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Have y’all been following along with Erin and Ben Napier’s story? It’s a really good one, and we’re tickled to be a small part of it! You see, three years ago we published a tour of their home – one of the first in our Southern Newlywed column! – as well as the sweetest interview with Erin. (Seriously, go read it – it makes me smile so big every time!) An HGTV producer happened to see it on our Instagram, and got in touch with Erin and Ben to see if they’d possibly be interested in making a TV show (!) about small town Southern life in their sweet hometown of Laurel, MS.

Things snowballed from there – shooting a pilot, opening a store, the pilot airing and then being picked up for a full season – and now, we’re all eagerly anticipating the premiere of season one of Home Town! If you’re as excited as we are, you’ll love taking a peek at the home of these HGTV stars-in-the-making. Hopefully it’s enough to hold you over until March 21 at 10pm!

We’re so proud of Erin and Ben and hope you’ll join us in cheering on these two sweet Southerners as they step out on their great adventure!!

Thank you to Jean Allsopp for these wonderful photos!

For more from Erin and Ben, check out Erin’s full Southern Newlywed interview, including her thoughts on cooking, decorating, date nights, and budgeting!

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We love featuring a wide range of Southern home styles in our Southern Newlywed column, from Hope and Michael’s serene neutrals to Meredith and Nic’s modern farmhouse. Stacie (owner of the Parlor at North Ridge) and Nick are such a fun addition to our Newlywed crew, bringing their own mix of palm prints, leather details, dark paint, leopard print, needlepoint, and dotty wallpaper to the table. And family photos! If there’s anything you take away from this tour, it will probably be an urge to frame your precious memories. Lots of inspiration below if you’re ready to do just that!

Thanks to our friend and Blue Ribbon Vendor Nancy Ray for these photos, and to Tidwell Interiors for helping Stacie with her home’s design!

The couple: Stacie (28) and Nick (28) Patrone
Years married: 5
Tell us a little bit about yourselves. Family is everything to us. We are thankful to be in business with family and we strongly believe in entrepreneurship. We try to live life by the “slight edge mentality”–that small actions, compounded over time, produce large results. Galatians 6:9 helps sum it up.

Tell us your love story in one sentence. God led our paths perfectly to each other by a thin thread.
What has been the most surprising thing about marriage? Even though this sounds cliche, we loved each other when we got married, but we are surprised every day by how we fall more and more in love with each other the longer we are married.
Tell us a little bit about where you live. We love our home in North Raleigh, very close to friends and family. It has a great floor plan (a ranch with a room above the garage!). Our future plans include building a house we design from scratch on land with my family.

Which room in your home is your favorite, and why? Our gathering room off the kitchen. We knocked out a wall to open this room up to the kitchen and we use it all the time. It’s so cozy, and we love to enjoy our bullet coffee there each morning while we do our morning reading. It’s where our daughter sits in her high chair, and where we sit to unwind at night and share about our days.
What most makes your house feel like home? Of course, the people in it! But other than that, all the sweet things that have been passed down to us from our families, our pictures on the wall, and the style of the space around us. It’s comfortable, neat, and functional, with some quirks and flavor thrown in.

What are some of your favorite sources for home things? We save on trendy items at HomeGoods, flea markets, and on Craigslist. We splurge on classic pieces that we will keep and love forever. I buy things from all over, because I like our home to have an eclectic flair. I love our crib from Bratt Decor, and the Ethan Allen bed I found on Craigslist is a favorite! My Pottery Barn wingback leather chairs will be somewhere in our home forever.

What is your favorite memory from your wedding? Stacie: Dancing on the battleship. Nick: the drive to the battleship from the ceremony site. It was 45 minutes alone right after being married.
Which items from your wedding registry do you use the most often? A cozy Pottery Barn blanket we got from Nick’s mom. We fight over who gets to use it most of the time!
What different decisions, if any, would you make for your registry if you knew then what you knew now? Register for good frames! You will want to put up so many pictures!

Who cooks dinner? I do… though Nick likes to tell people he does since he’s Italian. (But it has only happened once in five years.)
What is your go-to weeknight meal? Weekend meal? Weekend meal: nachos on a cookie sheet with all the fixings–guac, sour cream, salsa, cheese, and taco meat. Weeknight meal: sweet potatoes, asparagus, and roasted chicken.

How does your family handle finances? Do you use a set budget? We don’t spend more than we make! Period.
What’s your best tip for balancing your relationship and other life priorities? We respect our calendar. We have full, packed lives, so if it comes down to it, we put family time on the calendar, too!

What is your favorite part of being married? Having sleepovers with your best friend every night!
Do you have a favorite date night idea to share? We like to work out together! But we also love the chocolate mousse cupcake at Fresh Levant Bakery. It’s gluten-free and one of the best desserts in Raleigh.

What is one small way you love or serve your spouse? I make Nick bullet coffee every morning. Nick makes the bed for me, and serves as the technical support department of our house :)

Do you have children? Yes, our daughter, Poppy! We want a house full of kids. We love the chaos of big families!
Before getting married, I wish someone had told me… read marriage books before you need them. We recommend The Five Love Languages, Love and Respect, Sheet Music, and The Story of Marriage. Someone told us to do this, and we listened–it was such wise advice!

Thank you so much for sharing your hearts and home with us, Stacie and Nick!

A little reminder: we’d love to hear from you! Our hope is to feature REAL couples in the South – not just folks who write blogs (though we love them, too!), but also your inspiring friend, super talented cousin, or neighbor with the cutest house – the kind of person everyone would love to “e-meet.” If that sounds like you or someone you know, take a peek at our Southern Newlywed submission page and shoot us an email!

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I remember feeling a lot of pressure as the date of my first wedding anniversary neared. It seemed like a momentous occasion, and I wanted to celebrate it in a meaningful, memorable way! In the end, I’m not sure if our celebration counted as “momentous,” but it was very us — we spent the day at the beach, then splurged on a nice dinner out where we exchanged heartfelt letters, a nod to the traditional first anniversary gift of paper.

Ever since, we’ve loved combining an adventure, delicious food, quality time, and a gift keyed to the traditional anniversary gifts to mark another year of marriage. If you need a refresher, here you go:

To our sweet brides who were married last year: this one’s for you! We’ve brainstormed a few of our favorite and most creative “paper” anniversary gifts to give and to get, and here they are…

An album of wedding photos. In addition to the options from your photographer, we love Artifact Uprising and MILK Books.
A book of Instagram photos from your first year. Chat Books makes it so easy to upload right from your phone!
A framed keepsake. Maybe your wedding invitation, an art print, or a favorite photograph from your wedding or first year as married people. More ideas here.
Art from your hand-lettered wedding vows. John and I are still completely charmed by the watercolors Simply Jessica Marie made for us!
A book. You could exchange favorite novels, buy a new devotional to do together, pick out a gorgeous coffee table volume, try a new cookbook, or look for a rare first edition.
Stationery. There are gorgeous readymade options available, or you could order a monogrammed version or even commission a set with your likeness!
A brush lettering kit. So you can create your own beautiful works of art on paper.
A custom painting to commemorate your first home. We love the sweet versions drawn up by Little House Shop.
A board game to play together. Cardboard is pretty much paper, right? :) Or these pretty playing cards.
Tickets. Plane tickets, tickets to a show, tickets to a game… the possibilities are endless!
A sweet card. To tell him how much you love him. Because really, isn’t that the best gift, anyway? We love Shannon Kirsten’s designs.

What do you think, friends? Any suggestions to add to our list? I’d love to hear!!

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  1. avatar Caroline reply

    I gave my husband a big framed world map for our first anniversary that we can add push pins to all the places we’ve been together. We both love it and I think we will have it forever!

  2. avatar Valery reply

    For our paper anniversary my husband and I gave each other a year of dates! We wrote 12 date ideas on little slips of paper. Then we put them in a jar with cash (more paper!). We’ve gone on one date every month and it’s been such a great way to make sure we’re spending meaningful time together each month.

  3. avatar Stephanie Nelson reply

    I got my husband a subscription to a journal he was always tracking down/borrowing, but for something less academic you could consider a magazine subscription!

  4. avatar D. Chabert reply

    Oh, so I’ve got to get silverware for our upcoming anniversary. Didn’t know that.

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