Columbus, Georgia. It was over the holidays and JR was supposed to be visiting his parents and sister in Nashville. It was 6:30 a.m. on Christmas morning and I heard the bell for the door (we have to buzz visitors into the back). I hit the unlock and started toward the door to direct what I thought was a visitor and instead found my sweetheart in his bunker pants(that’s what firefighters wear) and Santa hat with a wrapped PRESENT in his hand. I was so stunned! At 7:00 a.m. we walked out to the car and as we walked JR was telling me all kinds of sweet things. I remember thinking “It is sweet enough you made the trip down here, you don’t have to go on like this.” Then standing in the cold crisp dark early morning he got down on bended knee and asked if I would be his wife.
What attracted me to my husband was: His never ending sense of adventure and love for experiencing life. No matter if it sounds fun or dangerous or just plain gross, JR will try it-just to experience it. For example, on our honeymoon in Peru, Rr ate “cuy al horno”… that is guinea pig. What some call pet, others call dinner.
Why do you love your husband? I love JR because he is his own. Growing up with three older sisters, JR is very good at most things men are usually bad at… like communication. JR loves to communicate. He is concerned with my happiness and well-being, genuinely he cares and wants me to talk to him about all of my worries and problems. He is there to share my successes and encourage me through the failures. Also, he makes me laugh and that is something that will always get us through a hard time.
What attracted me to my wife was: Her sense of adventure and how she’s almost always laid back. On our first trip together, we were backpacking up a mountain and by the time we got to the top it was dark, snowing and about 30 degrees. (How many girls would do that and go again?) She also has a passion to learn, which I think is essential in life.
A date we went on that we’ll always remember: It was last October and about midnight. I was wide awake and bored. I called JR and we decided to carve pumpkins. He got up out of bed, came over and we headed to Wal-Mart. We picked out our pumpkins and spent the next couple hours on the front porch drawling and carving and building a stronger friendship.

Check back later for more from Jennifer + JR.

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  1. avatar jesi haack reply

    can i just say how much i LOVE mason jars???

  2. avatar Heather Forsythe reply

    That is the sweetest idea – the ringbearer bearing a mason jar of rings! It reminds me of catching fireflies in summer!

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  1. avatar Beth reply

    One of our friends got us a really nice set of highball glasses. It was so thoughtful of them, they remembered us mentioning that we wanted to get a set…but that was months ago!

  2. avatar 2babc reply

    My favorite holiday gift would have to be my 35 mm SLR that I got back in high school. I started a love for photography that I will carry with me forever!

  3. avatar LeRae reply

    My favorite holiday gift was my first pearl necklace from my parents the year I turned 21. Every woman in my family has recieved her first set of pearls on her 21st Christmas. My pearls remind me of my family’s tradition each time I wear them!

  4. avatar Bliss Kotal reply

    My favorite Christmas gift was oddly enough a jet ski. It’s almost a laughable Christmas gift because I couldn’t truly enjoy it for about five months, but I remember just being content sitting on it. Many of my fondest childhood memories stem from memories made on the lake and time spent on that jet ski with family and friends.

  5. avatar Maggie @ Eat, Drink, Marry reply

    My favorite holiday gifts were always simply eating traditional North Carolina food at Christmas with my family. Traveling from Boston during college and then New Mexico during graduate school, it was always the food that let me know it was Christmas time and I was finally HOME in NC!

  6. avatar Angie reply

    I can tell you my most "un-favorite" holiday gift (from my EX-HUSBAND) . . I asked for pearls . . . I got a garbage disposal. A garbage disposal? From someone who didn’t even know how to hang a picture on the wall no less! Thanks Ex-husband!!

  7. avatar Erin reply

    Last Christmas I received my beautiful engagement ring in an ornament. This year when we opened up the Christmas boxes and hung it on our tree, it was an amazing feeling to know that it would be a keepsake for years to come. We’re even considering using it as a ring box during the ceremony!

  8. avatar Morgan reply

    My favorite Christmas gift I recieved when I was 4, and yes I remember getting it! I got a Teddy Ruxpin doll. He had a tape player in his belly and his eyes and mouth moved to the stories from the tape player. I carried him everywhere! Every Christmas I get him out and dress him in a Santa suit.

  9. avatar Abbie reply

    My favorite holiday gift was when I first moved to CO. My stepmother and aunt had both noticed that I had some old books at my house before moving. After moving, they sent me old books that pertained to Colorado. It was a great gesture and made me feel loved from 1200 miles away!

  10. avatar Emie reply

    My very first sewing machine! :D I mean it’s the gift that keeps on giving, right? I’ve been able to make so many wonderful items at request of friends and family and I’m currently using to make a few items for our wedding next year.

  11. avatar Brittney reply

    I have to say that it was last year. My boyfriend at the time (we are now ENGAGED) gave me a COACH purse. It was TOTALLY unexpected and I loved it!

  12. avatar Evee reply

    I remember back in highschool one of my friends showed up wearing a cute new pink John Deere sweatshirt (yeah, I grew up out in a farming community so that was cool). I went home and told mom about how my friend’s dad had bought her this cute sweatshirt just out of the blue and how jealous I was. After a week I had forgotten all about it. Well dad remembered. Under the tree that Christmas were sweatshirts from Pioneer the seed company dad worked for. The whole family each got one. I was so amazed that my dad had paid attention enough to do that. Mine is little faded and worn, but I still have it!

  13. avatar koandpo reply

    My favorite holiday gift was from two years ago. My fiance gave me a Fossil watch and a blanket. The funny part was that for Christmas that year I got him…a Fossil watch and a blanket! It was too weird. I guess we should have known then that it was meant to be!

  14. avatar Kelly reply

    My favorite holiday gift was this fabulous Cole Haan purse I had been eyeing for months. It was the first time in a long time that my parents were able to splurge and surprise me with something that I wanted! That was 3 years ago and I continue to use the bag and get compliments on it daily. My mom is so proud of her great surprise!

  15. avatar kathrynw reply

    My favorite holiday gift was one my fiance bought me last year… we both bought plots of land for eachother in zambia for families to farm on and in return sell at markets… it was a really sweet way to give back and to think about the difference we both hope to make overseas in the future.

  16. avatar michelle reply

    My favorite Christmas gift was my Cabbage Patch Kid, Lynette Nann. My mom stood in line for 2 1/2 hours for her at Kiddie City. At the time I made no connection to her standing in line and Santa bringing her on Christmas… I guess when your a kid – the details are no relevant.What’s cool is my niece Taylor plays with her and my twin cabbage patch bunk beds:)

  17. avatar Meredith reply

    My favorite Christmas present would have to be my fiance’s first present to me: a pearl necklace with matching earrings and bracelet. They are priceless to me!He gave me pearls because I had some {fake} pearls from an ex-boyfriend (that had no sentimental value) but he said that a classy woman deserves real pearls.They are my absolute favorite because they were his first Christmas present to me and because I will wear them in the wedding next summer. I hope to someday have daughters who will wear the pearls in their wedding(s), and their daughters, etc.

  18. avatar Carolyn reply

    my favorite holiday gift was a picture of my grandmother on her wedding day. it was beautifully framed and showed her true beauty!

  19. avatar Zolie reply

    My parents and my trainer arranged to surprise me with a horse when I was in high school. It was a high school girl’s dream come true. It was the first time I cried tears of joy, though I’ve done it many times since!

  20. avatar Just Dandy reply

    My grandmother and grandfather (now passed away) gave me all of their wedding photo’s. At the time, I was like cool, what do I do with these. BUT, now that my wedding is set for March 21 I am going to display them beside my guestbook and remember them in so many ways!

  21. avatar Rachel reply

    My favorite holiday gift would have to be a surprise trip to Mexico from my fiance! I was just expecting to stay home for the holidays and was totally caught off guard!! We spent five days in Tulum, Mexico and had an amazing time!

  22. avatar Heather reply

    When I was about 7 years old, my older brother, who was 11 at the time, had these slippers with Goofy’s giant head on the end of them. I thought they were the coolest slippers ever. That year at the holidays he wrapped them up in the comics and gave them to me as a present. I wore those things from the minute I got home from school until I went to bed. For many years after that, until we had grown up and moved out of our parents home, we had tradition of giving each other something of our own that we knew the other admired.

  23. avatar Jess reply

    Probably the hugs and cookies I get from my fiance every year.

  24. avatar Candy reply

    When we were growing up, we didn’t have a ton of money. My mom was a single mom working two jobs to provide for me and my younger sister. My mom had confided to her co-workers that she was worried that she wasn’t going to be able to give us the kind of Christmas we had been used to in the past. Her co-workers all chipped in, bringing over a tree, gifts and Christmas dinner. Now that we’re all grown and my mom is re-married, every year we adopt a family to return the favor. Nothing matches that feeling of gratitude you feel getting a gift like that.

  25. avatar Erika reply

    My favorite Christmas present was a drawing from my neice who was 3 last year. It showed me and her and she said I was her family. She may not be my daughter, but we are super close. Everything she does for me is special. I have never been so fascinated with another person. Her innocence and wonder just surprises me more and more. Every Christmas with her is so special to me.

  26. avatar Leah reply

    I am geographically challenged and many people make fun of me because of it, so my favorite and most useful holiday gift was my navigation system. Now I never have to worry!

  27. avatar Kellie reply

    My favorite holiday gift was the diamond necklace my FI (then boyfriend at the time) gave me for christmas. Unbeknown to me it was a two part gift as he proposed to me in January with my engagement ring that matched the necklace! How sweet and it’s so hard to wear one without the other!

  28. avatar Katie reply

    When I was 12 and my sister was 7, my parents gave us a gift of a Christmas stocking that was pastel pink and blue that had been handknit. This was how they told us that we would be getting a little brother the following June!

  29. avatar Celeste reply

    I love lables, its a sickness really.My favorite holiday gift would have to be my kids wrote me a letter about the things they loved me for. I adored it, and it wasnt forced by the teachers..lol

  30. avatar Lynsey reply

    My favorite holiday gift is a blanket that I got from my mother two years ago. It is a blanket that my grandmother had made by hand and sewn together when she was 30 years old. My mother passed it down to me. It is the softest blanket and is a reminder of my grandmother, who passed away 2 years ago.

  31. avatar AshleyP reply

    One Christmas, when my fiance was still my boyfriend, he drove three hours from his parent’s house to my parent’s on Christmas day to surprise me. He had set up the visit with my mom, and I had no idea. At the time, we were students and didn’t have a lot of money to spend on gifts, but to this day that is probably my favorite Christmas.

  32. avatar ESE reply

    My favorite christmas gift was a snapfish photobook done my sister and my niece…it was all funny pictures of me when I was younger! I cried instantly when I got it! And of course the cover was in PINK! My FAV color!

  33. avatar Theresa reply

    My favorite Christmas gift as a teenager didn’t cost my parents a dime. On Christmas morning I unwrapped a piece of paper that said my curfew had been extended another half hour to midnight. It was totally unexpected – VERY exciting for me – and extremely clever! I’ve tucked that idea into my back pocket, and you can bet I’ll be putting that one under the tree for my own daughter or son one day!

  34. avatar Ali L. reply

    My absolute favorite was when my parents surprised me with a cocker spaniel puppy on Christmas morning! They put him on my chest and he woke me up with kisses! I’ll never forget it.

  35. avatar Carissa reply

    My absolute most fav. christmas present was the painting I received from my parents last year. We grew up in Singapore and after graduation, haven’t been back since. When my parents had gone last summer, they had a painting done of our old house for both my sister and I. It was the best gift I could have asked for. Now I get to see where we considered home for most of our lives every day on the wall in our living room..

  36. avatar Cat reply

    my favorite holiday gift was given to me when i was 9. i BEGGED my parents for a go-cart–a fast, zippy, "dangerous" go-cart. when i woke up on christmas morning, santa had left a key on a string for me. i dashed to the front yard to find a old, burnt orange & ivory golf cart!!! at first i was bummed, but one spin around the neighborhood and those feelings disappeared! i have so many memories of taking that golf cart ALL over town (the mall, the movies, etc)–it’s BY FAR the best holiday gift / memory i have!

  37. avatar Keri reply

    My favorite holiday gift was a simple but elegant string of pearls my father gave me during my senior year of high school. I will treasure them and what they symbolize for my entire life.

  38. avatar Erica reply

    My favorite Christmas gift came from my now deceased grandmother when I was in college. She gave me coupons for five cooking lessons from her. It was an amazing gift because I got to spend quailtiy time with her doing something she loved to do not to mention I learned some incredible family recipes that I hope to pass down for generations to come.

  39. avatar Abby reply

    My favorite holiday gift was my easy bake oven when I was 5 years old. I felt like such a chef when I cooked my chocolate cake by lightbulb. Those were the days!!!

  40. avatar Erin reply

    new skis! awesome!!!!

  41. avatar Jordie reply

    My favorite Christmas gifts are the stockings and star tree topper my fiance and I received. We will use these gifts for a very long time and it it exciting to think of hanging them our first Christmas as a married couple. Each year we will be reminded of the thoughtfulness of my fiance’s aunt when we hang our stockings and put the star on the Christmas tree.

  42. avatar Christina reply

    My favorite holiday gift was last year’s: my engagement! I’m looking forward to spending the holiday season this year with both my family and his.

  43. avatar Karsten reply

    My most memorable Christmas gift is receiving a framed picture of me as a child with my grandfather, who died after battling with cancer when i was in college. As we were really close, it was such a simple but extremely sentimental gift. Since then, it has become a tradition to get a different picture every Christmas. I look forward to it and it’s a wonderful way to keep his memory alive by reminiscing with my grandmother and pass on family photos.

  44. avatar Kylee reply

    This year my fiance gave me the gift of giving to others! He suggested that we adopt a family and use the money we would have on eachother for gifts to another! Isn’t he great!

  45. avatar ashley r. reply

    best holiday of the year: christmas. best christmas gift ever: the year my little brother was born. we are such close friends and he’s been the greatest gift to me since the christmas my parents brought him home!

  46. avatar Elana reply

    I took a year off inbetween transferring colleges, and spent part of that year traveling in Europe on my own. I sent out emails to my family and friends of my journey along the way. The following Christmas, my Nana (my Grandmother on my Dad’s side) had the idea to put my emails all together in a book–she asked my cousin, who is a wonderful crafster and book maker to create it for me. My cousin printed my emails and left space for pictures to put in to match up with them, and binded it all together in a beautiful book made just for me! What a wonderful and thoughtful gift to remind me of those months (during which I did a lot of growing up and "coming into myself").

  47. avatar Rachel reply

    I have gotten so many great holiday gifts, it is hard to choose just one. My top two favorites are the cabbage patch dolls I used to receive each Christmas (apparently my mom waited in lines for hours to get those when they were so popular) and the snowboard my boyfriend, now fiance got me for our first christmas together. I had never snowboarded before and he had been doing it all his life, so it was a great gift that now means a lot to both of us. If we made it through him teaching me how to snowboard, we can make it through anything!

  48. avatar aylee reply

    My fiance knows I love chocolate bubble tea. One Christmas, he gave me a package complete with all the tools and ingredients I need to make chocolate bubble tea.

  49. avatar Kate reply

    I have to admit that I’m most thankful for my upcoming Christmas gift…our wedding! My parents are paying for the entire wedding that will happen next October. I’m in graduate school right now and my fiance works just to pay the bills…if it weren’t for them, we wouldn’t be having a wedding at all! I owe everything to them. My mom has trudged around all over our state looking for the perfect dress and has not complained at all! My fiance and I are very appreciative to them for showing us what a marriage is all about!

  50. avatar M and M Wedding reply

    My favorite holiday gift was a care package I received from my family when I was living abroad and not home for Christmas. It wasn’t really the stuff inside but the letters from my mom, drawings from my dad, and photos from home that I still look at around Christmas every year.

  51. avatar Amber reply

    When I was little my dad secretly went over to our neighbors house and built me the two story Barbie dream house. I still have it in my attic. I just can’t seem to get rid of it even though I know my kids won’t want to play with it. I am excited about the thought of my husband and I planning to surprise our kids for Christmas!

  52. avatar Keenan reply

    My favorite Christmas gift last year was from my brother and sister-in-law. They gave me a quilted Barbour jacket in the most perfect brown color that goes with everything. I had NO idea I "needed" this jacket, but wear it every day. It’s perfect in Seattle! Thanks Bob and Katie!

  53. avatar Katie reply

    My favorite holiday gift came a little early last year. I was feeling stressed out with the whole Christmas season and I was a little sad because in all of the hustle and bustle, my boyfriend and I hadn’t gotten to decorate our house. I love Christmas lights! They just make me happy. I was out one Saturday and came back to find to find the whole house aglow. Somehow, my boyfriend had found the time in between studying for his grad school finals to decorate. I was so touched because he knew it was something that I cared so much about. When he asked me this past summer to marry him, I of course said yes!

  54. avatar Tara reply

    My favorite gift is not something tangible, but I’m thankful that my parents are still alive and I get to spend every Christmas with them. I don’t live that close to them anymore, so I appreciate the time I spend with them that much more.

  55. avatar Diana reply

    WIthout a doubt the best Christmas present ever was seeing my (now) husband after 12 years apart. My sister conspired to get us back together. He picked me up at the airport a week before Christmas and when we we saw each other – it was like those 12 years had never happened. We were married a year later in beautiful Williamsburg, VA and this Christmas we’ll celebrate our third anniversary.

  56. avatar Natasha reply

    My favorite holiday gift that I have recieved would be a puppy that my parents gave to me me when I was 16 after my dog had passed after having her as a pet for 12 years.

  57. avatar Anne reply

    When I was five I had walking pneumonia and the chicken pox at the same time for Christmas. I vividly remember how sick and sad I was. However, my dad carried me into the room with all the presents on Christmas morning and there in the middle of everything was a pink barbie corvette. My reaction was caught on video, where I cried and said that Santa must have really been listening to me when I asked for ‘something easy to play with when you are sick’. Needless to say, I spend the next weeks driving around in that car all day long. It was the very best gift and very worst Christmas that I can remember.

  58. avatar Ebony reply

    My favorite Christmas gift that I ever recieved was this, My Sister, My Friend engraving that my little sister got for me! When I began to read, I started getting emotional. I didn’t know that she considered me to be her best friend. We both started crying, and so did our mom!

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Courtney + Chris headed to Charleston’s well known and beautiful {Boone Hall Plantation} for the reception. Don’t you just love the driveway to the plantation house? Doesn’t it remind you of the entrance to the house in Forrest Gump? It is perfect for wedding photos. Capturing every moment of this splendid day was {Heather Forsythe Photography}. Thanks to Heather and team for submitting this wedding to us. To see Heather’s post from Courtney + Chris’ wedding click {here}.  This cake knocks my socks off! Got to love all the details of the event. {Ooh! Events} put together this splendid event and really created the ultimate wedding day for Courtney + Chris.

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  1. avatar Jessica Lynn reply

    ohhhh that driveway is divine! i would have had all my photographs take place there!

  2. avatar Cathy and David – Photographers reply

    The light coming through those trees is AMAAAAAZING!!

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